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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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apwilso · 20/10/2020 15:27

Hey!

Want to get a group of ladies who are TTC at the same time to have someone to chat to during this journey together. It's a lonely process for me and only
In early stages of trying but would love advice, tips and general chat. This is an open chat and can't wait to chat to you all

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apwilso · 20/10/2020 23:08

@Waiting2BeaMama I'm on pregnacare but just got seven seas folic acid instead for time being see how they go!

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apwilso · 20/10/2020 23:11

@AKcheer @1992EM @Leah2501 hey guys! Join on. My replies are slow because I have no signal where I am atm.

Also I want to send my ovulation tests strips in. Can anyone advise what they think. All three taken today one earlier on around 3pm and the other taken about 9pm don't ask about timing hahhaa

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AKcheer · 20/10/2020 23:37

@Waiting2BeaMama Nice to meet you too! Aww it’s exciting for you isn’t it though. Especially like your first cycle! You going with an app or just the ovulation on day 14. I think I should also be around then!

AKcheer · 20/10/2020 23:40

Hey @Tabbycat92 how you doing!!

Hey @apwilso how are you! Ooh sounds interesting where are you! Haha! Ovulation strips look good line is getting dark it will get darker!! What CD are you and do you know when you usually ovulate xx

Tabbycat92 · 21/10/2020 07:23

@apwilso they look like mine do a couple days before my surge. Keep testing and dtd! 😂
Obviously everyone is different. Mine tend to raise and drop suddenly with only a couple truly positive, whereas I have seen others that have a couple days full of positive tests.

(I tried uploading a pic of my strips for comparison, but MN was having none of it 🙄)

Waiting2BeaMama · 21/10/2020 07:46

@AKcheer I have been using natural cycles since last year so always seem to ovulate around day 16/17. Although I am going to make sure we DTD around day 14 just in case I miss it! Starting opks today just to keep an eye on it. What about you?

AKcheer · 21/10/2020 07:52

Morning @Waiting2BeaMama oh I see! Yah it’s good to cover all basis! I usually use OPKs but sometimes I forget. It’s easier because I’m working from home. If I was going to the office I wouldn’t!! On period now but said to hubby let’s not focus on OPKS let’s just go with the every 2-3 days and see what happens!

FTM94 · 21/10/2020 08:16

Wow this thread moved fast! 😅 hello to all the new ladies 🙋🏻‍♀️ @Waiting2BeaMama @Livgrayxo @AKcheer @1992EM @Leah2501 How is everyone? I'm just getting ready for another day of WFH, still no sign of AF. For those of you who don't know, I have not long come off the pill so I am waiting for my first proper period before we can start trying.

AKcheer · 21/10/2020 08:40

Hey @FTM94 Nice to meet you!! All good thanks on this rainy WFH day! Oh no! How many days have you been off the pill? I remember mine and I was off the pill and I got my period 34 days after! I’m just here trying to conceive my first!

FTM94 · 21/10/2020 09:01

@AKcheer I came off microgynon at the beginning of September, I am currently on CD41 so this is longer than I was expecting but I had some pains last week which I am pretty certain were ovulation so I am expecting my AF by this time next week 🤞🏼 I am one of few who are hoping for AF to come. Sorry to hear your AF arrived yesterday 😔 sending you lots of baby dust for your next cycle, I hope this will be your month xx

apwilso · 21/10/2020 09:02

@AKcheer @Tabbycat92 I think I'm on cycle day 14 going to go do one this morning. Apps are saying tomorrow is my day but first proper month of tracking so it's hard to say!

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Tabbycat92 · 21/10/2020 09:09

@apwilso yeah mine took a good 3 months of tracking before the ovulation prediction was 100% correct.
Just BD as much as possible 😂

apwilso · 21/10/2020 09:14

@Tabbycat92 we've said that as long as we're DTD we're getting one thing right. It's just frustrating though 🤯

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Tabbycat92 · 21/10/2020 09:18

@apwilso yeah definitely. BC really does mess thing up. When I came off the pill I got pregnant 2 months later, before getting a proper cycle. So fingers crossed for you!

Originalusername6432762 · 21/10/2020 09:36

Hi there!

I'm trying for my first, just starting my second week of this cycle. Been trying for a while now to attempting to relax and enjoy things and not get bogged down with ovulation sticks and things, although I use four different apps to track my cycle!

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apwilso · 21/10/2020 10:08

@Tabbycat92 I last was on BC 2 years ago but don't know if it would still throw me off. I'd like to think my body is refreshed from it now! Fingers crossed!

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apwilso · 21/10/2020 10:08

@Originalusername6432762 hey! How you finding it so far x

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FTM94 · 21/10/2020 11:00

@Originalusername6432762 welcome! It's so hard to stay relaxed isn't it, OH and I agreed we would just come off contraception and see if it happens. That way we don't get too stressed and here I am trying to find out when I ovulate!! Just can't help myself as so ready to be a mummy X

MrsLauraM · 21/10/2020 11:10

Hi everyone! Can I join please?
I’m 31 (32 next month) and trying for our first. Had my implant out in January and we’re just seeing how things went but I’ve recently started tracking. Had my peak OPK yesterday, had a slight drop in BBT this morning and got some little pains going on so think I’m ovulating. DTD yesterday and the day before and will try again tonight just to be on the safe side. Fingers crossed this is our month/cycle!!
@apwilso my opk looked like yours on Monday then I got my peak on Tuesday lunchtime so I would keep checking today if I were you 😊

Originalusername6432762 · 21/10/2020 11:38

@FTM94 @apwilso
Really stressful and frustrating! I constantly feel like I'm doing it all wrong and it's never going to happen while everyone else seems to be having babies! But trying hard to just concentrate on other parts of life in the meantime.

apwilso · 21/10/2020 11:41

@MrsLauraM you sure can! It's good to know someone has had similar!!! I've DTD for the past 5 days😂 seem excessive but want to make sure I'm
Covered for all days hahaha. Won't lie pretty worn out now but planning on getting some clearblue ovulation tests to get a clear reading

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Bouncytree · 21/10/2020 11:50

@AKcheer yes I know it can seem so long. We were 6 months trying for our first which is not that long but seemed like forever! I had been so busy avoiding sorry all my life I felt like it was supper potent stuff and I’d be instantly pregnant! But there’s a lot of chance and luck involved.

Welcome @Originalusername6432762 And @MrsLauraM join us on the journey! ☺️

Thanks @Tabbycat92 yes I hadn’t considered dilution, good point. Though I’m
Not very good at holding my wee! 3 hours!

Bouncytree · 21/10/2020 11:54

Yes @apwilso I agree with tabby it looks like it’s on the rise! I would keep testing, it might jump soon or be like mine this month and take forever! Any EWCM?

I had a rise and dip again this morning!! Lol it’s too easy to test when working from home. More DTD for me tonight I think...I’m doing every 2 days Till I see a clear peak

@apwilso I don’t know how you do it!! 😅 you’ll definitely know you are covered 😉

Bouncytree · 21/10/2020 11:56

Thanks @Leah2501 I’ll check that. Though I think I’ve been using the same kitchen counter top the same time and Got clear reads

Tabbycat92 · 21/10/2020 11:58

@apwilso crikey 5 days! 😂 We did it twice in 3 days and that felt like alot!

Yes I too was suprised by how difficult it can be to get pregnant. It's something you're taught in school that you need to work to avoid, they fail to tell you that you're only fertile for about 5 days of the month!

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