🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

[ELM7]

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

@slcxxx
Came out bigger than that that's after I pocked at it just to check it. Hoping it all over nw but think I still have to pass the placenta tbh. And thank you x

@Babyghirl that’s literally all I passed, it was placenta and sac (burst sac) and a scan confirmed it had all come out in one piece so hopefully yours has too

@slcxxx
Hopefully when I look at it there kind off looks like there's a cord attached to it so I'm hoping lol, drained through all the blood loss over the last 9 days so hopefully that's it over with. Xx

@Babyghirl
Has your bleeding eased abit since passing that? I still bled for another 4 days but it was less heavy than before

It's turned to the brown bleeding nw but done that on Friday then picked up again yesterday so hoping it started to stop soon lol xx

Morning ladies!

Hope you are all good
I might have some good news 😳😳 I don't know yet. But currently 16dpo with no AF! I have sore boobs and heartburn. But also a lot of light cramping which is worrying me because I had cramping last time and we all know how that ended 😖 any successful ladies had cramping?
Trying to hold on until the weekend to do a test! See how long I last

How's your tww going @Annny27 ?

I've seen a couple of names I don't recognise so welcome to the new ladies and sorry to find you here 💕

Morning :) around 8dpo and feeling very normal :)

Omg do a test now haha! @Nuggetlover27 so no spotting? I sometimes go to 16dpo but I have had spotting the previous day so I know I am out. But if not had any spotting it sounds promissing!

@scrumdiddly123 it feels only yesterday you got your bfp!! Thats insane you are now 3rd trimester 🥳🥳🥳🥳

@Babyghirl yeah that deffo looked like the sac ir the last remaining bits of the miscarriage. Are you still feeling drained?

@nuggetlover27
Go do a test woman can't say that and leave us hanging 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 fingers and toes crossed for you xx
@Annny27
Excusted but hubby got me iron tablets yesterday so started taking them to try build me bck up again doc just off phone chasing up the rmc to try and get me seen ASAP in the meantime I'm just waiting on the fertility clinic to get in touch how r u doing xx

@Babyghirl @Annny27 😂😂 you girls make me laugh!
Nope had no spotting at all! Might do a test later 🙈 I'm just so worried about another mc that I'm thinking if I don't do a test my brain doesn't "know" I'm pregnant and therefore it may hurt less as ill think of it as a late period. Plus I'll be gutted if it's a BFN haha x

@nuggetlover27
I was like that to but said either way if I know or nt I can't change the outcome of what's going to happen lol. But I would rather know that not know so it went on my notes as another positive test and if things went wrong it could be one step closer to investigating why it keeps happening. 🙏🤞💚🍀 Go get a text girl 🙏🤞💚🍀

@nuggetlover27
Test 😂😂😂😂

Yes test test test @Nuggetlover27 🤣🤣🤣
Like babyghirl says, you would want to know either way to tell the fertility doctors

@Babyghirl yep iron tablets will do you some good 💗💗💚💚

@Annny27
Started taking them hoping they help 💚🍀
@nuggetlover27
C you have to test girl even if you don't want to knw we do 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 xx

I done it ! @Annny27 @Babyghirl
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I'm so scared! And keep thinking what if the test is broken 🤣
(1 pic with flash, 1 without)

Ahhh @Nuggetlover27 congratulations that is an amazing line!! I really hope you have a healthy and calm 9 months and this is your rainbow 🌈 xx

@Babyghirl hope the iron tablets help and you start to feel better but take time as it’s been a rough few weeks for you.

@Annny27 fingers crossed this is your month too and you will be following @Nuggetlover27 with your BFP.

Sorry I’ve been quiet just been feeling a bit sorry for myself. AF arrived when expected. The first one after the MC and of course I’d stupidly hoped that it wouldnt come and I’d be one of those people to fall pregnant straight away - comical seeing as it took over a year to get that BFP after the first miscarriage. 🤦🏼‍♀️ So CD8 here and gearing up for FW.

Welcome to the new ladies. Sorry you find yourself here but hope it won’t be long before you get your rainbow babies.

Ahhhhhh congratulations @Nuggetlover27 :D :D bet you feel so all over the place! Any symptoms or lack of normal tww symptoms?

Okay I am officially the only original lady not to have had a bfp haha! (Even if some of them haven't worked out 😪😪😪)
So now its my turn 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@ELM7 even after all this turmoil we still have hope each month which is painful but also good that we haven't given up! Its rubbish month after month. Have you started your DH on vitamins/loose boxers etc because of his morphology?

@Annny27 I really do hope it’s your turn next.

I really just wish I could forget about getting pregnant and staying pregnant but it is just all consuming and feels like I will never get to hold my baby. (Sorry pitty party going on here) Got hubby back on some vitamins. Haven’t quite got as far as him changing his boxers yet, I never actually got his numbers from SA as Dr at the time was just like well it’s irrelevant now but mentioned about morphology I think. We’ve got a phone consultation mid March so will see what they say (Luckily I never cancelled the appt when I got the positive)

I’ve not been feeling great really tired and headaches which I took to a new level when I passed out so have been to Drs for a MOT and everything has come back fine. But pleased they also tested thyroid as know that can effect TTC and that level is in the normal range so that’s good.

@nuggetlover27
Omg I'm delighted for you such a great line on a clear blue 🤗🍀🤗🍀
@ELM7
Hoping the pick my energy back up again I need it I'm like a zombie 😂😂😂😂
@Annny27
Your turn next girl I can feel it 🙏🤞💚🍀

@ELM7
Sorry your feeling so down this ttc is awful when it's all you want but it makes us even more determined not to give up to get wat we want xx

Hey ladies! I lost ye for a while and just found ye again!

@Nuggetlover27 I am so happy for you to see that fabulous BFP!! What a lovely strong line! Congratulations!! Also if you get worried about the cramps I had them too up until about 6 weeks..got milder as days went by. My GP wanted me to get an EPU referral but with covid meaning appts there were hard to get she told a white lie and said I was cramping (would have been 6 weeks then) so I got to EPU at 7 weeks and got a scan (and also told white lie that I was still getting mild cramps) and they assured me cramping was totally normal and not to worry!! Got put on progesterone and aspirin then.

@Babyghirl I'm so sorry for your loss. You've had so much to endure I hope you get your referral and answers soon. Xx

@Annny27 it's definitely your turn next..can't wait to log on some day very soon and see ur BFP!!

@ELM7 I'm sorry ur having a rough time too..I found the first period after MC was just the worst and I was so emotional. But I suppose in a way it's prob what our bodies need and now you are starting back on a clean slate. Hope you start to feel better soon and hopefully it won't be as long this time round for your next BFP. xx

@Nuggetlover27 🥳🥳🥳 no denying that BFP! Congratulations!! So pleased for you xx

Congratulations @Nuggetlover27 ! Amazing news, so happy for you 🥰

Thank you so much ladies 💕💕
@ELM7 @Annny27 @Babyghirl @Leok83 @scrumdiddly123 @ChampooPapi

@ELM7 my fingers are crossed for your FW! Sending hugs 💐

@Annny27 you will get your time soon I'm sure of it! 💕 I've had really sore boobs and heartburn but other than that no symptoms to note yet!

@Leok83 thank you for the reassurance on the cramps! I know I'm just thinking the worse but really hoping this is our 🌈

Oh wow I have missed so much!
Congratulations @Nuggetlover27 what a great line 🤞❤ happy and healthy 9 months to you!

@Babyghirl how are you feeling now? Any news on an appointment?

Xxx