🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

[ELM7]

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

@ELM7 I really hope so I am only 15dpo so it's a pretty strong one I really hope my tot sticks I can't handle another ectopic I am knicker watching like crazy xx

@Sweetbabydust1989 - I know the feeling, I had alot of cramping and pains, I'm assured its all normal, but still worrying. I had spotting last week, the whole thing has been a worrying experience since day one 🙈 I hope you are able to relax soon, and hopefully your GP or EPU can do some bloods to see what your HCG levels are up to! Mine didn't and those 2 werks were torture! Xx

@chali7 it's awful isn't it... I am going to call my gp tomorrow to make sure the referral went through I just keep getting an achey feeling where my previous ectopic was I really feel on my own atm I just want some reassurance that nothing is in my tubes xx

@ELM7
That's nt right at all my doc took my losses as part of it all so cause of ur age it could take u longer to get pregnant then if ivf is needed there's a cut of point for age in that aswell where here in Belfast it's 40 I knw its different ages in different places but keep fighting don't give up to they listen to you 💚

@sweetbabydust1989
How r you holding up have u told oh yet to get some support 💚 x

@Babyghirl no 🤣 I am ok today cramps have pretty much gone and I feel so sick this morning I am calling doctors back today to see what's happening with the referral xx

@sweetbabydust1989
I always say nxt time I get pregnant I'm nt going to tell oh for a while but I always break 😂😂😂😂😂 cause I know he would be annoyed at me for nt telling him so he can be there for me lol xx

@Babyghirl Iol I am usually like that but this time feels different I think it's because of the ectopic I usually call my mum too but I have kept so quiet about it. I need to work out my rough date as all the websites say something different xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Just write in date your last period started and it should give you a rough date xx

@Babyghirl if I go off my normal 30 day cycle it's saying 31st dec but doctors said 29th dec... back ache has gone now cramps have gone just got that annoying ache on right side the dr doesn't seem too bothered by it she just said to look out for the sharp pains and bleeding xx

@sweetbabydust1989
That could just be the side the egg came from so you could have the cyst on that side producing the progesterone so try to stay calm and hopefully they get u in soon to scan you xx

Ladies who are or have taken the vitamin b6 and the folate do we know which ones gives you more cm? And whether it's still only more during ovulation or whether it's more cm throughout the cycle?! I'm having loads only on cd11 and that's unusual for me I would normally ovulate around 14/15!

@Babyghirl yes that's what I was thinking the weird thing is the pain is at the tops of my thighs not really where my ovaries are I think I am just a little paranoid due to my ectopic hoping epu will call me tomorrow so I can have my bloods done would love a scan to make sure my tubes are clear xx

@kiwi17
I would say the b6 for that one as it helps with the hormones, but you can produce the cm up to 3/4 days before you ovulate so they could be beneficial for your body and helping it 💚

@sweetbabydust1989
I have had that on every bfp I have had tops of my legs like dead like I had run a marathon jelly like lol xx

@Babyghirl yes I feel like I have done that 🤣 the cramps have gone finally I no they will be back I am trying to keep positive must have baby brain already as I brought my vitamins today but chucked them in the bin by accident 🤣🤣 i am not having any pain like my ectopic that was agony the whole way through this is more of a pinching and pulling sensation which I am hoping is normal xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Hopefully one of the successful ones from here will come along to tell you and hopefully settle u abit have you told oh yet xx

Thanks @Babyghirl that's helpful to know about the b6! Fingers crossed it's a good sign!🤞🤞

@Sweetbabydust1989 Hey lovey! I’m a lurker on here, as I was on the first ever thread following my MC in 2019 and I just really want to see the success stories from people I’ve been on this journey with! I’ve now got a 3 month old little rainbow baby girl, so wanted to reply as @Babyghirl mentioned it could be helpful too! I had SO many random pains in my successful pregnancy, early on. Honestly some days I would sit and have to do mindfulness to calm the panic that would set in when I felt them. But it’s totally normal lovey. There’s all sorts happening in there just now. As long as you don’t have any bleeding, pains are totally fine. I totally get how terrifying they are though! Hang in there ❤️

Crossing fingers for you lovey! Remember, this is a new pregnancy and the odds of it being successful this time are in your favour.

Sending love! ❤️

@Annny27 hope everything goes ok for you today xx

Hectic week at work and my fur baby has been under the weather, so went to the vet today so I could get some meds for her cold. Hope everyone is having a good week!!!

Huge congrats @Sweetbabydust1989 so so so happy for you. Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months! 🥰🥰🥰

@Annny27
Good luck today 💚💚
@danisaui31
I'm here still loaded with the cold lol but still dtd as I'm CD 10 today so near that time lol but all good weather great have a great day 💚

@Babyghirl haha no matter how sick, we must dtd to cover ourselves right? Aw hope you get better, colds suck! It's just hitting 8pm here in Auckland, so shower and Netflix for me ☺️ good luck for this month hun!

@Annny27 good luck for today, hope it all goes well!!! 💚🍀

Thanks everyone! It's this afternoon. Shitting myself tbh 😂😂

I am about to ovulate as well and as we haven't had a chance to dtd tonight I have primed DH that he will need to be ready tonight 😂 I am hoping that my scan shows I am about to ovulate as well

That didnt make sense - I mean we Haven't had a chance to dtd because of the hycosy, so we will need to tonight