TTC after MC - October 2020 (Thread 14)

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@MgW1 omg congratulations. Have my fingers crossed for you. May this be your sticky bean. I feel we are getting such good news on this group recently. A lot of new members which isn't so happy but lots of success stories

@MgW1 congratulations:) xx

@HappyVibes
Ahhh because I started testing too soon and got really stressed over it all. Il test again in 2 days because still in disbelief until I see a stronger line xx

Looks great so far though @MgW1! X

@MgW1 looks good to me. It has to start somewhere x

@Runnergirl1
Thank you , was your faint at similar time ? Im approx 13 dpo at the most ( maybe 12 cos mix up with positive opk) im expecting a slightly darker line friday.... so anxious!!! X

@MgW1 these are mine you can’t even see my line from 14dpo anymore. These are 14dpo, 16dpo and 19dpo (today). I’m going off peak too but I must have ovulated later I think anyway. Try not to stress (although I still am) we have to try and enjoy x

@Runnergirl1
I think yours are v.positive. mine is not with an early test, i didnt get a first response, wish I had done l now though. I think ovulated a day after I thought I did because I thought I had peaked and then the following morning my app said it was peak but I don't know how accurate the apps are tbh xx

Ah I think I may be out ladies...I’ve had a very very very slight tinge of pink in my CM today. I’m not due AF for another few days according to my apps, but think it’s the start for me 🤔 Darnnnnn xxx

@Runnergirl1
I had sharp cramps yesterday , I felt like really bad AF cramps and I have had a bad head for 4 days. Had a few throbbing pains in boobs but not 'sore boobs'yet , guess its really early. Do you have any more symptims yet? Fingers crossed they stay stuck!! xx

@MgW1 like I say you can’t see mine at 14dpo now it was that faint so yours at 13dpo look good. No no symptoms now just needing a wee and bloated that’s it. I would rather have symptoms so I know things are getting better. Fingers crossed for our sticky beans 🤞🏻🤞🏻 X

@MgW1 but I had the 4days of headaches too so stay positive x

@HappyVibes it could be implantation bleeding. Hopefully all is not lost x

I always wondered if ovulation sticks can pick up a pregnancy or not. Found myself checking the theory out ( little addicted to peeing on the stick / ordered more pregnancy tests but they arrive later this week).
Few days ago I only had one line and it was low and now two lines. So I think ovulation tests can pick up pregnancy x

Yeah @MoMof4xx OPK often detect pregnancy. Very reassuring for you more double lines 💓💓💓

@HappyVibes , I hope so.
Told my DH last night and although he's excited he doesn't want to get his hopes up too much until he's heard a heartbeat.
Least he knows now and I get how he feels x

Lovely @MoMof4xx I’m sure that that feeling is completely expected and I can fully envisage that a lot of women who have been through what we have felt a very similar way. Just think that you’re two steps ahead to where you were now, and in the position now that you’ve dreamt about. You deserve to feel the positive feelings too, please try not to let them be outweighed by the worry 💓💓💓

@HappyVibes
Thank you, will try not to ❤ x

@MgW1 congratulations! Looks good and just try not to stress and relax now everything is as it’s supposed to be! Did you do anything in particular this month to conceive?

@RubyRainbow16
Pre- seed! Seems to have made a difference. Stuggled with mucus post miscarriage , have had literally none! So after 2 month on none , got some pre - seed xx

@MgW1 I’ve found I’ve not had as much EWCM post mc I didn’t know if this was normal. If AF arrives this weekend I’m ordering some!

@RubyRainbow16
Deffo give it a go. I dont know If i have mentioned to you before but taking evening primrose on 1st day of AF for 14 days will help too. Just x1 1000mg per day. I bought some to use if AF appeared but hopefully wont need them.🤞🏻 xx

I mentioned a few days ago that I thought my CM flow was a bit different since mc and that I'd keep an eye on it. You ladies just mentioning yours now reminded me that I've been really dry when dtd in recent weeks - sorry tmi but I think it's a genuine change. Anyone else had the same? No problems with arousal or orgasm, just not producing very much 'stuff' 😛

@HappyVibes don't give up hope just yet. It might be implantation bleed.got my fingers crossed for you xx

@MgW1 I have heard the lh and hcg molecules are similar so some non specific tests do pick it up. So very happy for you. Definitely taking note of the primrose and pre-seed if AF arrives. Thank you xx

@MgW1 ill get some evening primrose ordered! What is it supposed to do?
@susiebluebell hmm I wouldn’t say I’ve had that really but it’s so hard to tell isn’t it! I feel like I overthink every bit of CM thinking ‘did it look like this when I was pregnant’ 😩 and then some days there’s none or not as much as normal 🤔