November 2007- going through, been through or ttc after mc, still positive and still eating cakes

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Here we are then, if it worked!

A nice new shiney thread to fill up with gorgeous cakes.

I'll start with a gooey sticky pecan pie at got at the W.I market yesterday morning

Hi TJuice - i have missed you (weird as i don't really know you but there you go). I was so pleased to see you had a BFP!! I hope all is going well for you and your partner - and that this will be a lovely pregnancy.

Thanks Sweetkitty x

i missed you too.
we went through such a rough time at exactly the same time and even though not many people in my real life knew or could sympathise, i knew exactly how you felt and felt the same way too.

fingies crossed, starlight! live testing, woo-hoo

Didn't check post yesterday and missed that Jules has had a BFP ! Yey. Fantastic news for you. As you will have a lovely engagement baby to look at (because it WILL stick) Can you donate your sparkly ring for us to look at !!
This thread seems to be doing well. It must have a big pile of babydust with a pile of stressed paranoia and knicker checking dust to go with it !

Ronshar - you always talk so much sense and I thought your post was very calming - hope all the pg ladies found it so as well. Know what you mean about feeling pleased and sad in equal amounts. Keep the faith and least you have the bd'g to pass the time while waiting.

Lissie- Can't believe you got to the doctors only to be told to go to chemist - what nonsense - you must feel let down. Stay cool.

Can't keep up with all the BFP when at work all day but hope everyone else OK. Off to get fish & chips - yum

NH101 what amazing pictures!! Glad things are moving along nicely for you and the beans.

TJuice low-dose aspirin is not recommended as it can complicate the pregnancy. Only a small number of women with high blood pressure are offered it as a pro-active approach to handling their disease but they have to be closely monitored by a doctor.

Just popped in briefly to say huge congratulations to Jules, also to Lissie if I haven't already said it.
Lots of positive vibes to all the many pg ladies, may you all stay that way til your babies are good and ready to join you, healthy and well. Hopefully everyone else will join you in the growing tummy team very soon

Oh poo I looked at NH and her little miracles and it has made me cry again!! I must be oving soon, always get emotional!

I am not of the BFP's. It is more a sadness that it isnt me if you understand what I mean. I certainly do not wish or want to be pregnant instead of some one else. I just want to be pregnant as well. Then I will stop moaning. (well about not being pregnant anyway)

ronshar - I totally know what you mean. I didn't realise until I went through this that you could be really happy for someone else and still sad for yourself.
That's what it is a sadness that just catches up with you sometimes. Just a realisation "I'm still not pregnant".
When someone else is pg it is theirs and none of us would ever wish anything bad on anyone. You want all little beans to hang on the whole way.
Actually most of the time the news of BFP's really cheers me up.

Hope you're feeling a little better after a weep. It does sometimes help.

evening ladies im back ttc ( well once i know its safe too) ive just lost another babe at 5+5 on wednesday apparently my hormones wernt hogh enough to continue so mc'd so gutted, may just lay low for a while and see what happens, good luck to all and hope it all goes well for those who are pg....

oh hun, so very sorry

well,im back woke up in pain and spotting is now bleeding. shortest pg in history!

Nooooo lissie. . Will be thinkin if you today.

lissie so sorry

lissie I'm so sorry

mylittleeloise I'm very sorry to hear about your mc

mylittleeloise, really sorry to hear your sad news. Look after yourself.

I'm on here for the first time after mc last weekend at 6 weeks. Been to see doc, all ok so we're going to wait one cycle then try again. Bit nervous about everything now, but am feeling positive and will make the most of the next couple of weeks at the gym, eating brie and the odd glass of wine before its ttc again.

Mylittleeloise and Meglet - sorry to hear your news. Meglet, sounds a good idea to indulge in the things you can't do when pg to cheer yourself up a bit.

Lissie, I am so very very sorry

Ronshar, I know exactly what you mean about the sadness.

meglet so sorry I agree do the things you couldn't to cheer yourself up

Just had a look at NH's twin bean pics and they are so great! Glad everything is still going well.

i have appointment at 10.10 with out of hours doc who will refer me to epu. main worry now is ep. blood is slow but brownish/red, still no real pain...

stepmum is looking after ds. im ok. bleeding properly now. so resigned to the inevitable....