Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

[Skl2021]

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

@PamelaDoov 🤞 it all comes on time for you! Yes just keep an eye on everything make sure your tests are negative so u don't get mixed up if you have a new pregnancy x

@Skl2021 thanks. Feeling a bit down about it all again today after a better day yesterday.

@PamelaDoov I think that's pretty normal. It comes in waves. I still have good and bad days 3 months on. You will get there. 💞 X

Can I join? Gutted.

@Skl2021 I caved and bought the tests....🙈 x

@Ganesh2022 of course you can are you ok x

@calimc83 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 were has that willpower gone?!

Thanks, I'm really not. I'll admit I haven't yet read the whole thread so not sure where everyone is at. I had a gut feeling that things weren't progressing (no sickness, which is my norm, and...just a feeling) and sadly was confirmed yesterday. Feeling worried about how it'll be managed and also at 38 plus hearing the clock loud and clear. Sending much love to everyone who is struggling.

*Just wanted to be mindful to not upset anyone as I know how horrible it can be reading something that makes your stomach sink--I know loads of people who've had zero sickness and have been totally fine (and sadly the opposite) so did not mean to say it's a sign of anything gone wrong or that symptoms are an indication either way. Just, for me, combined with a gut feeling that something wasn't ok, it made me investigate as was very, very different to my previous pregnancies.

@Ganesh2022 sorry to hear that. Is this your first miscarriage? Have u been told your options? Yes sometimes you do just have a gut feeling. I had one when I went to my scan but I had bleeding on and off. I had a natural miscarriage at 12 weeks. X

So sorry @Ganesh2022

@Skl2021 walked into Boots....and headed straight for them! But not used one yet 🙈 need to hold out. How u doing? X

@Hopingforarainbow27 how are your symptoms? X

@Ganesh2022 welcome, I'm so so sorry for your loss. This was my 3rd pregnancy, I had a MMC at around 9 weeks in Nov. Found out at a harmony scan. Strangely enough I'd felt rough all pregnancy with this one and my symptoms did taper off but I thought it was to do with placenta taking over. I have a 4 and 2yr old and never felt that rough with them. I turned 39 last week so also v much feeling the pressure of time..xx

@calimc83 oh no 🙊😂 hold strong don't use one yet it's too early! What dpo are you now? I'm doing ok I think my test was darker today 🤔😂🙄 or I'm seeing things but I have no ewcm so don't know what's going on. I get it every month for days!! X

@calimc83 I woke up this morning convinced I'm not pregnant. Boobs are a wee bit sore when I touch them but that's really all. I've 5 days to wait 🤦🏽‍♀️

@Hopingforarainbow27 I'm the same...don't think it's this cycle. Stupidly decided to try the OPK theory as I have loads of them...absolutely nothing showing! Not even a faint line 🙈😆 x

@Skl2021 7 days DPO...nope not going to! But caved to an OPK which was 💯 negative...didn't even think that was possible?! That OPK looks promising..u going to get down to business?! X

@calimc83 yes u still have time it's too early yet! Keep postive 🙌 I wouldn't use one yet! Did it not have a faint line? Think it depends on the tests I have used some in the past were I had no lines too! I thought they were broke 😂🤦 yes I thought it was quite dark nearly there but then it's throwing me with having no symptoms my brain is like dont trust it 😂 yes I'm going to have to arnt I 🙈🙄 I'm so sick of DTD already! X

@Skl2021 No 🙈🙈 not even a squinter..it did a few days ago...so, stepping away! Need to hide any tests 😆😆..yep best get down to it! 😂 x

@calimc83 yes step away you only have a few more days to wait now! Haha yes hide them or you use them 🙈😂 I need mine hiding! I feel so weird Feel like I'm coming on got stomach ache. This has been such a weird month Iv never experienced all this 😂🙈 wonder if covid has messed me up as it's not my normal cycle. 🤔 X

@Skl2021 I need to step away and get out of the 2WW rabbit hole....easier said than done though isn't it?! Yes it could well of messed up your cycle..x

@calimc83 definitely hard! Once your in you can't get out 🙈😂 your nearly there tho 🤞 I haven't even started yet! So sick of ttc now it's doing my head in. IV even thought of stopping all the tests and trying a month of not knowing anything! I'm getting desperate! X

@Skl2021 that's a good idea! Did u test in previous TTC? I never did and didn't make much difference tbf 🙈 x

Hi everyone hope you're all okay💖 been gone for a few days, AF was fine physically but tough emotionally for me but feeling better now I'm at the tail end of it. First AF since MC wasn't particularly heavy or sore which I'm so so glad about! It was the same as my usual AF I'd say.
I'm now CD 6 and hopefully can get a BFP this month. 🌈 Welcome to any new joiners 💖💖