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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

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Skl2021 · 08/11/2021 11:11

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

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Cruz86 · 28/12/2021 22:54

Haha thank you @claremc1983, I'll report back! Where are you in your cycle sorry? X

claremc1983 · 29/12/2021 07:29

@Cruz86 somewhere roughly around ovulation I think....😆 x

Cruz86 · 29/12/2021 09:07

Oh exciting! Time to get down to it 😂 x

Sparklesurprise29 · 29/12/2021 09:37

It just shows how everyone is different @Cruz86😀Thats my mindset going forward with TTC too - when it happens it'll be a different egg, different pregnancy, different outcome 💖

Sparklesurprise29 · 29/12/2021 09:39

Thats good you're around ovulation! Keeping my fingers crossed for you @claremc1983!😀
No more spotting for me since that one small amount yesterday morning🤔

claremc1983 · 29/12/2021 09:50

we've been 'on it' since the 23rd with one night off! 😂😂😂 hoping for another few days of DTD then will give it a rest..hope that's enough! It's so hard to know what to do for the best...@Sparklesurprise29 @Cruz86

Cruz86 · 29/12/2021 09:50

I really need to try and adopt that mindset too - I'm already worried about being pregnant again and I've only just miscarried! Mine has completely stopped too @Sparklesurprise29. Absolutely nothing this morning. Don't know whether to take my cup out or whether it's risky!! X

claremc1983 · 29/12/2021 10:29

@Cruz86 I feel exactly the same x

claremc1983 · 29/12/2021 10:30

Ladies - I'm due my covid booster in my 2WW. Would you risk it?? 😬

Cruz86 · 29/12/2021 10:40

I personally wouldn't @claremc1983 but I've seen many people on here who have! X

Sparklesurprise29 · 29/12/2021 10:54

Its so strange @cruz86! I think when spotting starts you just expect it to continue then when it doesn't it feels a bit random! I'm going to continue with a pantyliner if going out and about I think! 😅

Totally a personal choice @claremc1983 but I personally would as I didn't notice any difference to my cycle with the other 2 jags. I got my booster a few days after my MC, didn't notice any side effects apart from a sore arm☺ but if you did notice a change in your cycle then it might be best to wait?

Tofu35 · 29/12/2021 12:56

I'm with @Sparklesurprise29, I personally would (and did), my only trouble was going into the FW the day after my jag- had to hope I didn't have a dead arm/sore arm for too long!

Skl2021 · 29/12/2021 13:16

@claremc1983 I had mine before I ovulated and it didn't change anything. Just a sore arm for a day! IV just tested positive for covid 😩🤦 hope it doesn't mess up my cycle x

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claremc1983 · 29/12/2021 13:57

Thanks for the advice ladies. Much appreciated oh bloody hell @Skl2021 hope u are ok?? ☹️

Skl2021 · 29/12/2021 13:59

@claremc1983 yes I'm doing ok nose is a bit bunged up and a cough now and then. Hoping it doesn't get any worse. Last month I had a terrible cold around ovulation and now covid this month 🙈🤦 my body doesn't want me to get pregnant!! 😂 X

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claremc1983 · 29/12/2021 14:00

Argh OPK's are stressing me out. The one with the grey background is yesterday and the brown one is today's. Can't figure out where I am in my cycle 😫😫..x

Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨
Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨
claremc1983 · 29/12/2021 14:06

@Skl2021 glad you are ok..what a nightmare ☹️ xx

Skl2021 · 29/12/2021 14:08

@claremc1983 would u not take yesterday as positive? Looks closest? Unless your up and down and your not there yet. There both close but I would say yesterday was stronger! X

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claremc1983 · 29/12/2021 14:37

@Skl2021 yeah I thought yesterday's might be stronger....but it's not as dark as the control line..can they go up and down? I'm kind of hoping it was as sick of DTD. Might do it tonight 😆 then another OPK tomorrow and if tomorrow's is fainter then I'll take it ovulation has happened..x

MO22 · 29/12/2021 14:44

@claremc1983 for what it's worth, I found pfizer delayed my cycle by a week both times I had it (v annoying when TTC!) so I timed my booster around my SMM as I was bleeding anyway and figured it wouldn't delay anything.

I personally am very pleased I've got it, but if you are worried I wonder if you can just delay it til after the TWW?

Then again, you probably don't want covid either, so sorry to hear @Skl2021- I hope you aren't feeling too bad!

Hopingforarainbow27 · 29/12/2021 15:09

I just did a opk test and it's positive at cd 15 when it's usually not until 18/19! I think it's those Chinese herbs!

Skl2021 · 29/12/2021 15:25

@claremc1983 yes I would say do another test tomorrow then if it's lighter take yesterdays as positive? Hopefully you get some answers soon! I think your well covered tho 😂😉
@MO22 thankyou hope it doesn't get worse or mess up my cycle 🙈 I'm only cd 6 so hopefully it's gone before ovulation!
@Hopingforarainbow27 great news! The month I conceived my ovulation was on Time compared to usually ovulating later like after cd 20 every month! ,🤞 Xx

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Hopingforarainbow27 · 29/12/2021 15:27

@Skl2021 I hope that happens for me but I'm already so fearful about the what ifs!

Skl2021 · 29/12/2021 15:30

@Hopingforarainbow27 that's natural we all get scared after what we have been through but think positive ✨ we want them lovely rainbow 🌈 babies! X

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claremc1983 · 29/12/2021 17:20

@Skl2021 ha ha I hope so! 😆😆 x