Hi Cam75
OK thanks. Like Viksam said, lots of hands to hold here! We all have been through the mill a bit.
Most of the ladies here have been on Clomid, but like you, I am still waiting to be given it.
I have a DS aged 3 , conceived naturally and immediately. My story is that I have been trying for now almost 16 months for the second. It is all weird, we are both young - I am just 30, hubby 32 and in good health. I suppose my weight has to be of some factor...but I fell pregnant with DS and I was overweight then too! Ah well.
Anyway, VERY long story short - managed to get pregnant myself in Feb 08, unfortunately miscarried at 7 weeks. Have my next appointment at subfertility on 2nd June. In the meantime, killing myself to keep losing weight which is a bugger with PCOS ( yes I was just diagnosed this year after TTC with no luck ). I have lost to date 2 stone though! So I well pleased. If I can get off 1 more stone I will be happy with my weight. I will still be overweight-obese going by the bmi table, but that is a load of bull anyway. As long as I am no more than a size 14 then that is fine.
Last appointments I had, they refused to give me Clomid because of weight.. THere is the new stupid bmi rule, your bmi has to be below 35 before they prescribe.
Now I got my bmi down to 33.5 so they better give it to me on the 2nd!
YOu mentioned you managed to fall pregnant before? So is this the 2nd you are trying for too?
Fruity
I was appalled by your story. More reason for me to get pi**ed off with the NHS.
I mean honestly! YOu were going to have to wait forever in the first place, and now they have just shunted it almost 2 months more! OUTRAGES!
I understand your difficulty being a childminder and all. My DS goes to a childminder and she always has to book hospital appointments/dentist for after 6pm.
HOwever I do agree with Attila - your sub-fertility unit sounds like it is totally rubbish in organising itself! If you could ask to change hospitals, it might be short term hassle for long term gains?