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TTC after MC - October 2020 (Thread 14)

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VP91x · 14/10/2020 07:46

Morning all xx

BFPs as I know you all check in and I love updates 💕

@1990EM
@Tink20058
@SmileyT
@2020wish
@Pugprincess
@Lollol86
@MrsK21
@Bellabubble
@MinnieMouse4
@Jazper


@VP91x
@MichT4
@Rainbowhope11
@Diorissimo1985
@Northernsoul90
@Firevie
@chloedancer897
@Happyvibes
@susiebluebell
@Furbsies
@Runnergirl1
@RichmondLady1981
@familybythesea
@Sallyjo27
@2alreadywantanother
@bxiiboo

I don't think I have everyone tagged so please pop yourselves in.

Anyone else that would also like to join please do, we are a supportive bunch💜xx

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DrS44 · 02/11/2020 19:46

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MoMof4xx · 02/11/2020 19:58

@HappyVibes hope so. Will do, thanks x

HappyVibes · 02/11/2020 20:05

Ah gosh I get you now @DrS44 No no you haven’t misused an acronym at all in your comments don’t worry on that front. MC is acronym for miscarriage lovely, that’s why I asked from the thread 💓xxx

HappyVibes · 02/11/2020 20:06

I’ve just ordered some FRER to arrive tomorrow - I’ve caved already hahaha. 9DPO tomorrow.

Any signs and symptoms from anyone in the TWW ladies, Xxx

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Furbsies · 02/11/2020 20:56

@momof4xx I for sure see a line. Congratulations. I'm sure will get darker as time goes

@HappyVibes hope that test arrives soon. Totally understand. Have you had any implantation symptoms?

Runnergirl1 · 02/11/2020 21:04

@MoMof4xx that looks like a very faint line. Fingers crossed for you x

@RichmondLady1981 yeah same exhausting. No staff all supply it was hard work. Told them today about being pregnant too but waiting until Thursday for risk assessment due to new regulations coming out x

HappyVibes · 02/11/2020 21:17

No implantation symptoms I don’t think @Furbsies I also dunno about any early pg symptoms either...I try not to get my hopes up and look into stuff too much as I’ve convinced myself before now ha. Eeek xx

RichmondLady1981 · 03/11/2020 07:44

@Bellabubble wow that does sound exhausting!! I agree I think this week is the time to tell your head. Yours and your baby’s health are the most important thing here. Hopefully your head will provide more support!

@Runnergirl1 gosh sounds manic for you too! Great you told your head! Do you feel better for saying something?

Got my peak static this morning after 6 days of flashing! Never thought it was going to go static. DTD last night and will go for it again tonight. Fingers crossed!!

Have a good day all! X

MoMof4xx · 03/11/2020 07:53

9 dpo... im pregnant, yay.
Let's hope it sticks. Not telling my DH until I've heard the heartbeat as last time he was very upset. X

TTC after MC - October 2020 (Thread 14)
TTC after MC - October 2020 (Thread 14)
SS123456 · 03/11/2020 08:12

Congratulations @MoMof4xx ! 😁. What test sticks are those? How long post mc are you? x

MSG92 · 03/11/2020 08:15

@MoMof4xx congratulations!!! 9DPO is early to get a clear positive, great news!!

HappyVibes · 03/11/2020 08:16

Oh my goodness @MoMof4xx this is absolutely beautiful to wake up to.

Ive never seen those tests before, it looks very fancy.

I fully understand about protecting DH but you also need to protect yourself too and you’re in this together. Would he not want to hear the HB too?

Congratulations lovely 💓

MoMof4xx · 03/11/2020 08:27

Thank you @happyVibes @MSG92 @SS123456
I bought the clearblue monitor a few months ago. Sticks are around £26 pounds. You get 4 pregnancy tests and the the rest are ovulation sticks. I start taking the ovulation tests no later than 9 days after my period starts and I usually ovulate between cd12-14. Tbh if all being well and I hear a heartbeat I won't need the monitor , if someone wants it I can send it for free. Usually costs around £82 for the monitor but no point in it sitting here xx

MoMof4xx · 03/11/2020 08:30

@HappyVibes I would love to hear it together but I feel I need to go and have a scan at 7 weeks alone and then go back with him a few days later.
I had a missed miscarriage at the end of August, early Sept. It shocked us both as I had a few early scans and everything was fine until around 7 weeks when it messaged 6 weeks 2 days and had no heartbeat.
Had early scans as my coil fell out and I ended up pregnant. I had the morning after pill after but we weren't sure when it fell out and I was still pregnant. Noticed it wasn't there when I did my monthly check of the strings. Xx

WatermelonSugar10 · 03/11/2020 08:32

Congratulations @MoMof4xx!!! So exciting!! Good luck keeping it a secret, I was useless last time 😂

susiebluebell · 03/11/2020 09:34

@WatermelonSugar10 same here! 😛 Congratulations @MoMof4xx, so happy for you!

daisyorange · 03/11/2020 09:52

Hello ladies,

Firstly massive congrats to all of you with your BFPs. So lovely and encouraging to see ♥️

I hope you don’t mind me adding in here a bit late, I was on the sept thread but I was trying to take a bit of a step back this month.

I have been doing SMEP - has anyone tried it? Currently CD 19 and got my peak OPK on CD 16&17 so pretty sure I ovulated yday going by pains, and a negative LH test. Expected a temp spike today and didn’t have one! Sometimes I do have a slow rise but so disappointing as I was really expecting it. In 11 months I’ve temped I’ve never experienced anovulatory cycle so I really hope this isn’t one after so so so so much BDing!!!!! Just wondering if anyone has experienced anything similar?

My chart and OPKs attached.

Thank you ladies for any help of advice you can give me!
Xxx

TTC after MC - October 2020 (Thread 14)
TTC after MC - October 2020 (Thread 14)
Furbsies · 03/11/2020 10:19

@momof4xx congratulations this is so nice to hear. Success stories. I do hope you work it out though. You need all the support you can get you and DH are in this together, one team. You need all the help you can get as well.

@HappyVibes ahhh. I am so bad at symptom spotting that I make it up in my head too. Been trying to feel my body extra sensitively and not relaxing as much. Almost making me think this month won't be it for me cause of how much I'm stressing over it.

I didn't have any implantation symptoms last time. Just bang and huge pains on the sides of my nipples all the way till the armpits like I'd never had before. And that was 10dpo when I finally tested back then realising this pain wasn't my normal one.

Your time to test is coming soon!! Hang on in there

I have been having the weirdest pain my in legs (like I said symptom spotting) I usually only have leg cramps 2/3 days before AF and my cycles are usually 32 to 36 days. So tiny bit early for these

Also dreaming a lot these days. Yday i dreamt I conceived and miscarried again. And today I just dreamt we've had a good first trimester and telling close family... Mind is playing tricks on me

Furbsies · 03/11/2020 10:20

@msg92 how are you doing at 5dpo? Trying not to symptom spot or anything. It's way too early anyway. But getting more and more excited

F23xoxo · 03/11/2020 10:25

Hi all! I’m sorry just jumping in, bit random but I’m having a wee flaky lol

Can I ask if anyone has had a rise in LH after what was thought ovulation?
I had my peak LH surge CD 20.
Now I’m CD 29. I’m due my period approx this weekend Sat 7th Nov.
I’m getting a wee bit of ewcm too
4 days before period,, surely it’s a bit late for ovulation?

I’m so confused lol

HappyVibes · 03/11/2020 10:26

@Furbsies I just looked back on my apps and i did record cramps at 5DPO...they all blur into one now I never remember off the top of my head.

I recently had a full on burning sensation in my nipple too, which was odd for me. Trying not to read into it, but we shall see....

Where are you at now DPO wise? Xxxx

MSG92 · 03/11/2020 10:28

Hey @Furbsies some bazaar dreams you are having! I don't really get symptoms, other than being tired, which has been for the past goodness knows how many years! I'm desperate to test this month though, but I think a negative test is harder than AF arriving so I am TRYING not to!!! Do you plan on testing before 14DPO?

Furbsies · 03/11/2020 10:45

@HappyVibes I have my fingers crossed for you. Sounds promising. But I am not going to get your hopes up. It is so difficult because I want to be excited for you but completely understand why you need to relax on this one. I am 5dpo today. Legs are crampy. So so crampy. Walking down the stairs, I really felt it xxxx

@msg92 I have an USS on 9th nov, that's 11dpo and 2 days before my app predicts AF. I'm tempted to test that morning simply because I don't want to turn up and they ask could you be pregnant and be like maybe. Maybe not. Idk. I'm constantly changing my mind on this.

MichT4 · 03/11/2020 12:46

Sorry to jump in with a non TTC post, but @Firevie I just wanted to say I hope your family are all well and unaffected by the news from Vienna xxx

Hope everyone is well. Sending love as always xxx