🌈 TTC after miscarriage thread 9 🌈💕🤞⭐️

[bunnykins123]

@LuckyMoonstone @MrsCristiano @Astar21 @curliegirlie @emhope @HoneyPea @FfayeN @Mabelledox @Indianna2006 @mummatara @Skylark1990 @theblueflowers

New thread ladies - please add anyone I've missed 💕

@MIW01 if you’ve already had a scan and it was all clear I wouldn’t worry too much. Just keep an eye on your bleeding and if you’re soaking more than 2 big pads in an hour or less go to a&e! This journey is crazy and full of highs and lows so just try to relax and take it as it comes, you’ll be back to normal in no time I’m sure. In the meantime just be kind to yourself and give your body the time it needs to recover. Sending virtual hugs xx

@MIW01 the only other thing would be if it could be an infection, have you got any pain? Or a high temperature? Also forgive the personal question but is there any pus in the blood or does it smell really bad? (You’d know if it did, you don’t need to go getting your nose right in it!) if so, you’d need to speak to a doc xxx

@LuckyMoonstone soo ..after a shit week at work and about to enter fertile week I've been conscious that we haven't been DTD enough (OPKs still low so no harm done really) but DH has been in bad form too (man Pms?? Sometimes he gets grumpy🤷‍♀️) but he comes to bed really late and I've been sleeping like a normal person. So Friday night and all day Saturday I've been teasing him a bit, almost like gearing him up for DTD but because im in bed earlier and sleeping nothing has happened. Until yesterday. When we finally DTD let's just say he put 'it' in and exploded 😂 🙈 no actual DTD required. So random. Apologies ladies.

@MIW01 virtual hugs lovely. It's an absolutely hateful thing 💔 the scan was clear so that's good xx I'm so sorry you are feeling sad but please talk to us we've all been there 😘

@MrsCristiano ooh you tease 😂 I’d have to start now ready for an explosion this weekend haha

@LuckyMoonstone if he came to bed at a reasonable hour he could have had me 🤣

😂😂😂😂 this made me snort! Hubby sitting here looking at me like I've 2 heads, not telling him tho! This is my secret place! Too funny!

@Chellooo thank god! I was kinda worried I had shocked everyone 😅

Only happened once! And after the 45 min session I think I was due a quickie

@Chellooo there's no way to make prick tease sound normal. I was composing the message when he got home. He's all like 'who you texting??' Best you never know hun

@LuckyMoonstone good luck tomorrow!! 🤞 let us know how it goes!

@mummatara thanks for the heads up, let's see what my temps do tomorrow when temping 'properly' 😂 omgggg I can't believe some people would be so insensitive. Ignore them. 3+ is an incredibly positive sign. I agree coming off those forums is probably a good idea, stick with talking to people/forums that make you feel good and positive. You've totally got this!!! Your holiday sounds like it'll be absolutely divine!

@AwayWeGo22 haha thanks! Glad I'm not the only one 😂 let's see what tomorrows temps brings...

@Mariabombia great news about the negative test!

@MrsCristiano awesome, I've just bought a pack of 50. Jeezus I so hope I won't need all of them 🤦‍♀️ omg lolzzzz, I need to take a leaf out of your book!!

Another pregnancy announcement for me tonight, very happy for them but wow, it's not getting any easier 😓

@bunnykins123 I'll likely be buying them off you. Mine never went higher than 0.49 today🙄

We talk too much mainly me on my days off..pretty sure we are reaching our limit I blame myself. Thinking of a game plan for the next few days and the hubby who hates DTD under pressure.. same again?😂

@LuckyMoonstone good luck tomorrow xx be thinking of you x

@theblueflowers did your OPK get much higher?

Thanks gang I’ll let you know what the doc says 🤞

@MrsCristiano 🤣 yep best he never knows! You were def due a quickie it's only fair

@LuckyMoonstone good luck lovely 💕

@bunnykins123 thanks I've already got rid of and do feel a lot better. I was so shocked when I read the comment my happy mood deflated in an instant but today I've chatted to a friend who has had a lot of MCs so she gets it and my mum coz you gotta love a mum chat and feel really good tonight. Good luck with your new temping regime 😬

@AwayWeGo22 ahhh lovely that sucks could the strip just be less sensitive? I never even got a line on them until 14dpo and even then it was a squinter. I had a few left so tested with them 14/15/16/17 dpo and honestly you could see it sort of but if my DH would have looked he would not have said there wasnt anything there they were so faint

My joy was short lived. Mega cramping after DTD tonight but I read it can happen if you are ovulating? Never happened before but I going with that

@MrsCristiano that doesn’t sound pleasant! Hope you’re ok and 🤞 it was your ov!

My test this morning with fmu was very faint so just waiting for the bleeding to start now. Think I’m going to quit forums for a bit, got myself all excited telling you all 🤣Good luck everyone! Might check back in for my next tww (because it’s always the longest 2 weeks ever and how else am I going to keep sane?!) xxx

@AwayWeGo22 oh no was it an IC ? My last cycle I did this and posted pics you aren't an idiot at all. Cps are horrible but not your fault xx take an AF break and come back 😘

@AwayWeGo22 oh hun, I'm so sorry 😢 it's so disappointing when you see a line and then for it to fade especially when you want it so badly. Take all the time out that you need, I think it can be good to have a break from thinking about ttc 💕

@MrsCristiano I get O pains, mainly in the evening. Do you not usually get them? I do think the more aware of our body we are, the more we notice them. Did you manage to get another 10second sesh in last night?!

@mummatara that's good and exactly what you need around you right now! Talk to the people who bring you up 💕 haha so I did temp both ways (otherwise how else will I know, right?!) and it's about a 0.20 difference so I guess there is something in it. I logged the way I usually do it otherwise my chart would look like I've had a massive spike on 8dpo which typically I'd get really excited about 😂

@bunnykins123 I do get them but not as severe after sex though. Lol no!!! It was about 3 mins but he came looking for me 😊

@MrsCristiano i know 10dpo is still early but I’m gonna write myself off this month. I’m not gonna order any more OPKs or tests… I think 😂 I haven’t a baldy when AF will come as I never have normal cycles but the last couple days I’ve had the most watery CM ever I’ve never noticed it before in other cycles but it’s got to the point where I’ve to change a few times a day my hormones must be so out of whack.

@mummatara how rude are people. You’ve clearly posted your concerns and hoping for a little encouragement and she’s just went and put the fear of god in you. Some people can’t see other happy. 3+ is good, your hormones are still good and high.

@Margo34 they’re so independent… until they want fed and it’s mum mum mum 😂 He’ll be 1 next month and is taking a few steps and is so determined I could cry 😂

@AwayWeGo22 ah I'm sorry, they are the absolute worst x

@MrsCristiano we have peak! CD22 so ridiculously long, be we are finally there. Hope you get some juicy lines today.

@LuckyMoonstone hope your doctors appointment goes well today!

@AwayWeGo22 so sorry that’s a horrible thing to happen. I may be in the same position as the line on my test seemed lighter today. I’ll just have to wait and see I guess.

@AwayWeGo22 I'm so so sorry, this really sucks 😞❤x How cruel can life be throwing chemicals at people after m/c? When you expect a rainbow and get a slap on the face instead.
I think taking a break from internet/ forums sounds healthy ❤x Thinking of you.

@bunnykins123 sending hugs, pregnancy announcements can be so difficult!

@Luna57 10 dpo is way to early to rule yourself out!!

@MrsCristiano 😳😳😂😂 laughing at the “explosion” chat. It’s a good idea to withhold and then they just get so damn excited. Imagine if they read the chat 😳😳🙈🤣
fingers crossed it was your ovulation you felt 🤞🏼

@mummatara @Margo34 congrats on your 3+ both of you. I’m not going to do any digitals. My own personal choice due to X,Y and Z. But I did test yesterday again and got a very bold line. So I’m taking that as a positive and just running with it for now. All you can do is hope and wait. But be realistic. And that’s what I’m trying to do 🤞🏼🤷🏻‍♀️ Good odds are in our favour rather than bad odds I think. 🤗

@AwayWeGo22 sorry to hear this. Sometimes taking a break is good.

Me & DH haven’t dtd for ages. Last time I was like a rabbit after falling pregnant. But I’m soo crampy atm and keep getting back ache. And tired. Cannot muster up the effort lol. Think I’ll have to make an effort soon though 🙈😂

good luck for those in fertile week which is I think lots of you!

@MrsCristiano i know, 11dpo today but I’ll just see how things go in the next week. I’ve literally only a digital test in the house too so don’t wanna waste it.

so sorry @AwayWeGo22 this ttc business is just a rollercoaster of emotions!