TTC after miscarriage thread 12 🌈✨💛💕

[FfayeN]

New thread ladies sorry if I've missed anyone feel free to add 💗
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@mummatara did you have any heavy bleeding? I know you don't complain and might not have said but I had a day of very heavy bleeding and I was only six weeks. I really do hope it's wrapping up for you lovely xx

@theblueflowers well done for not testing!! So hoping this is the cycle 🤞

@MrsCristianoX so I wouldn't say I've had anything I would call heavy bleeding I'm just wearing normal level pads that are not full at any point. I had light bleeding for 2 days then a little heavier for 2/3 days then it tailed off to light/barely anything for another couple of days it stopped yesterday but has come back today I would say between a light-medium flow. Still very tiny clots and very minimal cramping I don't usually cramp in AF so it's an upgrade in that sense but nothing painful I haven't taken any painkillers. Today I've seen more clots than I've had all week so maybe today/tomorrow it might clear out 🤔 tbh I've never had very heavy periods I wonder if I just don't get a thick lining. When I was on the pill my period was 2 days long and there would almost be no point in me putting in a pad or tampon. Since being off the pill they average 3-5 days and I have more blood but I would still call it a light flow I get away with panty liners the whole time

@mummatara I don't know. I don't think it's over yet. But I hope I'm wrong. I'm also sure you don't need to hear that. I take aspirin so that definitely didn't help me. When is your next appointment? Xx

@MrsCristianoX no I don't think it is either 😭 never mind it is what it is which is mainly frustrating but I can't change it just have to get on with it and whinge to you lot about it 😆 nothing is booked I just have to call if test is still positive at 3 weeks. Bought the required big box of IC so I don't waste millions on frers 😂

I am honestly so grateful to have you all to talk to ❤️❤️ you are the best bunch of ladies

@mummatara bless you 💕 I was scared to say 🙈 I know how much you want this nightmare to end. Here to listen anytime xx

@FfayeN think I'm in for another one minute treat tonight..the way he's looking at me. Must pretend to sleep early

@MrsCristianoX tell him he can only get a one minute go if he sorts you out beforehand 😂 he's got at least one to make up for and then one before he's allowed his minute so he better get to work 🤭 I know I really do want it to over but tbf I would rather carry on bleeding than find out in 3/4 weeks there are retained products. I've been keeping myself occupied I'm on a spending ban, have redone my monthly budget, sorted out some debt to 0% balance transfer and got rid of some unnecessary subscriptions. Put a few bits a pieces on Fb marketplace and there will be more stuff joining it once I get in our spare room which has become the house dumping ground 🙄 it's made me feel a bit tidier in life and it's something I can control the outcome of

@mummatara aww we're all here for you and hope it's over soon. Well done for keeping busy in the meantime.

@MrsCristianoX just tell him the rules...he can only conclude when you have too! 😂🤣🤣!!!

@theblueflowers 11dpo today which is the longest I've gone not testing for a while. I don't feel anything other then terrible constipation and a little more CM than usual...but thinking I'm out. Will test Friday or Saturday morning if my temps don't drop before then xx

@mummatara I look at my house in horror sometimes. Doesn't help DH is a bloody hoarder. I binned one tiny bit of plastic last week and it turned out to be the prototype for a car bit 😂😂

Nope! I'm putting him off tonight..will I use headache or cramps 🤔

@MrsCristianoX haha whoops 🙊 mine doesn't mind chucking stuff he just never gets round to chucking it or putting it away 🙄

@mummatara @MrsCristianoX mine too! He just leaves things lying around and thinks the cleaning fairy will sort out his mess 🤷‍♀️

@mummatara I also think it sounds like you have a little bit further to go. I think you might have something happen soon. Got my fingers crossed it eases up soon though!! 🤞

@LuckyMoonstone did you test today lovely?

BFN for me today so I am officially out :( Next month we'll be using the Fertilily and getting my husband a sperm analysis to see how everything stands there. Fingers crossed it's not dramatically worse from the already terrible position we were in three years ago.

@TheBirdintheCave sorry to hear😔 just a crap feeling isn’t it!

@TheBirdintheCave urgh I'm sorry. Bfn is the hardest. Is your DH on any sups for his spermies? The fertility seems to have good feedback on here! I tried this cycle - put it up and honestly felt like it got lost in the void of my cervix 😂

@bunnykins123 yes and I can’t tell if it’s lighter or not 😕 definitely not as light as I wanted it to be. Had no bleeding at all through the night, but it has come back a bit this morning bright red. I kinda wanted it to be heavier, so I could feel more confident that it was an AF type bleed! Let me find the pics of the tests to compare

The one on the white background is last weekend, the other one is today

@LuckyMoonstone at what point do you need to get another blood test taken? They look quite similar, maybe the one today is a bit fainter. I so so hope they are just slowly coming down 🤞

last night when i was putting my pessary in I noticed my vagina is really swollen and has all wee lumps inside, it’s tender too. I’ve never noticed these lumps before I asked dh and he said he’d never felt them before. I haven’t let him near me in a while so I think the only way to know if they’re new is to get him to check but I couldn’t think of anything worse right now 😂 has anyone who’s a cervix checker ever noticed if this is the normal anatomy for the vagina or have I another problem to add to my growing list 🤷🏼‍♀️ 😂

Yeah he's been taking all manner of things (vitamin C, selenium, Wellman conception, cod liver oil) to try and improve it but there's no miracle cure for motility or even any supplement that's proven to help improve it :( Fortunately, he has A LOT of sperm (according to the last analysis) so I try to look at it as even though only 16% of his sperm are any good he produces far more than the average man so maybe it evens out a little? :/

@LuckyMoonstone I feel like today's is a little lighter compared to last week.

I do notice some nodules on my cervix sometimes but as they're not there all the time I'm pretty sure it's a hormonal thing. Could the swelling be from the pessaries? I took mine using the... other... entrance so I don't know what the side effects would be for vaginal use :/

@TheBirdintheCave i feel like everyone uses it rectally maybe I should give it a go instead. I’ve already got it in for the day so I’ll give it a go tonight and see if it makes a difference. I’m not sure it’s helping or if it’s causing my cervix to still be bleeding. I’m on day 5 of light bleeding. No cramps or clots 🤷🏼‍♀️

@bunnykins123 next blood test is this Sunday @@TheBirdintheCave yeah I do think maybe todays is a bit lighter? I was hoping for a bigger jump though!

@TheBirdintheCave ah I'm sorry, never easy. Hopefully the fertilily will be just the thing you need.

@LuckyMoonstone it does seem lighter, but so frustrating that it's going down so slowly!

@theblueflowers maybe the bleeding will hurry it up a bit now. Although it’s currently following the same pattern as yesterday- one red bleed and then just dark/brown for a few hours after