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Anyone else ttc #2?

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Chanel05 · 21/08/2021 15:05

My dd is 11 months old and we have decided that now is the time for number 2! My daughter took 18 months to conceive with a mmc in between, so I'm expecting a long journey. This is my first month and I'm on cd4.

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Hope18 · 25/09/2021 20:33

Omg I know @VixenAndCub hahaa yet.. When it suits.. There like all lovey dovey..
I'm like.. Get off hun😂😂
Slightest bit of a cold and they need a day off.. X

Chanel05 · 26/09/2021 09:52

I'm in need of some experienced ttcers advice! I posted this on a new thread so forgive me if you see that one too.

Yesterday I had my 6th blank circle.
/low fertility symbol and that was cd14. I have 26-29 day cycles usually but my longest has been 30. I took the test at about 5am yesterday, brought it back to my bedroom and it was still deciding which symbol so I went to sleep to look later. At half 6, I ejected it as there was no symbol displayed and the screen was blank. I inserted the test stick I'd used back in and it came up with the book symbol and the test stick symbol also which seemed very odd but it processed the stick as low fertility.

This morning, I got the flashing smiley face but I'm not sure if it is genuine! As far as my cycles go, it is a day where I could have it but how would I know if it should be the flashing or a blank? I have had no ewcm this cycle.

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whatsthecraic91 · 26/09/2021 15:33

@Chanel05 I would see what tomorrow's says. If it's flashing then I would say you're on your way to ovulating. Don't worry about EWCM yet. I only got it a couple of days really and you might not be there yet. Have you any cheapy OPKs you could do along side? I always found CB digital extremely accurate I used them a lot when TTC my first x

Maddie2802 · 26/09/2021 16:18

7 days till I can test! 🤞🏻 anyone else?

PartyPotato · 26/09/2021 16:27

I’m on cd31 and had some brown spotting this morning, very unlike me. When AF comes she just comes, no messing around. Not due for another 3 or 4 days. Hmmm this has been a very unusual cycle!

VixenAndCub · 26/09/2021 16:31

What apps do you guys use for trying to track ovulation? I've been using GetBaby but when I try to track a period and want to add in the first day of bleeding, it always shows my period a week later. So makes me doubt it's got the right ovulation day

Maddie2802 · 26/09/2021 17:35

@VixenAndCub

What apps do you guys use for trying to track ovulation? I've been using GetBaby but when I try to track a period and want to add in the first day of bleeding, it always shows my period a week later. So makes me doubt it's got the right ovulation day
I use flow, you can add your symptoms daily, notes and so on 😊
Maddie2802 · 26/09/2021 17:35

Sorry the app is Flo not flow!

PartyPotato · 26/09/2021 17:58

I use fertility friend

GreenFlipFlop · 26/09/2021 23:13

@VixenAndCub I use Flo too! Helped me concieve my first! Annoyingly they're really trying to push premium membership now, whereas it was free before, but there's still a lot you can track/note on the free version!
@PartyPotato Ooo sounds promising!! I'm currently 6DPO, 8 days till AF and desperate for when I can test!

Goodgoodthings · 27/09/2021 13:47

How's everyone feeling today? Planning to test on Sunday which I think will be 12DPO and I need all the distractions I can get 😬 anyone else testing this week?

Maddie2802 · 27/09/2021 14:05

@Goodgoodthings

How's everyone feeling today? Planning to test on Sunday which I think will be 12DPO and I need all the distractions I can get 😬 anyone else testing this week?
Hi! I'm feeling very tired, a bit crampy and bloated. How are you? My period is due Sunday but I may test Friday 🙈 unless I can be patient!
Goodgoodthings · 27/09/2021 14:55

@Maddie2802 same really! Also have been feeling really stuffy and hot but that's probably more to do with running around after a toddler almost of the time.

No huge glaring symptoms but can't help thinking to myself how i'd really love to see those 2 lines. Even though this is our first cycle 🤦‍♀️ madness. I know testing at 12 DPO is a bit early but that's when I had my BFP first time around so I've got it in my head that I'll test then. So impatient!

GreenFlipFlop · 27/09/2021 15:51

I feel like I've had some twinging/cramps on my right hand side all day, but I think I'm just reading too much into everything! Confused

Chanel05 · 27/09/2021 15:58

Just got my peak after flashing this morning. Dh said we should dtd this morning but I said no as we were tired. Typical! Haven't dtd since cd12 🤦‍♀️. Was going to last night but dd is poorly and she was in our bed from 8pm! He's on the way home so we're going to dtd this evening, morning (though he doesn't know this yet 😂) and tomorrow night, hoping we catch it.

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Maddie2802 · 27/09/2021 16:41

[quote Goodgoodthings]@Maddie2802 same really! Also have been feeling really stuffy and hot but that's probably more to do with running around after a toddler almost of the time.

No huge glaring symptoms but can't help thinking to myself how i'd really love to see those 2 lines. Even though this is our first cycle 🤦‍♀️ madness. I know testing at 12 DPO is a bit early but that's when I had my BFP first time around so I've got it in my head that I'll test then. So impatient! [/quote]
I always overthink with symptoms! I took a test this morning even though I've got 6 days till AF 🙈 negative but with my DD took a while to get a positive.

How old is your toddler? My daughter turned 3 yesterday and there are lots of colds at nursery we are trying to avoid!

Goodgoodthings · 27/09/2021 16:52

@Maddie2802 it's so hard isn't it! Especially working from home because I'm noticing every little thing.

She is 14 months and suddenly in that busy busy phase! I would love to have another close in age but I think everything works out for the best in the end so trying to just wait and see 😬 she's been sent home so much recently from nursery, there is all sorts going round! Hope you had a lovely time for your little one's birthday 🎉

Hope18 · 27/09/2021 21:22

Hi all!
@PartyPotato how are you getting on? You said brown spotting? Have you tested?

AF arrived for me 3 days early this cycle?! No idea why. But definitely AF..
So I only had a 24 day cycle this month?? Usually 28..
Anyway, back to the drawing board for us!
@Maddie2802 our children are similar age! My DD turned 3 earlier this month! X

Maddie2802 · 27/09/2021 21:49

@Hope18

Hi all! *@PartyPotato* how are you getting on? You said brown spotting? Have you tested?

AF arrived for me 3 days early this cycle?! No idea why. But definitely AF..
So I only had a 24 day cycle this month?? Usually 28..
Anyway, back to the drawing board for us!
@Maddie2802 our children are similar age! My DD turned 3 earlier this month! X

Happy birthday to your little one! 🥳 Are they one of the oldest in their year too then? I'm quite happy that my DD is which means I get her home with me for an extra year 😊
Chivari · 27/09/2021 21:50

Hi ladies,

Posted on here a while ago, but have only just made it back on!

AF is due on Wednesday/Thursday but I’ve had weird cramps and back ache for the last 2/3 days. My nipples are also really sensitive and tingly (sorry TMI) and I’ve been very irritable. It could easily be AF, but could also be pregnancy. I took a cheap test today which was a BFN - told myself I am not testing again until day after AF is due if it’s late.

Second month TTC so not long, but caught first time with our dd so this is all a bit new to me…. Can’t help but feel a bit disappointed in anticipation of AF arriving ☹️

PartyPotato · 27/09/2021 22:17

@Maddie2802 yep, negative PT today! Saw a tiny bit more brown today but nothing more. I mean, I don’t think I am pregnant to be honest, the spotting just threw me a bit because it’s so unusual.
AF due Thursday so surely even a little cheap test would pick up pregnancy by now?

PartyPotato · 27/09/2021 22:18

@Maddie2802 sorry I tagged you instead of @Hope18!!!

Hope18 · 28/09/2021 06:28

@Maddie2802 yes she will be one of the oldest! Which is also why I think we have decided it would be nice to have another baby by the time she is 4..mind you- wed be happy falling whenever aslong as we are lucky enough to have another baby! Age gaps don't bother me. :-)

@chivari hello! The waiting game Is awful isn't it. Keep us updated with tests but yeah if it was me I'd wait now for AF!

@PartyPotato the brown today seems a good sign, could be implantation! Hold out Few more days x

PartyPotato · 28/09/2021 07:30

I won’t get my hopes up but I won’t totally give up yet!

Chivari · 28/09/2021 10:11

Thanks @Hope18 - it’s so hard to wait! Still have back ache today and cramping, but no other signs of AF. What cycle are you on?

Does anyone keep track of their cervix position and feel?

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