Waiting to TTC,any one else in similar sitch??

[Wannabamummy]

Hi all

am looking for ppl in similar situation who are waiting to start TTC, interested to hear when thay are planning to start, reasons for waiting etc!

I am waiting to TTC as DP and i have agreed due to number of reasons, holiday in aug and trying to get ourselves better off financially, getting head straigh after mc in july, spending time together... Would just like to hear from those in similar boat, would be nice to get excited with someone!! sometimes feel an intruder being here hope no one minds!

LOLOLOL you can't type and I can't read, we make a good team LOL

Ahem,

I think I might take this opportunity to import something from when I was on the TTC threads before. We all got fed up with BD'ing, not the act you understand, the acronym. So, I changed it to a GOF, do I have to explain what that stands for? Anyway, so if I come out with a GOF instead of BD, that's why.

Oh, and I don't do any baby dust stuff either....

Yes EXPLAIN . Even my sewer brain can't work that one out . And deffo no babydust!!

OMG so much for my no info is too much info....

I will say it once and once only, a GOF is a good ol' fuck

You know I thought the f word (I am a laydee and cannot speak such filth ) was in there somewhere! Yes, I propose GOF as the official phrase for our group!
Right, off to Wales for nephew's birthday party. Speak later!

Pah, by the time we have all discussed the above, there will be no laydees left - believe me!!

Have a good time xxx

ha-ha...love the commitment to full and colourful disclosure!! Definitely right up my street .

Nay on the hpt front ... I ordered from ebay on the basis of Next Day delivery on tuesday or something!!! got an email today saying "turn up Monday"...I don't know whether it is a promise or a challenge .

Anyway, AF is due today so maybe the fates are saving me from myself?

Oh Tuech are ou not going to indulge us all in your symptoms?

Go on, y'know you want to

Seriously, tell me everything LOL

Meant to say as well, I ordered some of those cheap tests on eBay, they were delivered the next day, as in the Wednesday after the Tuesday, not the Tuesday after the Thursday!

Okaaayyyy! Couldn't manage more than a glass of wine last night .

CP high, CM aplenty, very crampy (but not today), knackered (more to do with night wakening from DS!) and on-off nausea (I think from tiredness).

I have a suspicion I OV'd late though, and AF perhaps not due until next weekend...

Oooooo it's started, Symptom Spotters 'R' Us from here on in girlies

Stop making excuses for the symptoms, we don't want to hear them

How many times have you been for a wee today?

(Very for you on the wine front, I don't know how you managed!!! )

Hi and welcome Geordie

We need that list updating...

I had the injection up until we TTC'd for DS1. They say it can take up to 18 months for fertility to return to normal, took us 6 months so not too bad, but either way that should be well out of your system by now. I don't now anything at all about the implant, but I am sure someone on MN will know if you have any questions about it.

C'mon then, indulge us all, what's your names?

I have boys name(s), and a buggy picked out already DH doesn't like the names, yet, but he will, if he knows what's good for him

Right will try and sort list out....

Teuch, ??, DC1, NOW

Diege, 37, DC4, work-related, April 08.

BabyBump2B, ??, DC1, waiting for wedding, April 08.

Bemylilbaby,20, DC1, Miscarriage/money, May 08.

NatalieJane, 24, DC3, Miscarriage and a few little other things, May 08.

HalyconDays, old, DC3, building work, July 08

HorseyWoman, DC1?, Getting well, August 08

Playing, 25, DC1, financial, Sept 08

Cosmogirl, 25, DC1, financial/work-related, December 08.

Tinx, DC1, Get fit, ????????

Is that all right? Feel free to fill in missing info

Seth and Aled are my names, DH says Seth is an old man's name, (because obviously they were all born old ) and Aled is too Welsh apparently!

We already have a Thomas and a George so I don't think sticking a Haydon in the mix would work somehow!

And our last name is Oliver, so it has to be something very man-ish or it will sound crap.

And on top of all that because the last initial is O, we can't have anything starting with loads of letters, anyone fancy having the intials BO, no?? How about FO?? Me neither!!

OMG, can not believe I have just managed to write all of that about choosing a name for a baby we haven't even started trying for

Oh, and obivously we are desitined to have another boy, I can't think of a single girls name that I like.

Though we had Maia picked for if DS2 was a girl.....

I just wrote more about names didn't i? Sorry

Welcome GEORDIE to our little group . Love your names (v.good taste there with Scarlett, my dd2 , my other dds are called Jasmine (dd1) and Liberty (dd3). If we had another girl, it would be 'Mathilda', or a boy Louis (pronounced Louie). Think I only do girls though . I also like Tabitha (no one else does.
Good luck TEUCH! Lots of CM is a GOOD SIGN . As NJ says, please indulge us with your symptoms!

Morning! GEORDIE, I do like Seth I must admit, and also Aled (I'm Welsh ) Dare I say Bryn is becoming very common in Wales (like 'Seren') but hasn't quite got that 'chav-ish' label ! I think I'll have 4 girls myself; tbh, if I had a boy this time I'd be tempted to have another so that he wouldn't be the only boy (a 'little prince') but then I could be trying forever! Really like the idea of four girls, though think dh would be a little overwhelmed!
Hope everyone is having good weekends! Agree, Feb seems very close which means just 2 months left for me of non-obsessing over (non-existant) symptoms

Morning all

4 kids????????

OMG, Just realised I went to update the list for Georgdie, and I somehow managed to leave you off it.... Sure I remember putting your details on I must be going mad, so sorry, I will do it as soon as I have finished

Well my DH is at the moment in Scotland, doing a job, he is on call this weekend, that normally means going to Manchester or something but bloody Scotland? He is abroad!!! So I have the whole day to keep the kids busy so I can MN again

Right off to do the list

Teuch, ??, DC1, NOW

Diege, 37, DC4, work-related, April 08.

BabyBump2B, ??, DC1, waiting for wedding, April 08.

GeordieJogger, ??, DC1, waiting for removal of implant, April 08.

Bemylilbaby,20, DC1, Miscarriage/money, May 08.

NatalieJane, 24, DC3, Miscarriage and a few little other things, May 08.

HalyconDays, old, DC3, building work, July 08

HorseyWoman, DC1?, Getting well, August 08

Playing, 25, DC1, financial, Sept 08

Cosmogirl, 25, DC1, financial/work-related, December 08.

Tinx, DC1, Get fit, ????????

Now this time when I ask if it is all right, will someone answer me please!!!!

Is it all right? ........

YES it's alright!!! (as far as I can tell...)Glad to see I'm not the only April person! Lol at 4 children fear; when you get your 3rd, the 4th doesn't seem that much more work I can tell you (life gone anyway...they outnumber you and dh/dp...)A friend of mine from my mumsnet postnatal group (still going stong after 2+ years) was going for no.4 and got pregnant with twins, due this July !!)

TWINS [shcok]

No I can see how adding another in the mix doesn't seem such a leap! DH has already declared he is going to go for the snip once this baby is here, I agreed and nodded and made the right noises, but we'll see!!!

Agree NJ, the nodding and smiling technique tends to work best for these things I find. A massive negative reaction always provokes them, the poor dears...
I don't know about anyone else, but the biggest leap for me was going from none to one (not to put off those ttc no.1!)