Crazy gang part..errr f*ck who knows anymore!

[Missgoldilocks]

Hey @Danni2019 @Mumofboys17 @LAnna20 @lv1987 @katie1109

I don't know if I missed anyone sorry!! Please tag others of you notice any missing xx

I got my peak two days late today is cd17 but I got it thank god along with a lot of ewcm today. Didn't manage to dtd last night I fell asleep and my OH didn't wake me up grrrrrr but we dtd from cd13 to cd15 and will dtd twice tonight! Hope that does it!!

😂 I started a new thread too last night as I couldn't post anything. Glad you got your peak now. It is difficult to DTD every night so I think you have it covered. In my TWW now too. My OH sperm results came back normal too so it must just be me. Fingers crossed my next blood test shows a lower level again 🤞 x

Happy just to come on to this thread so just ignore mine. I also tagged previous BFPs as I know they like to check in now and again:

@Sunflower2019
@Fredthespider
@Quiffy
@Mumofboys17
@BFP2020

@Danni2020 oh sorry! I didn't see anyone tag me so I thought I'd make one lol. Yes, I'm just glad something happened, I was starting to think I wouldn't ovulate at all!
Great that his sperm is okay, but please don't think like that, you're both in this together no one is to blame x

@Missgoldilocks My O day was late on the cycle we conceived 😊 so definitely still possible! Plus you’ve DTD lots! If you feel up to is deffo try again tonight, I stayed a bit wet feeling for 2-3 days but wasn’t using OPK’s so we just kept going when we could manage it 😂 you’re doing everything you can lovely just keep strong and keep going xxx

@Danni2020 good to hear about OH’s sperm results! I’ve always been curious about my DH’s sperm count as we struggled to conceive both times but never actually got him tested. Hopefully your levels continue to drop and it’ll be good news soon 😊 xx

Thank you for the tag btw! I’d hate to lose you all now ❤️

@Mumofboys17 😂😁 we will dtd again tonight I'll try and get two out of him again ;) this is definitely the most weve dtd lol with tonight it will be 7 or 8 times, if that doesn't do it then I give up 😂 my cervix rose and softened last night too so I think it's ovulation day today! X

@Missgoldilocks yay!! All sounds very good!! You've done all you can do ❤️ I've got everything crossed for you again xx

@Missgoldilocks so pleased you got your peak. You've done all you can now so try not to stress x

@Mumofboys17 @LAnna20 thanks girls I feel pretty calm Thank god. My OH is going away for the weekend and I'm going to stay with a long time friend who I haven't seen in ages so I know we will have lots of laughs :) the craziness starts around 8dpo 😂 but I'm proud of us we really gave it everything we had this cycle lol.
How are you both? Xx

@Missgoldilocks sorry for the belated reply! I'm doing OK but got a cold courtesy of my germy DS and the fatigue has hit me HARD 😵😭 day off in bed with Netflix for me 😂
Hope everyone else is doing OK? Xx

@Missgoldilocks I'm ok thank you. The first week of the tww has gone pretty quickly as I've been away for a few days. I hope you have a lovely time with your friend.
@Mumofboys17 hope you feel better soon. Plenty of rest! Xx

Hey Everyone,

Tag never came up for me was looking for ye.

@Mumofboys17 SNAP. My DD went and started school last week I took the week off and the saturday she got a cold and then passed it onto me I had to stay in bed all day yesterday a cold along with nausea does not mix well. Are you still very nauseous? What are you now? When is your scan?

@Danni2020 @LAnna20 when is AF due for you?

@Missgoldilocks I think you have done more than enough DTD even if you only get one in tonight

@BFP2020 haha no way.. kids, who'd have 'em?! Little germ spreaders 😂😂
I'm 9 weeks now, nausea has eased quite a bit thankfully (was the same with DS I don't tend to get bad morning sickness - VERY lucky!) if I wasn't pregnant I would have taken some cold/flu meds and manned up 😂 but, nah, too tired 😴 scan is at the end of September 😊 haven't gone for an early one, we just haven't had the time! Think we may go for an early gender scan instead 🙊 how are things with you?? X

@BFP2020 AF should be due Friday xx

@BFP2020 af not due for me until a week on Tuesday so not even half through the TWW yet. Got another blood test on Monday though so I will be interested to know what my levels are now. I don't think they will quite be there yet but fingers crossed for nearly. They will only up my medication in really small doses and then blood test after 6 weeks so it seems a long process. Although I can see why as soon as when I increase my dose I can't function for a day and slept for most of the day. Hope your keeping well though and must be good getting close to that 12 week mark x

@Mumofboys17 I'm 8+3 . I haven't been sick either just all nausea but it comes and goes. I was fine Monday and Tuesday but it came back with a bang again then yesterday. Think I had it till about 13 weeks with DD. Have another early scan Tuesday then my 12 week is on the 6th Oct. x

@LAnna20 everything crossed for you. xx

@Danni2020 I hope your levels will be down and then you get your BFP too this month. I'm good just wishing the weeks away. Scan Tuesday now I'll be 9 weeks so it will break the wait up a bit more for me xxx

Hey girls,

So last Friday I was induced due to reduced feral movements...

On the 6th of September after quite a traumatic labour sonny Roman was born - 6lb 8oz of pure handsomeness 🥰

All started on this little thread ♥️

Hope you girls are okay? Xx

Reduced feral 😂😂 fetal is the correct term 🥰 x

@Sunflower2019 OMG!! 😍😍 massive congratulations!! First baby of the crazy gang ❤️❤️❤️ thank you so much for sharing! He's bloody gorgeous!
I'm doing OK just really struggling with the fatigue, the end feels a very long way off right now 😫 now I've seen your pics I can't wait!! Xxx

@Sunflower2019 congratulations he's gorgeous! Hope you are both doing well x

@Sunflower2019 welcome to the world baby Sonny. Congratulations he is absolutely gorgeous x

@Sunflower2019 he’s gorgeous!! Congratulations! Sorry it wasn’t a nice easy labour for you, remember you can ask for a debrief if you think it will help you process what happened.

Enjoy your time with your little man xx

Need your advice lovely ladies as feeling quite hurt this morning. Last night in a silly argument over nothing my OH said that it was my decision to have a child talking about my DS. I am feeling quite hurt by this as we both sat down together and made the decision to try for a baby. Granted he happened very quickly without much time to get used to the idea I was pregnant but feeling really hurt by what he said. Like I went behind his back or something or that he doesn't really want DS. Am I right to feel this way about what he said? 🙁x

@Sunflower2019 oh em geee he's gorgeous, super congratulations to your little family ❤️❤️

@Mumofboys17 @BFP2020 excited to see all the scans 😍😍

Fingers crossed for everyone else this month 🤞🤞

@Danni2020 I don't think it's wrong to feel sad by what he said, I know I wasn't there but it could have been said in the heat of the moment and I'm sure he didn't mean it to sound the way it did x
DH and I have had a similar arguments in the past. I remember DS being newborn and I was just losing my shit and crying at how hard it was and how tired I was.. and he said something similar like 'well you wanted this' and 'who else is going to do it?!' at the time I was devastated by that comment. But we both slept on it and I told him in the morning how it made me feel.. he basically tried to explain he was giving me a bit of tough love 😂 he just doesn't have a way with words, shall we say!
Just to add - my DH is an amazing Dad to DS and has supported me no end when pregnant and recovering post birth! He's not all bad 😂
Hope that helps a bit. I'm sure it's just a blip and you'll be fine, just don't bottle things up, it's always better to talk xx