🌈 TTC after miscarriage thread 9 🌈💕🤞⭐️

[bunnykins123]

@LuckyMoonstone @MrsCristiano @Astar21 @curliegirlie @emhope @HoneyPea @FfayeN @Mabelledox @Indianna2006 @mummatara @Skylark1990 @theblueflowers

New thread ladies - please add anyone I've missed 💕

@MrsCristiano tbh I was shocked there was a line it was obv negative on a cheap strip. I was fully expecting it to be negative

@bubble55 so sorry lovely I can't comment on the bleeding as my MC was surgical but it hopefully it will stop soon and all will be ok will the EPU not give you a scan now?

@mummatara they are fully booked until the weekend :( I feel like I know the outcome but this baby was so desperately wanted and planned (like so many on here) and I just want to get on and TTC again.

@mummatara tentative congratulations, I deffo see the line!
So my body is going off-piste this month. Despite ovulation being day 17-18 last few months I'm day 11 and hit a 0.7. Also got some ovulation prep pains, bloody typical I'm not seeing DH until Saturday. What was going to be too early may now be too late and I've not started temping either 🫣

@bubble55 sorry to hear this lovely. All I can say is I hope you manage to get through the next two days as well as possible. All is not lost, some people do bleed in early pregnancy. When I had my natural though i had an idea before being told, was very heavy and I had cramping too, I went to A&E to see if there was anything they could do rather than waiting for a scan so this could be an option if it's worse tomorrow 😘. Sending you hugs xxxx

@LuckyMoonstone haha even if I had none in the house most likely by Friday I would have been on Amazon prime getting some 😂 zero self control

I'm glad you all see the line too 🥴

@FfayeN oooh no that's so annoying

@mummatara deffo see the faint line!! 🤞🏼 For tomo. What dpo are you then?

@curliegirlie finally ovulation pains this afternoon. Made me crampy as fuck. But dunno why it was 2 days late this month. Playing tricks on me 😂

@Indianna2006 yay! I'm glad you seem to be joining @LuckyMoonstone in the ovulated club! Still not a sausage here at CD15, so looks like I'll be on the later side this month 🙄 And a tentative congratulations @mummatara!

@Indianna2006 I was actually beginning to worry about you..thank god you posted 😂 another one hour session may have killed u 😂

@MrsCristiano hahaha we did manage dtd again last night. Thankfully it was a fairly quick one or it would of killed me off.

now it’s just so I leave it. Or try for it again later. I really cannot be arsed. With done 4 days in a row with one as an hour session. Think I’m sexed out 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

@curliegirlie ahh man. Any signs like EWCM yet? Hopefully it won’t be too long for you!

@Indianna2006 I'm 8dpo but it was afternoon wee so 8.5 dpo 😂 bloody hell you deserve a gold medal if you go again tonight 🥴

Eeek @mummatara fingers crossed for you! Are you going to test again tomorrow FMU or wait another day (or 2?) It's so hard when you have tests in the house!

@bubble55 both my natural MC this year I bled for somewhere between 2-3 weeks, and then was also still testing positive for a long while afterwards (5 weeks after!) Also TTC a much wanted #2. Sorry you find yourself here, fingers crossed it's a one-off nothing bleed for you.

My hormones seem all over the shop. I've been pre-AF cranky (for all of 5min on Tues instead of the 3-3 days of stubborn crankiness I usually suffer with), and today I had what seemed to be close to EWCM. I'm not even convinced I O'd this month, usually I'm a CD13 kinda gal and I'm on CD24 now so AF would usually be due around Sat/Sun. But my apps suggest this will be a longer cycle with AF due later next week (probably because of being skewed by MC, maybe)? My mum commented yesterday that my skin looks really good too (haven't seen her for weeks, retired folk holidaying lots) and I would usually have a mild break out by now.

What do we reckon?

@Margo34 there's no way I have the patience to wait 2 days 😂 I'll test tomorrow with FMU but i won't be disappointed if it isn't a stronger I know 48 hours is the rule and it's still v early

@Indianna2006 I think you are done! Or maybe one more for luck? (I couldn't😂) I am not testing till 12dpo I refuse to squint for imaginary lines this cycle

@Indianna2006 go on have one more for luck 😂 and if you both just pass out at least you tried
@MrsCristiano same here, I’m not even going to bother until AF is due
@mummatara it is dangerous having Amazon prime at my fingertips 😂 I will resist!

@LuckyMoonstone honestly it's so hard seeing a bfn 😞 even though I know it's very likely this month and then thinking you might see a line in a certain light🤯

@bubble55 I’m sorry you’re going through this. When I had a natural miscarriage at 6 weeks the bleeding felt like a very heavy and painful period. Have you had any cramping? I think my bleeding lasted about a week. As far as I know you can start TTC as soon as you feel ready after natural miscarriage. Sometimes they say to wait a cycle but I think that’s more for dating the next pregnancy than for medical reasons.
My hormones went a bit wacky after mine and I had very irregular cycles for a few months. I had no clue about tracking stuff back then so I was naively thinking I ovulated on day 14 like they told us at school 🤦🏼‍♀️ Took us another year to conceive again!

@mummatara OMG I see the line! And I’m someone who isn’t very good at seeing the line 😂
Exciting! Got everything crossed this one is here to stay.
Now tempted to test in the morning with my one and only FRER…

Morning ladies this mornings test wasn't any different from yesterdays which I'm not overly surprised about since it's only been half a day 😆 I was desperate for a wee at 3am and had to go so my test wee was only a 4 hour hold don't really know if that makes any difference or not 🤷🏼‍♀️ I'm still getting bfn on cheap strips so the amount must be super super small

Forgot to put pic 🤦🏼‍♀️

@mummatara to me that one looks darker? Have you got a pic of both the tests together? 💕

@bunnykins123 I've just put them together todays is slightly darker

@mummatara defo think there is a tiny difference between the two! tentative congratulations 🤞🤞 how are you feeling?

@mummatara I can see a difference between those two! Congratulations lovely ❤️