🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

@Annny27
Oh hopefully they can tell you the wee egg is ready to drop and your good to go, I'm keeping my fingers crossed that its ur month but if it is ur still nt allowed to go anywhere like 😂😂😂😂😂😂💚

Even when I get my bfp I will still be around 😂😂 @babyghirl hopefully we are all graduating to pregnancy at similar times!

@TerribleImagination thanks so so much I really needed that I have no cramps anymore just little pinching pains backache has gone but both arms are hurting today so panic is settling in so worrying myself crazy I am booked in on Tuesday at the epu this is going to be the longest 5 days ever I really wished it was tomorrow I would be seen xx

Feeling awful today both my arms are hurting so I am panicking now epu won't see me 😢 xx

@Annny27
It would be good if we all graduated together so we could all be on the same journey 💚
@sweetbabydust1989
Try to relax remember panicking and stressing won't change the outcome but everything will be great with bean xx

@Babyghirl yeah I no I am just worrying so much I hope everything is ok I really do but my hospital is a little rubbish it's constant referrals which take 24 hours then you have to wait days for app unless you spend hours in a&e did that before 3 night on the trot xx

Sorry for the very me me me message but I had an ultrasound before the hycosy and the consultant said that it looks like I have endometriosis because my ovaries are "stuck" so she is referring me to a laproscopy. She said no point doing tube test if there is scarring there as it wouldnt mean anything if they looked clear as would still need to remove endo.

I am sad, optimistic I am not sure tbh!

@Annny27
I'm sure that was a shock do u have any symptoms of having it 💚

@babyghirl I do have painful sex and periods so it wasnt a massive shock but just frustrating that I have asked about this at the GP NUMEROUS times and they haven't thought to refer me before:(

She also said I am about to ovulate although theres probs not point if the egg cant get out. There is always a chance though so going to dtd just incase

@Annny27
Doctors for ya think they knw best 🙈🙈🙈 glad you r starting to get answers though and hopefully get to the bottom off it and you won't be waiting to long 💚

I hope it's a case of her removing some of the adhesions and then the egg can flow smoothly to the womb 🤞🤞🤞🤞

Anyway it's nice to be listened to for once @babyghirl

Are you in fertile week?

I hope it's a case of her removing some of the adhesions and then the egg can flow smoothly to the womb 🤞🤞🤞🤞

Anyway it's nice to be listened to for once @babyghirl

Are you in fertile week?

@Annny27
Cd10 for me so yep I am indeed but don't knw what day 😂😂😂😂 so got to dtd a lot just 😂😂😂😂, lovely day here nearly finished work then I'm going home to paint the outside with a wee blue beside me I'm relaxed to much this week 😂😂😂😂. 💚 I'm glad they listening to u about time to and hopefully it won't be to long to that eggie is caught 💚

Massive congratulations @lozza2206 and @Sweetbabydust1989 brilliant news

Iv been MIA since Af arrived

@Annny27 I’m glad you are getting some answers. Anyone I know who’s had endometriosis once they have treatment have fell pregnant a month or two later. Snap ovulating today cycle buddies again

Iv made a doctors app but not till 10th may to push for more tests for me. Just want a proper check over as all Iv had is bloods to check I’m ovulating

Thanks @27donfin yes I am hopefull ❤🙌🏻🙏🏻🌈 and also feel validated! My periods bloody hurt haha so to have someone say theres an issue and not just part of being a women its nice 😂 ooh have you been dtd much? Today will be our only time due to the hycosy we wer going to have :S

@babyghirl very productive!! I need to paint our fences but cba haha

@Annny27 so what happens next? Same we have only dtd today. After Af was over I feel we were very active but this week my OH has been mega stressed with work so that’s a no for him 🙄

@Annny27
Have just had dinner and set down lol but great to get it done going to do my fence at weekend lol.
@27DONFIN
How r you hold up I'm Cd10 today so the big couple of days for me lol 💚

@Babyghirl are you feeling better? Had a catch up even you’ve been under the weather. I’m ok thanks finish my reduced hours at work tomorrow back to 9-5 😢 was loving part time hours for full pay lol I’m CD 12 still not testing ovulation with my cm I think I was yesterday/this morning. What’s happening with you getting checks? X

@27DONFIN
Still not 100% but I hate lying around lol, been put on the ivf waiting list can take up to 12 months so hoping I catch before then, awww for starting bck full time, I'm Cd10 so nt far behind you xx

@Annny27 sorry to hear but I hope they get you in for the laparoscopy soon!

11dpo for me and bfn on a frer this morning so I'm out. Also out for May as partner has to go away for work. Which obviously I am gutted and furious about at the same time. He doesn't understand and is "it'll happen when it happens" they don't have wombs and ovaries so don't understand the burning desire to be pregnant especially after a loss and how much all this TTC just consumes you. He says he wants it as much as me but now I feel like it's not as important to him and work comes first. Ugh sorry for rant. I just don't know how to accept that I'm not even going to have a chance next month :(

@justwant2beamum
Sorry for the bfn it's sole destroying so big virtual hugs from me, can you maybe if he nt to far away go meet up with him for a day or 2 in the fertile week 💚

@Annny27 @Babyghirl feeling a bit more positive thought I’d ovulated yesterday but just been to the toilet and my cm is telling me it’s right now. So dtd last night and will again today so not all is lost

@27DONFIN
My cm is tell me I'm near it to lol dtd last nite and nite before so will do it tonite again to lol after I do more painting that is lol 💚

@Annny27 glad someone is finally listening to you and hopefully you don’t have to wait too long! Have they put the hycosy on hold for now?

@justwant2beamum oh hun, I can completely understand! My OH says the same ‘it takes time’ ‘when it’s meant to happen it will’ ‘ some ppl try for year’ 🤔 not very helpful! Sorry about the BFN, it is indeed sole destroying! I got my BNF Monday.. then retested today as I was 4 days late so had renewed hope! Still BFN, then AF turned up lunch time so wasted a ton of hope and a ERFR 🤦🏼‍♀️

@27DONFIN & @Babyghirl better get busy ladies 😂 good luck!!

Can’t remember who was talking about fertility referrals but at my trust if you are 36 and have been trying for 6months then they will refer you (I’m almost 36, lol), so I’m assuming it’s the same across the NHS? I’ve just made an appt with my GP (in a months time 😩) to see if they will refer me as have been trying for 1.5yrs including the MMC in Jan. Does anyone know What sort of tests they do? And do they check sperm quality in our OH?

@slcxxx
On ur first app you both have to be there they do bloods and internal scan and a swab for stis then they will have your oh book a seman test and a bunch of questions, but every NHS and post code is different for referrals depending on where u live 💚