Crazy gang part..errr f*ck who knows anymore!

[Missgoldilocks]

Hey @Danni2019 @Mumofboys17 @LAnna20 @lv1987 @katie1109

I don't know if I missed anyone sorry!! Please tag others of you notice any missing xx


I got my peak two days late today is cd17 but I got it thank god along with a lot of ewcm today. Didn't manage to dtd last night I fell asleep and my OH didn't wake me up grrrrrr but we dtd from cd13 to cd15 and will dtd twice tonight! Hope that does it!!

[Mumofboys17]

Hiya ladies, sorry I've been a bit MIA, we went away for a week by the seaside, was much needed!
@Missgoldilocks sorry about the negative lovely. Hope you're ok? When is AF officially due? Xx
@BFP2020 first scan is next Wednesday 😊 thankfully our hospitals maternity unit is allowing partners to attend scans so DH can come too, which is a relief. I'm not feeling as anxious anymore, just excited now! 🥰 I've got a bump already🙊 and struggling lots with back and ligament pain (same thing happened with DS) so will be attempting to seek help from the GP soon 🙄🤞🏻 how are things going for you? X

[Danni2020]

@Missgoldilocks sorry about the negative af arrived for me too on Monday @BFP2020 thanks for thinking of me. I'm feeling the same as you just getting on with life now it's all I can do and hopefully what will be will be. I usually have this attitude up until about 8dpo and then the craziness still comes out again but I can live with being fine for 3 weeks and crazy for 1 😂 x

[Missgoldilocks]

@Mumofboys17 heyy glad you had a nice time away! Af came last night and it's been a baddun!! Been in pain all day but its finally let up. I actually feel fine though just getting on with it xx :)

@Danni2020 sorry af got you too xx yep about 8dpo I wonder if and maybe lol but I know by 11dpo normally that I'm not! A lot better than 4 weeks of obsessing xx

[Mumofboys17]

@Missgoldilocks bless you. Best way to look at it, still shitty though. Hope you can manage some self care in the next week ❤️ you know I'm a fan of a lush bath 🙃😂 swear by it!! Xx

@Danni2020 I really hope you and all the others still here finally get a BFP soon! I'm holding out for it!! Hope you're doing ok on your latest new dose of meds too xx

[Mumofboys17]

Hi ladies x hope you're all OK x

Thought I'd revive the thread to share my scan picture today 😊 due date 15th April next year, feels all the more real now! I also reckon I'm having another boy 😂

❤️

[Fredthespider]

@Mumofboys17 awwww love a scan pic!! Congratulations!! April is going to come around so quick now :)

[Mumofboys17]

@Fredthespider thank you! 😊 I was so anxious when we went in, was such a relief to see everything is definitely OK! How are you doing? Your due date can't be far away now?! X

[Danni2020]

@Mumofboys17 congratulations great to see some good news. Glad everything went well x

[Missgoldilocks]

@Mumofboys17 awww congrats!! Glad everything is good :) you're gonna have a taurus like you! Lol xx

[Mumofboys17]

@Danni2020 thank you lovely x

@Missgoldilocks haha well remembered!! 😂 that could go either way couldn't it 😬 probably be better it's another boy so we don't clash hahaha xx hope you're doing ok x

[LAnna20]

@Mumofboys17 congratulations! Glad it went well for you x

[Missgoldilocks]

@Mumofboys17 it definitely could!! I'm okay, had some bad news this week, my mums been diagnosed with cancer and we are waiting to hear what stage it is at. So it's been emotional. I'm going to Italy with OH this weekend so it will be nice hopefully, obviously it's hard not to worry though xx

[Danni2020]

@Missgoldilocks sorry to hear you news. My mum was diagnosed with cancer 5 years ago luckily it was only stage 1 and was caught really early. After treatment she was fine. Was a complete shock to us all as my mum was only in her early 50s then.
I really hope it is good news for your mum as it is an horrendous time to go through and horrible to watch them so sick after chemo. It is like they are a different person. Fingers crossed they have caught it early and your mum can fight it. Italy sounds amazing to try and take your mind off things x

[LAnna20]

@Missgoldilocks sorry to hear your news. I hope you can still have a lovely much needed break in Italy xx

[Mumofboys17]

@Missgoldilocks oh lovely I'm so sorry to hear that 🙁 my mum had cervical cancer but thankfully just needed surgery and didn't need chemo. Hopefully like others have said it's good and early and very treatable. Try and enjoy your weekend away, you deserve it. Lots of virtual love and hugs xxx

[Katie1109]

Hi ladies! Sorry I’ve been MIA, I needed a bit of mental break from TTC, also struggled to find the new thread! 😂 We decided to take it easy in September with no opks etc x
@Mumofboys17 love the scan photo, so cute 🥰🥰. How are you feeling?
@Missgoldilocks so sorry about the news about your Mum x fingers crossed it’s not advanced and she’ll be fine 🤞
We went on holiday abroad for 10 days and so it happens going by the pains I think I was ovulating then. I’m expecting my period on Sunday, but not feeling any PMS symptoms so far. Of course I did a pg test already, I’m probably 10-11 DPO and I think I can see a hint of a line but I’m not getting too excited about it x even if we managed to get pregnant after 2 MCs I don’t think I’ll be excited before 12 week scan and all clear on genetic testing x

[Katie1109]

There’s a photo of the test, it’s only Sainsbury’s own so not sure how reliable, as I said not getting excited just yet, not even telling my OH x

[Mumofboys17]

@Katie1109 hello, you!! ❤️ lovely to have you back! I'm doing ok thanks 😊 sicky feelings have finally stopped just have raging heartburn now 😂 great stuff! Still doesn't feel real tbh I was so anxious yesterday I was shaking on the bed before I was scanned 🙈
A little exciting to hear about the faint line! Totally understand why you're not over thinking it just yet though. Take it easy and just see. Hopefully it's some lovely good news 🤞🏻 xx

[Mumofboys17]

It was Sainsbury's brand you used before with the last positive as well wasn't it? I can deffo see something but agree it is faint x

[Katie1109]

@Mumofboys17 yes it was Sainsbury’s last time and had similar line then x I have no symptoms whatsoever, last time my boobs were so painful from 5DPO it was unreal, I also had nausea pretty early, although it was a twin pregnancy so maybe it had something to do with it x I had some pinching and pulling on the left side and some cramps here and there but nothing it would class as a symptom of anything x
Glad sicky feelings have stopped now x it’s a good sign at this stage isn’t it? Did you have your genetic testing done yet? x

[Mumofboys17]

@Katie1109 I had zero obvious symptoms prior to this bfp! The only thing that made me test was DS telling me I had a baby in my tummy 😂 and i'd had a headache for about 3 days, that's honestly it! X
Yeah I think so, I had a wobble really early on where my symptoms disappeared for a day or two, and my cp was low and very hard, I figured that was the end 🙁 but it all came back with full force the next day! Bodies are weird 😂 and obviously everything's ok for now as the scan was fine!
Yeah they did everything at the one appointment, I had my bloods done and even my flu jab 😂 got it all done! Xx

[Katie1109]

@Mumofboys17 glad you’ve got it all done in one go and that all is well x saves the hassle of multiple appointments x what do you think you’re having? x
How weird was that DS telling you? OMG I would freak out, is he some kind of psychic? Lol 😂

[Mumofboys17]

@Katie1109 haha I know right! The last couple of weeks he was telling everyone that mummy is having 2 babies 😳 me and DH were actually a bit anxious before the scan yesterday! Friends/family all said if it is twins they want him to pick their lottery numbers 😂😂 deffo just one baby though x
I really think it's another boy. I like the idea of having a girl but I just feel like I know it's a boy 😂 forever out-manned in my house! X

[Missgoldilocks]

Thank you @Danni2020 @Mumofboys17 @Katie1109 @LAnna20 we are all really hoping it's early stages. She's been having bowel issues for a year and she's lost loads of weight but you know you just don't think it could be that. The tumour they found was the size of a walnut and it was before going to the actual bowel, they couldn't go further into her bowels because they didn't want to irritate it. Its awful not knowing what's going to happen but seriously hoping it will be early 🤞🤞🤞 she's being so strong but I find myself wanting to break down when I'm with her 💔 we find out everything Thursday so 🤞


I see a line so I really hope it's good news for you kate xx

[Katie1109]

Thanks @Missgoldilocks x I really hope you’ll get some good news about your mum 🤞