June - 8DPO - Anyone with me?

[babyboybluex]

Hey,

I'm 8DPO and feeling super dizzy with a headache for the past two days, slight nausea and swollen nipples. It could well be AF as she is due in a weeks time (on my sons 1st birthday, how cruel is that by the way?!)

Is anyone else on the same CD or there about? How are you feeling?

Af came today

@Joni82 Ah, sorry to hear that. Sending hugs x

It will happen when you least expect it, we had been trying since the beginning of this year and I have only just got my positive, the worrying never ends though. Now im thinking what if this what if that what of its ectopic or i miscarry.. its never ending 😬
Sending baby dust to you all... BTW this month I booked two festivals and brought a puppy.. mind completely of it. the one month I didn't use ovulation tests or conceiving lube, this baby was 100% concieved by doggy style don't no if that helps 🤣🤣 also the sex wasn't great (I'm sure you understand me when ttc) as i still knew i was ovulating so it was kinda like I thought i had to, just incase you worry that you not enjoying it will have an impact.. also I didn't have any symptoms, normally I get actual symptoms when I'm due on but i didn't other then cramps here and there which i thought could have been period but they was coming and going and less painful. Xx

@Joni82 sorry to hear that, chin up, onto next month xx

Thanks just deflating when feel time is against you , everyone around me is still pregnant I was due before them abs it’s like oh look at my scan , some moaning they are fat , ( really not) some moaning need wee all night , what I’d give to still be able to feel that

@joni82 I'm going to be looking forward to hearing your good news because your day will come 🤞
I felt exactly the same hun and I have pcos so i thought the odds were so against me! Lots of sex this month, try do it every day around your ovulation day if you can like 10 days in a row, 5 days before, 5 after! Also up your ecersize if you can get some walking in, good luck!! Hopefully the next ovulation will be your time 🤞 xx

Hi,
I’m new to here and need some help!
We have been TTC for 7months now- and nothing😭 Should I be concerned!?
We are TTD regularly and I’ve used OPK and taking 7 seas trying for a baby vitamins. Not sure what else I can do! xx

I'm so confused my last period was 2 weeks ago, I've been testing lh in OPKs not positive but increasing and I've just come on my period .... I am due to ovulate today and my period isn't due for another 2 weeks.... anyone else had anything similar this is so weird for me, I'm CD 16

@Joni82 i know exactly what you mean, what i would give to have all the symptoms of pregnancy again and i was sick alot and so so so tired exhausted infact yet my sis in-law hasn't been sick once and barely any symptoms but hers has worked out doesn't seem fair going through all that for it only to end with no baby.
Also my friend i told her when i was 11 weeks she goes oh wow I'm jealous i think we might start trying and see how we get on, she did first month boom pregnant now due baby girl in October and got her baby shower in September and I'm two losses down, how's that fair.

@ViL89 you sure period and not implantation bleeding? it is heavy or more a light flow that starts and stops?

Hi @LeeTTCRainbow I don't think so I'm CD 17 I was getting faint lines on OPK but never fof a proper positive I should be ovulating about now I usually ovulate around CD18 so quite late! It was just spotting and seems to have gone away but I'll see how I go but I think it looks like I'm just having a weird cycle and I'll come on properly in a few days. At least I'll be into the next cycle quickly so I can re set ! Xxxx

@ViL89 hey i would get to bd as sounds like about to ovulate, i had ovulation bleeding last month and day before got my peak this weekend, i had to look up spotting before ovulation as not everyone gets it. fingers crossed for you. xx

It’s really not, and I don’t want to turn into this bitter person but I just don’t want to be around anyone at the moment I would rather hide away , lost ours in April had first period last month, trying again this month but not getting hopes up

@Joni82 and @LeeTTCRainbow

So pleased you've said this as I'm feeling the same. My wedding has been moved (again) to 2022 and 5 out if my 6 bridemaids are pregnant lol. I am happy for them and feel awful that there's part of me who is a little jealous as well! And by a little I mean a lot lol so I'm pleaded to know I'm normal 😅

I think it’s normal, I’m finding myself not interested at all in their pregnancy, obv I want them to be healthy etc but I don’t want to see scan I don’t want to see bumps etc. Makes it worse I had a text today confirming an antenatal app before I give birth???? Do they not read the notes? Feel like taken 10 steps back again now

@ViL89 @Joni82 I know exactly how you feel, on our second date as postponed by whole year and getting married 29th august no matter what now but when knew were going to postpone wedding last year we started trying and it seems so did all my friends and bridesmaids as 4 out 6 bridesmaids have had babies since and one due October so all worked out, my sister-law to be is one of my bridesmaids and whose going to be heavily pregnant on our day she fell pregnant two weeks after I had my d&c so her pregnancy is really hard for me and few times at family events I’ve had to take myself away and have a little cry in loos it doesn’t help that we still haven’t got our rainbow and her pregnancy is coming to a end and will be getting her baby. I’ve done my best not being negative and including my bridesmaids babies in our wedding best I can as have to see if was other way around id hate to feel I can’t talk or share those moments with my friends. I know it’s hard and how your feeling is certainly normal we have been through a lot and are aloud to have our moments. Wishing you all the baby dust I can xxxx

Good to know Im not crazy haha thanks @LeeTTCRainbow

So this month I only got faint lines on OPK's CD 12- 15 never an actual positive, started spotting CD 17 and getting even fainter lines now (CD 19) so I think I never ovulated this month and seems I have a weird super early period. Has anyone else had this, I'm testing twice a day but feel like I'm doing it wrong. What brands does everyone use to test - I might go back to Clearblue as I think its easier to interpret albeit expensive!!

Ovulation tests, tested this morning smiley face, tested now just a circle, clear blue test I’m using not the purple one the pink ones

Hope all of you are doing ok 🌸 I decided to have break from TTC as I was finding it all a bit stressful. Absolutely no idea if or when I've ovulated this month yet as my cycles have been all over the place recently. Just decided to take both tests - OPK & hcg & got this result 😬

The red one is the pregnancy test x

@pinkypink24 congratulations! That must have been a wonderful surprise. Good luck in your pregnancy. I'm onto cycle 5 x

Thanks @Pasha82

Yes I'm in shock. I've totally convinced myself that is a false positive though🤷‍♀️
I will be taking another test in the morning.

I gave up thinking about it. Gave up DTD at scheduled times. Just did those tests randomly this pm as no idea what stage my body is at.

I'm still not convinced! Will see what tomorrow's test brings. No idea when I ovulated so I don't know how many DPO I am.

P.S this is ttc1 & I'm 41.

Lots of prayers for everyone 🙏🏻 x