🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

@kiwi17
They say its easier to speak to a stranger lol 😂😂😂😂😂 💚

So the flo app says period is in 8 days and I am on cycle day 20 not even sure when to test I was going to do it day before I am due on my knowing my luck AF will be late to spite me lol xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Try to hold out to the day of your period or its late I don't test norm to I'm late lol fingers crossed for you 💚

Omg ladies what is up with all r period cramps this month lol woke up this morning with bad cramps 😪😪😪😪😪😪😪 💚

@Babyghirl tell me about it yesterday was so painful and heavy and even the ibuprofen and hot water bottle wasn't cutting it 😣 however woke up today and it's disappeared... surely that can't be it?! 6 days of tiny spotting and one day of light bleed and one day of heavy?! But then I know the first one after mc isn't supposed to be normal... hope you feel better today!

@kiwi17
Just a wee bit off advice still wear something lol cause it could come bck, took 2 painkillers there to take the edge off mine I can't take ibuprofen they cut the stomach of me but glad ur pain has settled but my period has never been heavy after my losses either 💚

Morning lovely ladies 💕
I’m sending as much positivity and luck as I can to you all 🍀

I’m sorry for the BNFs and the dreaded AF arriving! Seems like a sucky month! Welcome to our newbies, sorry you find yourself here but glad you found us 😍

@Babyghirl I also work for the NHS, in fact my job is the one you would want the least when MC and then TTC.. no taking my mind off the situation 🤦🏼‍♀️

Talking about work, I passed out at work on Sunday (2days ago), the room just started spinning. I’m now 7DPO so was 5DPO at the time and when I came to the forst thing they asked was if I was pregnant, which initially broke my heart but then gave me probably false hope 🙈 has anyone ever experience anything like that at around 5/6DPO?

@slcxxx
I have heard of women fainting before they knew they where pregnant so keeping my fingers crossed that this is a good sign for you 🍀🙏🤞💚. X

@SLCxxx I've heard of that too! Fainting/lightheadedness/dizziness for some people is symptoms 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 for you.
I'm 1dpo and the day feels like it's been 14 days already 🙄

@Babyghirl I 100% will I don't think it's my month anyway I don't really feel anything it my ectopic I felt pain early on xx

Omg 😬😬😬

Hey ladies I can't even believe I am posting this on the month I didn't even track properly (other than I now know my body so well)!!!

@Babyghirl your tips about the vitamins and the relax method bloody works!!!

Please pray it's 3rd time lucky and my little bubba stays with us xoxoox

@lozza2206
Omg I'm over the moon for you hoping and praying this is your rainbow, 🙏🤞🍀💚 relax approach is deffo key I have learnt that. You where taking the folate as well weren't u xx

@Babyghirl thank you 💕 yes I am taking these two in the picture xxx

Omg @lozza2206 congrats! 💕 that's so good you got the 2-3 weeks as well!

@justwant2beamum thank you 💕 and yes bit confused what that means xoox

@lozza2206
This is what 2 to 3 weeks mean I'm so over the moon how long did it take you to get pregnant again xx

@Babyghirl oh thanks! Perfect that's where I should be... now to try and stop being anxious for the next few weeks.

I had my surgery 7th jan after MMC so I guess would be cycle 2/3 xxx

@lozza2206
Try to relax my new word lol, but yes we get anxious about getting pregnant then it's taking over by being anxious when we do fall pregnant I don't think we will ever get rid of being anxious but all we can do is try to keep it at bay as best we can xxx

@Babyghirl this group and my partner are the only ones I am telling until I get the scan!
This group is amazing though it gets you through those tough days xxx

Wow @lozza2206 congratulations! There is hope for us all :) so what was the magic secret?! Hehe. @Babyghirl good thing I didn't trust my body had finished today as it picked up where it left off yesterday although less cramping luckily! Argh. On a different note, I am ready to crack this this cycle. What does every one recommend for peak fertileness?? I am taking just the basic asda pregnancy vitamin as I was taking it before the mc and has folic acid in it. I know some of you take other things? I am not bothering to do bbt this month and going to try and relax as much as poss but want to know if there is anything else others are doing? I did eat pineapple after implantation last month but that obv didn't work 😣😆

@kiwi17 thank you 💕 I know this sounds annoying but honestly not focusing on it... every morning I would do my prayers and say what I'm thankful for. Then I would focus on having a laugh with my partner and being happy... I am taking the vitamins I put a couple of posts ago... honestly sorry for tmi but I had so much EWCM I think that's what helped xxx

@kiwi17
I told the girls to take folate instead of folic acid as not everyone can break down folic acid but folate is just pure folic acid and easier broke down a fertility specialist I use to follow told us this I have got pregnant twice from I started taking it started taking b6 100 mg as the other ladies have said to and as @lozza2206 has said relax it really does help as annoying and as much as we hate hearing it it really does help, she came bck then lol mines is light at the min but cramps r coming again so will be heavier l8r tomara no doubt 😂😂😂😂.

Look what I found girls who looking them into 2 for the price of one 💚

Thanks ladies that's really interesting. I ordered some b6 but then cancelled as I'd read about having too much b6 in the body could do damage!? Arghh it's just a minefield. So folate instead of folic acid? That's interesting about the ewcm... I had very little this cycle after the mc. And yes @Babyghirl haha she came back the cow. Hope yours doesn't get too bad!

@lozza2206 Omg a huge congrats to you! Such lovely news to wake up to. All the best for the next couple of weeks. Allow this time to relax and enjoy the exciting times ahead! For sure hope for us all!!!! 🍀💚

@SLCxxx I have also heard of the dizziness and feeling faint a common early symptom, so fingers crossed with bucket loads of baby dust that this is the start of a new journey for you!!!

@kiwi17 Hahaha I did the pineapple core too!!! Some people swear by it so I was like, why not give it a try lol. I take a prenatal and did the raspberry leaf tea from the day I ovulated to 5DPO. I haven't really thought to buy separate vitamins and try this way, the pharmacist said the prenatals should provide all I need, but maybe I should... I take EPO as well and I feel like it makes me produce a lot more EWCM.