🌈 TTC after miscarriage thread 9 🌈💕🤞⭐️

[bunnykins123]

@LuckyMoonstone @MrsCristiano @Astar21 @curliegirlie @emhope @HoneyPea @FfayeN @Mabelledox @Indianna2006 @mummatara @Skylark1990 @theblueflowers

New thread ladies - please add anyone I've missed 💕

Yes you’re right. I’ve learned this the hard way (no pun intended).

@pangolin84 also I did a clearblue this afternoon expecting a fabulous positive...big fat no😤 my FRER this morning did try darker so I'm with you there xx

@pangolin84 🤣🤣 I feel you!

@pangolin84 @MrsCristiano omg hilarious 🤣 def dont let him near you after beer! Mine all dried darker/more obvious to see too.

DH just said to me oh do you want to try some of my really tasty red wine I was like no I'm with child he went oh yeah 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ Jesus forgotten already 😂

@mummatara men (massive eye roll) the only reason I would subject myself to the beer DTD misery is on peak day. I will UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES allow this now in case this tiny bean is sticky!! Protect the bean at all costs now 😂😂

@MrsCristiano 😂😂 all hail the sticky bean 🙏🏼 they better be sticky ones! Yea I'm with you on that don't put yourself through it! He did at least ask if I had done another test today and was it darker so he does listen sometimes

@mummatara yay your DH! I'm not sure mine would ask😅 in his eyes you either have a line or you don't, after 2 miscarriages I'm a bit over sensitive and that's my bad 😕

@mummatara I’m with child, why did that make me laugh so much 😂

@MrsCristiano I was quite impressed I have to say

@LuckyMoonstone 🤣🤣 sometimes I just have to say the weird things probably comes from reading too many books

@LuckyMoonstone love it, sounds like something I’d do 😅

@mummatara for gods sake I just realised I tagged myself instead of you 🤣 imbecile

@LuckyMoonstone 🤣🤣 oooh maybe early baby brain 🤔

@mummatara thank you- yes completely negative this morning but I had had a definite negative at about 4 weeks.
This was a dodgy test or the end of a chemical but no af yet so probably down to the test!
I definitely see lines too @mummatara!

Gosh the thread moves quick, you all sound lovely.

@pangolin84 how frustrating but the lines you have shared really do look promising- I have heard digitalis have to have a certain level to show up.

@Margo34 congratulations! Sorry about 2 mc's same as me this year too.
The only bad thing about joining this thread is not knowing everyone's individual stories, I feel a bit ignorant 😐

@FfayeN I totally get you. We will have a weekend away September time and I wonder if I will be/ won't be. I'm desperate to be pregnant but after losing 2 I'm also scared of being pregnant and losing another.

@Aprilsunnyday mine drinks too, more than I'd like. They say it takes 3 months for a change to influences perm quality.
He was drinking the same in both my pregnancies before and I always wonder if that affected the losses.
How about you?

@MrsCristiano I have everything crossed it's looking positive to me!

@ready4rainbow hopefully 🙏 😘

Girls I've officially lost the plot. Im actually peeing on OPKs now to see if they go darker. Thank the lord I'm at work tomorrow🤣 I'm the imbecile now😂😂

And good night from the madhouse 😅 xx

@ready4rainbow if you are able to work your way around Mumsnet, you'll find the previous thread and everyone shared their situation. A good read for a rainy day perhaps (not that we are getting one of those anytime soon!)

@mummatara I now firmly have a mental image of you dressed like you'd just stepped out of the Georgian era 🫠

@MrsCristiano ahhh CBs are waaay less sensitive. Do you have another stash of FRERs for tomorrow? Oh god I don't blame you having a bding ban after drinking 😂

@Aprilsunnyday it's a tricky one. We spoke about it last week actually and he said he will drink a bit less (he's had a big weekend of boozing and has a gammy foot so no exercise either 🙄) so let's see what happens. I feel like if I put too many restrictions on him, he will resent ttc and I don't want that. So for now, I'm asking him just to be 'mindful' (whatever that even means 😂😂)

@bunnykins123 I've one left. Ordered another two today..am running out of cheapies therefore I'm like 'what's the next best thing to pee on?' to satisfy the need 😂 send help

Took the clearblue after a 1 hr hold so I'm not counting it😅

@mummatara I'm definitely using that saying cheered me right up 😂

Argh my ovusense subscription ran out because I forgot to update my new card details 😤 so I can’t get my data this morning. It’s a good job this happened after ovulation.. maybe it’s a sign that I won’t be needing it anymore???

@LuckyMoonstone oooo I like a sign! Fingers crossed! Will you renew the subscription though?!

@MrsCristiano but will you retest this morning?! I'm guessing the lh strips aren't very conclusive at this point 🤔

@bunnykins123 hey, no retesting I'm in work really early 🙄 lovely 10hr shift coming up which may be the best thing for me atm. Yea lh strips are not the best😅

Good morning all so happy for everyone who has had a positive result, I can not wait to ttc again hopefully soon, good luck to everyone else x

After last nights twinges the crazy testing fiend inside me woke up and demanded that I take a cheapie this morning. Is there a shadow of a line here or am I going nuts? 😅

@bunnykins123 well I changed the payment method to PayPal because I didn’t have my purse by me to get my new card details. But it doesn’t seem to have done anything yet as it still says expired on the app. So I’ve emailed customer services. But hopefully I won’t need it! I like signs too haha, except for when they turn out to mean nothing 🫣

8dpo now, achey boobs and my nips occasionally feel funny haha but I think I always get this between O and AF! Cervix has gone higher again this morning but again that’s normal in the mornings. No CM at all unless I physically feel for it myself, and then it’s quite scarce. And that’s it really, I don’t feel sick or anything. But it is still early.

@TheBirdintheCave hmmm I can see a line when I zoom in but can’t tell if it’s got colour or not 🤔 I hope so!

@LuckyMoonstone I can't tell either :/ The last time I had a shadow like this was at the start of the pregnancy I miscarried so it's maybe given me a bit of hope BUT it's in all honesty probably just a dodgy test.

Is anyone here nursing a toddler or older child? My DC1 is 22m and nurses 3 or 4 times in 24hr. My anxiety about MC again is sky high and it has occured to me whether breastfeeding could be contributing to MC? Maybe I'm just paranoid but I can't stop wondering about everything and anything that might prevent another bean from sticking and if it's time to wean? Any idea, anyone?