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Two week wait, needing some company!

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SylvieArth · 28/05/2022 16:46

Hi everyone 👋
I've had two miscarriages, one in November 2021, and one in January 2022. Me and my partner have been trying for over a year. We have tried really hard this month to catch ovulation by using OPK's. I'm currently in the dreaded 2WW.

Anyone else out there in the same position? Would love some company in this tricky time! X

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AirGirl · 31/05/2022 19:20

Loouloo · 30/05/2022 15:07

I want to join as well! The 2 ww is horrible… I’m 10 dpo but I’ve promised myself not to test until Friday.
Had a miscarriage early March, most devastating experience me and my fiancé have ever had. This month we’ve done everything in our power, but I have a feeling it’s not our time.

Feel exactly, literally the exact same way, as you. Sending you love. You're not alone and you will be in my prayers xx

Loouloo · 31/05/2022 19:24

Thank you @AirGirl ❤️ You too!

BabyBx · 01/06/2022 08:03

Hiya everyone, how are you all feeling today? I think I'm around 5-6 dpo today x

Loouloo · 01/06/2022 09:08

I’m feeling a bit discouraged today, 12 dpo, AF is due on Friday and I think it’s coming. TMI but I had a slightly darker discharge today and I think that’s pre-spotting

SylvieArth · 01/06/2022 09:22

Morning ladies! @Loouloo sorry to hear that, keep us updated. Sending so much love your way in the waiting process ❤

I'm about 5-6 dpo today. Progesterone peak symptoms have subsided a bit. Don't feel sick and not really cramping any more. Just need to sit tight and see what happens now 🤦🏼‍♀️ I'm really going to try and hold out for my AF due date before any testing. The number of negatives I've had to face in the past is just too painful... or the positive and then the AF. Just can't do it anymore 😅💔 xx

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Loouloo · 01/06/2022 09:26

Thank you @SylvieArth! I can feel your support ❤️

argh, the wait is so hard! But sometimes the negatives are harder so I think it’s a good idea to wait until AF ❤️ With that said, it’s not an easy task to wait, haha

Lolly16 · 01/06/2022 10:30

Morning everyone!

@Loouloo oh I’m keeping my fingers crossed for you, that it’s not what you think. Hoping for lots of BFPs on this thread.

I’m 7DPO today. I felt a bit breathless yesterday evening, which was a symptom with 2 of my other pregnancies. Also pretty bloated this morning, which usually only happens around ovulation and AF. Probably nothing though and I’m just overthinking everything.

BabyBx · 01/06/2022 10:49

@Loouloo sorry to hear that but try stay positive, you just never know! I pray this month is your month 🥰!!
@SylvieArth I'm going to try wait nearer the time of AF too, it's good you've had some cramping though - fingers crossed 🥰
@Lolly16 omg, that's crazy because last night I too felt breathless! I was cleaning up and sat down all of a sudden it was hard to get a breath in, which was very weird and I swear I had it with other pregnancies too but who knows! I too feel like I'm going crazy symptom spotting 😂

I hope for lots of BFPs on this thread too! 🙏

SylvieArth · 01/06/2022 16:13

Come on BFP's!!!! Xxx

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BabyBx · 01/06/2022 16:25

Argos I can't stop thinking about it! Are you the same @SylvieArth? I hope these days go by fast! 🙈

BabyBx · 01/06/2022 16:25

Argh* not argos! 😂😂😂

BabyBx · 01/06/2022 16:30

What tests will you all be using? I haven't got any just yet. If I buy some now, I know I'll want to test and it's too early x

MooBugz · 01/06/2022 17:41

I'm 4dpo and I'm going to try and wait till AF is due to avoid the emotional rollercoaster that negatives give.
Saying that I will probably cave and test next week 🤣

SylvieArth · 01/06/2022 18:33

Yup! I'm the same. Trying so hard to block it from my mind 😅 but it's very difficult. All I can think of is... ooo I wonder if I'm about to go through implantation 🤣🤣🤣

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JSS15 · 01/06/2022 18:53

All my "symptoms" seem to have gone so that's helping me keep my mind off it! I've got some of the easy@home tests from Amazon that I'm going to use

SylvieArth · 01/06/2022 21:08

Will probably use a FRER but I do have the strips too... eek!!!

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MooBugz · 01/06/2022 21:11

SylvieArth · 01/06/2022 21:08

Will probably use a FRER but I do have the strips too... eek!!!

Same! I've put the FRER away upstairs in a box to deter me but like you I'm like hmmm I wonder..

Loouloo · 02/06/2022 05:58

I’m spotting so AF is probably arriving later today or tomorrow ☹️
Ugh, I’m so disappointed 😢 no February baby for me

SylvieArth · 02/06/2022 09:27

@Loouloo I'm so sorry to hear that! :-( sending you the biggest love!

I'm 7DPO today, officially half way through the TWW. Absolutely zero symptoms or feelings now though xx

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BabyBx · 02/06/2022 10:07

@Loouloo sorry to hear that 😔 I hope your OK 😔 the disappointment seeing AF is horrible sending hugs to you xx

@SylvieArth last night I was really breathless, it was so weird I had it the night before too, and then this morning as I was making breakfast I felt abit nauseous! It's so strange. I'm trying not to think too much into it xx

AllFakeFurCoatAndNoSpanx · 02/06/2022 10:17

I'm so sorry to hear of your losses 💐

I'm exactly half way through the 2WW. This is our 7th cycle TTC and as I'm nearly 39 if this one doesn't work I'm told I should be going to GP 😔It's all so anxiety inducing!

I was incredibly laid back at first, and tbh pretty convinced it was going to happen quickly as my DMum and Disis both got pregnant late and fast. Now I'm realising how utterly naive I was (and understanding the slightly cryptic "oh, honey..." looks I was getting from friends who've been through TTC when I expressed all my hopes)

Anyway 7 days to go and I have zero symptoms whatsoever. Trying not to get any hopes up and so wish I could have a cold glass of wine in the sun this bank holiday! Instead it's folic acid and smoothie and wishing this week would hurry up!

Wishing everyone lots of luck xxx

Loouloo · 03/06/2022 05:00

AF arrived in full force this morning right on 14 dpo, at least my cycle is regular!

Really hoping for positive news from all of you! Sending you baby dust ❤️✨

BabyBx · 03/06/2022 05:35

@AllFakeFurCoatAndNoSpanx hiya! It can take a while with some couples and some couples just instantly fall pregnant, it's crazy and it's so hard when it feels like it isn't working and AF arrives every single month. I really hope and pray for you this month, with my second pregnancy (she's 6 now) I didn't find out I was pregnant till around 5-6 weeks, I had no symptoms, my boobs didn't hurt, nothing. We've all got our fingers crossed for you 🤞❤
@Loouloo I am soo sorry to hear that! But that's good your regular! I hope next month will be your month 🤞🤞

How's everyone feeling?
I've not being able to sleep, all night I've kept waking up and last night I woke at 4am randomly where as I usually sleep through so I'm very tired 😔 I'm 8dpo today I think xx

georgarina · 03/06/2022 07:12

Hi, can I join? 7 dpo today and feeling absolutely nothing...but this happened in my last (successful) pregnancy too so 🤷 just going to wait and see. GL to everyone

BabyBx · 03/06/2022 08:50

Good luck @georgarina 🤞🤞🤞 let us know how you get on ❤

Is anyone going to test before AF is due? Xx