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🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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ELM7 · 16/01/2021 18:53

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

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Fizzl · 18/03/2021 10:35

Ahh @Annny27 😔 hopefully you don't have endo and the tests you have coming up shortly will start to give you some answers you deserve/need. Ah that's tough - In your situation I personally would take the first appointment they have available as if you don't and you wait and your period arrives again you'll kick yourself feeling like you've wasted another month without potentially getting some answers. I know it's really difficult, I remember when we made the decision to pause ttc when my cycles went a bit haywire last year and it felt so counterproductive! But you've got to do what you feel most comfortable with 💐

happygolucky20 · 18/03/2021 14:48

@Annny27 I can totally relate, just before my AF arrives I am super dramatic and emotional and then I settle. Our consultant told me not to call him about any treatment when I was due, or on my AF as it would be irrational - he is totally right!

Its a tough one having to wait but I think I would be tempted to get it booked in for the month after...Just in case.

Vitamin B6 and B12 is to help with a short LP and so far (fingers crossed) this month it has really worked for me. Although, I have been taking the whole B Complex from Holland and Barrett which included folic acid and all the B vitamins. My AF always arrives like clockwork on a Sunday and I usually spot from the Tuesday, well its Thursday today and I have yet to spot and I could not be happier! I have also been seeing an acupuncturist who said I have a spleen deficiency and was told to come off cows milk so could be a combo but every forum I have read with ladies who spot and have been fobbed off by doctors, they all recommend Vitamin B6 or B Complex.

happygolucky20 · 19/03/2021 12:02

Ladies, help me! So I did this this morning (pictures) and got a line but just did a digital one at midday and it said not pregnant, is that possible? Can I be given a false positive?!

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🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕
Babyghirl · 19/03/2021 12:14

@Annny27
Hate when that happens poas and the witch comes 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈. App it helps ovulation but also with progesterone worth a try I'm nw coming to the end of my period the brown staining drags on lol, to answer your question I would go for the tube flush on the 8th of April take a month of ttc you might even enjoy the break from everything that's what I would do cause u been trying for so long and if you where unlucky again nxt month you would be kicking urself for nt going for it well I knw I would lol 💚

chali7 · 19/03/2021 12:27

@happygolucky20 - the digital ones are less sensitive I think - try another in a day or 2. Looks very positive to me though so congratulations. X

SLCxxx · 19/03/2021 12:31

@Annny27 I was just talking to a mum on school run this morning who was trying to conceive for 3 years following an ectopic and mmc and she said after the flush she caught straight away and now has her miracle baby. Wishing you the best of luck with what ever you decide 😊

@happygolucky20 maybe because the 2nd one wasn’t your first wee so the hormone was weaker then the first one you did? Think you may have to repeat tomo morning.. unless you can hold your wee and not drink anything for the next 6 hours 🙈 waiting is so horrid! Fingers crossed for you

Babyghirl · 19/03/2021 13:31

@happygolucky20
Try a more cheaper one like a frar them clear blue ones r less sensitive as @slcxxx has said prop because it was a weaker wee so to speak, but the one you have up looks positive to me to fingers crossed for you 💚

justwant2beamum · 19/03/2021 16:49

@happygolucky20 eeeek I'd say congrats in order! I agree digital won't be as sensitive so wont have picked it up with mid day wee. I'd do a frer in the morning with FMU keep the wee and then do a digital if the frer is positive!! Keep us updated!! Xx

happygolucky20 · 20/03/2021 05:26

So this is with a FRER at 5am, couldn’t sleep!

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Annny27 · 20/03/2021 07:45

Omg congratulations @happygolucky20 so the vitamin b complex helped!!!!

happygolucky20 · 20/03/2021 08:21

@Annny27 yes! I took B100 Complex and vitamin c but I also saw an acupuncturist - she asked me not to go on the vitamins during the first month of trying her as we would never know which one helped but, me being me, started them all together 😂 but all the reading I had done online said Vit B complex was the thing.
Goes to show though that ovulation tests don’t work for everyone, as CB digital said I hadn’t ovulated 🤷🏻‍♀️ I am in shock and walking around in a bit of a daze.

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Babyghirl · 20/03/2021 08:23

@happygolucky20

Congratulations h&h nine months girl 💚🍀

SLCxxx · 20/03/2021 08:27

@happygolucky20 congratulations 👏🏻 so happy for you! How long have you been taking the B100 complex for? Thinking if my test tomo is Neg then I will invest in some x

happygolucky20 · 20/03/2021 08:38

Thank you @Babyghirl

@SLCxxx thank you too! I started taking it on the first day of my last period. I was fed up of being told by doctors that my pre AF spotting was just “old blood” so googled the pants off it and that’s what I found on repeat. I think I will take it forever now.
Just praying this one sticks as not sure we can go through the last year again. Trying to remain positive

Babyghirl · 20/03/2021 13:21

@happygolucky20
C the ones you where taking did it delay ur period, when I took the pregncare after my first miscarriage doc told me to still take them they made my cycle longer and I was taking vitamin d the last couple of weeks and my cycle was longer to lol in norm a 27 to 29 day kind of girl and don't want to take anything to make it longer xx

Babyghirl · 20/03/2021 13:22

@happygolucky20
Just read bck u only started taking them so u would never knw 😂🙈😂🙈😂🙈 x

justwant2beamum · 20/03/2021 15:41

Omg congrats @happygolucky20 no squinters there that's a positive!! Good luck 🤞🏻🍀

MrsF111 · 20/03/2021 20:49

Congratulations @happygolucky20. Amazing news!!

happygolucky20 · 21/03/2021 07:13

Thank you @justwant2beamum & @MrsF111

27DONFIN · 22/03/2021 10:21

@happygolucky20 just catching up congratulations.....I’m off to go buy more vitamins lol

Babyghirl · 22/03/2021 10:46

@27DONFIN
I was thinking the same but I have my app nxt wed so I'm trying nt to try until I get answers lol xx

ELM7 · 22/03/2021 11:01

@happygolucky20 congratulations hope you have a healthy 9mths.

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Annny27 · 22/03/2021 15:13

Hello ladies

@happygolucky20 best if luck to you ❤

I have read that too much vitamin b can be bad for your nerves - not sure how much to read into that but I am umming about taking my b complex high dose

@babyghirl good luck for appointment!

@mrsf111 yes I had day 3 blood tests which indicated slight pcos but as i ovulate regularly they arent bothered. I am also very small which is the opposite of what they say for pcos - but i do have a hair tummy haha 😂

I will be taking it easy on the forums this month as cant try this cycle due to my hycosy later on the month after ovulation smile so will be checking in from time to time :D xx

Babyghirl · 22/03/2021 18:42

@Annny27
I'm excited for you to get this done 😂😂😂😂 cause of the people that fall soon after 💚

kiwi17 · 22/03/2021 19:30

Hello just wondering when other people got their first positive opk after mc? I stopped bleeding over a week ago but only stopped spotting last weds so not sure if I should still be waiting or whether I've missed it. We want to try again asap so not waiting for first af. Had a negative pregnancy test last weds so I'm hopeful but not sure how long it takes. I had an expectant mc in case that makes a difference..

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