June - 8DPO - Anyone with me?

[babyboybluex]

Hey,

I'm 8DPO and feeling super dizzy with a headache for the past two days, slight nausea and swollen nipples. It could well be AF as she is due in a weeks time (on my sons 1st birthday, how cruel is that by the way?!)

Is anyone else on the same CD or there about? How are you feeling?

Hi everyone, I'm also trying to concieve! Im due on in a week but getting period pains now so maybe its coming early. Has anyone got any useful tips that helped them fall quickly? Good luck to all trying this month 🤞 xx

Thanks @Pasha82 fingers crossed for July

@LeeTTCRainbow so sorry to hear this I really feel your pain, I had so much drama and stress with my wedding postponements too and everything seeming to go wrong at the same time. I hope your mum recovers quickly, whatever happens it'll be a magical day your definitely due for some good luck soon so have everything crossed for you

I’m the same as you, not sure symptoms are due on or if I’ve managed to concieve

I haven't had any symptoms, doubt I'm pregnant this will be the 4th or 5th month now 🙃 😳

How is everyone doing this cycle? I'm feeling a bit fed up of ttc tbh. My partner is feeling too much pressure and now cannot seem to orgasm on the day I ovulate which is making me feel like an even bigger failure! I'm seriously considering giving up and just trying to accept that it's not going to work for us. I might convince him to let me have a dog!

Has anyone else had similar issues?

@Pasha82 I'm so sorry to hear that you feel this way. Ttc is so exhausting isn't it? Sometimes taking some time away is just what you need and you may just fall pregnant as soon as you feel you are 'done' with ttc. I would say don't give up completely but do not be harsh on yourself either- take the break if its good for you.

I've been feeling really down the past few days and disheartened too, I need to get out of my head because all I do is worry > then try and justify why I'm being silly > back to worry

Theirs nothing worse then it feeling forced so don't tell your partner when you are ovulating and just come on to him lol if he knows he has to its off putting and that goes for anyone no matter what you look like, so please don't take it personal.
I've got period pains due on in 4 days so not hopeful this month at all AGAIN lol 🤦‍♀️🙄 xx

Thanks @Skincareaddict @Behopefulbekind I think it's the pressure of getting older and time not being on my side. It's taken the enjoyment out of sex. We used to have a really good sex life and now it's rubbish. I'll get over it and you are right, because a break may be what we need to reconnect. I think I'm going to ditch the opks too because I can't hide the sense of urgency and he just seems to know!

I wish you luck in your ttc journey😊

I no its so hard and I would say just have fun but I dont take my own advice! Remember using opka the positive could be that you have also already ovulated so they aren't great to use anyway, have fun excersize and eat healthy then see how you go if nothing see the gp xx

Girls I honeslty cannot believe it.. the only month I really thought it wasn't going to happen, its happened!! I've got pcos and it's taken me i think 4 months I thought I would never get pregnant i feel so relieved im actually crying 😭😍

Congratulations @Behopefulbekind that is lovely news!!

Thankyou so much @skincareaddict we are chuffed to bits!! Infact I think its been 5 months, it just shows don't give up xx

Congratulations @Behopefulbekind that's great news. Good luck in your pregnancy x

Thankyou @pasha82 it really means so much to mean, I can't explain the feeling, I thought I could never have any xx

Well done , I had a missed miscarriage in April at 11 weeks, took 7 weeks to start my period again, this is our first month trying abs I don’t know how u have all done it months on end, I feel like giving up now and due on in 5 days

@joni82 so sorry you had to go through that 😔 so heartbreaking I cannot even imagine, do you feel anything different this month or suspecting anything xx

Nothing apart from tingly boobs itchy nipples

Congratulations to all the BFP's

Sorry been absent last few weeks, been so busy which has helped time pass, but its that time again ovulation due this weekend I really hope this is our month, realised we are 11 months in for ttc with 2 losses and still childless, also my due date for first loss is end of the month so getting that BFP will really help, i need this, its our time, come on swimmers.

Good luck anyone on the July bus with me.
@Pasha82 @pinkypink24 how are you?

Hi @LeeTTCRainbow that must be a hard for you and I sincerely hope you get your bfp this cycle as you deserve it. Hope the wedding prep is going well.

This cycle for me has been bad because my partner was unable to ejaculate at the right time ie day of ovulation. I'm not holding out any hope tbh. I've stopped using my Premom app and I've decided to just take a break from actively ttc and just having regular sex to take the pressure off. I don't have any symptoms other than the usual pms, which is how it was when I conceived my DD, so it's hard to tell what's different. I'm not going to test because I don't think we did it at the right time.

How are all the other ladies doing this cycle? @Joni82 @ViL89 @Skincareaddict @pinkypink24 @Waitingforyou1 @AureliaRose @Charliecircle11

Fingers crossed x

Hi @LeeTTCRainbow got everything crossed for you

I've had faint opks so don't think I've ovulated yet! I'm CD 15 and I ovulate late every month which I think is the problem.

Either way I'm just having sex every other day and trying to chillout. I won't be able to test until late in the month so is still early days for me

Good luck everyone

Hi @Pasha82 ..I don't think this is my month. AF due tomorrow / Sunday, I've had nausea the past week but i get that every month with pms, my bbt has been a mess but its only my first month. Feeling dejected and down but it is what it is

@Pasha82 thanks so much, im doing my best not to stress or worry as know that doesn't help but its constantly in back of my mind, wedding planning is going good helping to take my mind off ttc, have my hendo next weekend (16th-18) so that's something to look forward too and can properly let my hair down.

I'm sorry to hear your going through a tough time, ttc is so so much harder than i ever knew, we are given this must be contraception or will get pregnant speech yet now I'm like i wish i never went on it.

I think your right in taking a break and just enjoying your sex life again, your both be more relaxed and they always say when stop trying it happens so keeping everything crossed for you.
For us we just try to bdb every 3 days or so keeps our sex drive up and that way if do miss my peak hopefully we are covered much better than stressing about it. Also early testing stresses you out so i dont do that wait to see if AF arrives if not then i will take a test.

Good luck hear if ever want to chat about anything.

Hi @ViL89 thanks much, good luck also. i think bd every few days is the best option takes the stress away abit.

@Behopefulbekind Congratulations, wishing you all the best in your pregnancy.

@Skincareaddict I completely understand and sorry you are feeling deflated. Fingers crossed AF doesn't show tomorrow.

@LeeTTCRainbow that is very kind and sound advice. Likewise, always here to listen when you want to vent.

I guess we have to stay positive and we will get our turn soon x