🌈 TTC after miscarriage thread 9 🌈💕🤞⭐️

[bunnykins123]

@LuckyMoonstone @MrsCristiano @Astar21 @curliegirlie @emhope @HoneyPea @FfayeN @Mabelledox @Indianna2006 @mummatara @Skylark1990 @theblueflowers

New thread ladies - please add anyone I've missed 💕

@mummatara dont listen to them! The best thing you can do is relax and stay positive! 3+ is a really good sign!

Hope you enjoy the honeymoon, are you off anywhere nice? Just so I can be jealous 😉

@AwayWeGo22 thanks lovely 💕 I was so happy to see it was like a tiny weight had been lifted then boom I see the comment 🤦🏼‍♀️ we're off to Greece halkidiki we got married in May and originally planned to go then but had to wait for DS passport to come through because I kept forgetting to do it 😂 whoops. This is my first abroad holiday since 2019 and I'm like a kid at Christmas who thinks they've just spotted Santa 🙊

I started bleeding again today. 9 days after bleed that was the miscarriage. I called the midwife triage li e and they advised me it's likely to be a period. I'm now really struggling physically, emotionally and mentally. Feeling very alone.

So just to update you girls, I did another test this morning and can breath a sigh of relief that it's negative never thought I'd be happy about that lol, but I was getting concerned about retained tissue so at least that should mean all okay! As much as a new pregnancy this soon would be amazing I new it would be very unlikely.

Did an ovulation test too and looks like I'm ovulating 👀 about 3.5 post mc.

Although I think I've got thrush or something now so won't be ttc this month🤣🙈 don't think I've ever had it before so not sure what it feels like but tmi I've got really 'tingly' bits. Only symptom, v strange.I've ordered one of those canesten tests before I attempt to get a drs appointment!

Hope you're all doing well

@MIW01 you're not alone lovely, please talk to us xx

@Mariabombia it's a weird feeling isn't it being happy about a negative test 🙈 hope you feel better soon I've ever had thrush so can't help re symptoms

@MIW01 big hugs 💕 it's normal to feel all those things hormones will be everywhere everyone is here to chat if you need it

@bunnykins123 easy@home give good lines xx even when they are faint they are there. Yesterday's test was 0.12 so something ridiculously low for CD11 but we are moving now

@mummatara stay off it till 12 weeks. Talk to us! January group did not help me at all and enjoy your honeymoon my lovely 🥰

@mummatara also 3+ yay!!!!

@MrsCristiano 🤣🤣 thank you! Im def going to stay off of it they are now deleted and hidden and honestly I'm not even tempted to look at them feel so much better. DH was reading all about our hotel because we splashed out on a deluxe collection room we get a bottle of bolly on arrival 🥂 and massages he's going to get to enjoy that all by himself 😭😂 we've booked a scan for 8+3 🤞🏼

@MIW01 I've been to dark places too. You aren't alone at all xx Is it like a period or bright red bleeding? Only reason I ask is because with my first miscarriage at 8 weeks I had retained product and it was just bright red blood one night almost 14 days later

@mummatara I got 3+ recently too, feels like a massive milestone after suffering previous losses. I feel exactly the same as you though - a little 'eeeeek this looks to be going to right direction, phew' but still not enough to relax the worries and enjoy yet. I'll cheer you on from here. Have a wonderful honeymoon and don't forget to tell everyone everywhere you go that it's your honeymoon!! 😍

@AwayWeGo22 got everything crossed for you that it's a sticky one 🤞

@Luna57 I never installed stairgates and my house has 2 flights of steep, narrow and blocked in stairs (so no bannister's to hold on to and bubs too small to reach the handrail)! My toddler is 22m now and I don't even chase up or down the stairs anymore. We're going through a fiercely independent stage too "no hold hand mummy, me do it! ME!" I just loiter at the bottom in the doorway and get told to go away if I even peek up the stairs to check 🙈

@Margo34 thanks lovely it does doesn't it ❤️ i don't know if us ladies will ever not worry just a little bit. Oh don't worry I plan to tell everyone 🤣

@MIW01 you’re not alone, we’ve all be there honey and it does get better! If you’re worried about the bleeding, get on to the epau again, 9 days after the mc sounds a bit early for a period. Hope you’re ok and have support around you.

@Margo34 good news about the 3+! Hope it continues to go well for you!

@mummatara that sounds LUSH! I will be exceedingly jealous from my work desk 😂 we haven’t been away since 2019 either, will have to get planning a holiday now, you’ve inspired me! Enjoy!

Also thank you so much to everyone who has their fingers crossed for me! I really appreciate all of you lovely ladies!

xx

I'm 0.71 this afternoon, so really hoping peak happens tomorrow!

We follow SMEP plan, and today is a dtd day, which means we could have quite a few days on the trot coming up. @MrsCristiano I need your 10 second trick 😂

@theblueflowers oh yay!!! I'm doing another one at half 4🙏...It's a three day trick so I don't think it'll be much use to you now so close to the peak 🤣 I'm off today which is why I'm wondering round peeing on OPKs so much 😅

What, dare I ask, is this 10 second trick 👀

@LuckyMoonstone oh god😂 I'm now infamous for 'the cup' and 'the 10 second DTD'

@MrsCristiano 10 second DTD sounds good enough for me 🤣

@LuckyMoonstone here goes...no I can't write it yet without making me look like a crazy person. I started and am like nope. Half 4 OPK was the same 🧐 I'll do another later 🙏

@LuckyMoonstone also for me..he knows my buttons any longer for ttc is unnecessary 😂

@MrsCristiano oh please tell me 😂 trust me I am in no position to judge anyone!

@MrsCristiano we all need to know the trick now 😂

Oh crap. I think it might be another CP ☹️ Tested last night and got pg 1-2 weeks on a digi then tested again just now on a cheapie and it’s negative. I think there is a hint of a line but dh can’t see it.

Going to test in the morning as haven’t tested with fmu yet but not hopeful as I don’t know exactly when I ovulated but think I should have been due on by now in which case the line should be obvious. I’m a bit bummed. Might go get ice cream to drown my sorrows in fat and sugar 🤣 xxx

Thank you @Mariabombia @MrsCristiano @mummatara @AwayWeGo22 for your kind words. I don't know where to start really, this journey is so long already. I've got bright red blood with congealed stuff amd stringy stuff. Midwives just said keep an eye on it. I got a negative pregnancy test last Thursday at the EPAU and the scan confirmed a complete miscarriage and thin lining. I was hoping that the big bleed was enough to completely clear me out.