🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

@terribleimagination
Ohhh congratulations I'm sure she a wee dote. Can you post a photo of the ones you take so I can look in to them I really believe mines is low as once I got it tested on day 21 and it was on 16. 5 they say 16 says you ovulated but I was borderline. 💚

Well girls can I have the period dance (tmi) as I just wiped and there was a bit of blood omg to say I'm over the moon is an under statement lol, 😂😂😂😂😂. Praying it never coming but after a miscarriage you just want it to come so you knw where ur body is 😂😂😂😂. 💚

@Babyghirl woohoo... it's the means to an end and when you know it's coming you just want it to hurry! Also are you from Ireland or Scotland by any chance? My partner is from Donegal and it was when you said wee dote it was like talking to his family! 💚💚 make sure you have plenty of sweets and wine around xxx

@lozza2206
I'm from Ireland (Belfast) lol just an Irish slang 😂😂😂😂😂, yea it's just pink and brown in tissue but always bes like that till tomorrow 💚

Well period we'll and truly under way thank god but thank god I'm off work today cause I think it's a bed day with painkillers and a hot water bottle, just to move to make a homemade steak pie but that does nt take much effort 😂😂😂😂😂, how's every one else doing 💚

@Babyghirl I'm glad it has finally come for you... they tend to be mean periods the first one after a loss! So Netflix and chill (literally) is the key 💕💕💕 sending lots of love 💚💚💚

@lozza2206
Thank you yea noticed abit of stringy bits to so must just be clearing out 💚

@Babyghirl enjoy your duvet day off . Very jealous of your steak pie

@27DONFIN
My oh will only eat pies nw if there home made my mistake for starting to make them 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I would of bought a dennys mince pie if I was working but he won't even eat it nw 🙈🙈🙈🙈 thank you 💚

@Babyghirl ah thank you for thinking about me. I'm doing ok thanks. Time is really flying by which is great but also quite scary! Our dog hasn't doing too great recently and it's felt like a full on job trying to take care of her and get her as prepared as we can for a little baby bombshell being dropped into her life! She seems a bit better this past week but it's the reality for us of how are we going to juggle looking after her alongside a newborn - not sure we've figured it out just yet but hopefully getting there!

Looks like your partner was very thoughtful and sweet on Mother's Day!

Hope you're all holding up ok 🌸 the weather has started to pick up where I am and it's starting to feel much more like spring which is nice!

@Nuggetlover27 hope you're doing ok too!

@fizzl
Great to hear from you, not be long now to your holding baby how amazing 💚. He is amazing and still treats me on mothers day which I love. Got my fertility app through which is 2 weeks tomara not that I'm counting 😂😂😂😂 who am I kidding I'm counting down everyday just hoping they tell me nxt steps and hoping they can help me hold the nxt pregnancy 💚💚

Glad she has arrived @babyghirl seems strange wishing she would arrive but in this circumstance you just want to start fresh dont you!

14dpo for me - 16 day luteal phase so two days till AF is due.

@Lozza2206 sorry af arrived:(

@terribleimagination glad you and Daisy are getting on okay and hopefully you had a lovely first mothers day!

@27DONFIN
Pie all good to go 😂😂😂😂
@Annny27 your right app in 2 weeks so I'm glad she came nw 💚 hope. Af does not get u this month 💚

Haha snap @Annny27 due in two days

@Babyghirl ohh it’s a full on pie that’s some effort. Scottish steak pies are the filling with a puff pastry lid that sits on top. We’re very lazy with pie making lol

@27DONFIN
That's why I make them cause there bes no meat in the ones u buy lol 😂😂 might aswell just call them gravy pies lol me u and @Annny27 r nearly cycle buddies nw lol 💚

That's true we are all nearly cycle buddies! @27donfin @babyghirl

So at 10dpo I had red blood like just on wiping one time which tapered off into brown spotting from 11-13dpo and now creamy cm at 14dpo. I SWEAR if AF is mucking around I will be so angry

Pies look lush btw @babyghirl

@Annny27
Omg go and test and thank you looking forward to it NO GO TEST PLEASE lol 💚

@babyghirl 😂😂 I'm waiting untill 16 or 17dpo because I have been burned before by false hope....!

My boobs are "full" but not overly sore and I have bloating and tmi....gas pains.

It could totally be AF symptoms so we will wait and see!

@Annny27 @Babyghirl not this month for me Af had just arrived 😩

@27donfin sorry lovely ❤❤ always gutting every month that it happens xxx

@Babyghirl thanks I knew she was coming as woke up Monday morning with night sweats. Finish work in 5mins going home to eat shite. Always my response to it. Next month will be last chance of a baby this year. Just feel time is flying past and still not fell pregnant it’s pish

@Annny27
I remember was it @nuggetlover27 said to us we told her to test can't tell us this and leave us hanging 😂😂😂😂😂 @27DONFIN
Sorry the witch got you I knw bot night sweats I get them on my period to a bottle of wine and loads of chocolate I would post u abit of my pie over but would be off my it got to u 😂😂😂😂 💚

@Babyghirl 🤣 thanks for the offer tho. Think it just through me as my boobs haven’t deflated usually il wake up snd they have and I know she’s coming. Awww well the cycle continues

Hi ladies
I watched this thread last year following our mc in June but become slightly obsessed with TTC that I was told by my husband to step away from mumsnet forums. Anyhow, I am back. We are still yet to conceive and I am struggling but really don't want to become obsessed!
I took ovulation tests this month (Clearblue digital) and don't think I ovulated but I gave up after day cd13 as I find they drag me down...We also went for fertility tests in December and were given a clean bill of health and told by the consultant to throw the ov tests out but do you all swear by them? Just lost with what we do and how to let go of this gaping hole. When we were pregnant, no one from our friends were and now, every. single. one. is. and I feel such guilt that I cant give my husband one when all of his friends' wives can! Silly, I know.
Anyway, this is a rather depressing speech and not how I intended it to be!
@Annny27good luck !