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Crazy gang part..errr f*ck who knows anymore!

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Missgoldilocks · 08/09/2020 17:38

Hey @Danni2019 @Mumofboys17 @LAnna20 @lv1987 @katie1109

I don't know if I missed anyone sorry!! Please tag others of you notice any missing xx


I got my peak two days late today is cd17 but I got it thank god along with a lot of ewcm today. Didn't manage to dtd last night I fell asleep and my OH didn't wake me up grrrrrr but we dtd from cd13 to cd15 and will dtd twice tonight! Hope that does it!!

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Katie1109 · 04/10/2020 10:41

False alarm, af got me this morning 😩 I think We are now ready to give up x

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Missgoldilocks · 04/10/2020 10:55

@katie1109 I'm so sorry this journey really is hard xxxx

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Danni2020 · 04/10/2020 12:26

@Katie1109 so sorry my lovely we are all here with you and in this together x

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Quiffy · 05/10/2020 11:07

@Missgoldilocks lots of love for your mum and family. Everything crossed for good news ❤️

@Katie1109 sorry about af, it is heartbreaking but you're incredibly strong

@Mumofboys17 gorgeous scan photo - very exciting April baby ❤️

@beau2020 hope you're okay ❤️

@Fredthespider hope you're doing well too!

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Mumofboys17 · 05/10/2020 20:51

@Katie1109 I agree - the support in this group is amazing - and you've come SO far!! We're all here for you, this journey can be gut wrenchingly painful and unfair. Please, please don't give up. ❤️❤️

@Missgoldilocks hope all is ok with your mum and everything else? Xx

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Mosherchick · 05/10/2020 20:58

Hello. Late to the party, will be drifting in and out.

I had to take a step back TTC, as it was dragging me down mentally and emotionally. Now we're back at it.

I thought we'd missed my fertile window this time around, as I ovulated four days ago and we didn't DTD. HOWEVER, yesterday we did, and by the end of the day, I was 99% certain that I've ovulated for a second time. More spotting, slight twinges and EWCM was back!

Anyway, I know it's pretty rare for this to happen, so I'm not going to drive myself crazy over this. But phantom pregnancy is also supposed to be rare too, and I was hit with that back in January.

Glad I got that off my chest. 😊

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Missgoldilocks · 05/10/2020 21:03

@quiffy thank you hope you're well!! ❤️

@Mumofboys17 hey lovely, I'm okay, Italy was great we had some fab holiday sex lol my mum is holding up well, I'm really trying to think positive that they will be able to help her and that it isn't too far along or anything like that. It's just the waiting that is hard!! I'm cd13 today, won't dtd tonight I don't want to force anything and I won't be tracking. Will dtd tomorrow and Wednesday no pressure and no double sessions lol. How are you? Xx

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Missgoldilocks · 09/10/2020 11:36

Hey everyone how are we all? This thread is dead now 😭 I feel like I'm the only one left trying!!
I had good news this morning, my mums cancer hasn't spread its within the bowels so they ate going to operate to get it out. So glad it hasn't spread beat news xx
I have no idea when I ovulated or if I have ovulated, last month I ovulated cd18 and I'm cd17 today so maybe it'll. Happen tomorrow I have no sticks to check :( but we dtd cd11 cd14 cd15 and we will tonight being cd17

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Fredthespider · 09/10/2020 12:28

@Missgoldilocks I'm so pleased the cancer hasn't spread!! That's great news!

I do keep an eye on you all even though I'm not trying. I feel a bit like I'm rubbing it in if I post too much and I really don't want to put anyone off reading/posting on here. I know how much of a rollercoaster TTC is and I know it's not personal but you sometimes can't help how you feel.

Fingers crossed for ovulation today/tomorrow for you :) x

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Missgoldilocks · 09/10/2020 13:30

@Fredthespider it's such great news thank you so much ❤️ ❤️ lovely to hear from you :) how far along are you now How's everything going? Thank you! I guess we will just dtd till we are safe haha xx

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Danni2020 · 09/10/2020 16:36

@Missgoldilocks so glad you had good news about your mum. Must be a huge relief. There isn't many people posting these days. I don't really have much to report at the moment as still trying but not doing anymore OPKs or anything and just trying to go with the flow at the moment. I'm a week into the TWW so will see what happens next Friday x

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Missgoldilocks · 09/10/2020 16:42

@Danni2019 thank you ❤️ ah cool! Yeah since I don't know when I ovulated I have no idea where I am myself, maybe it'll make it easier on me too xx

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Mumofboys17 · 09/10/2020 19:11

@Missgoldilocks I'm still here, my love!! X
Life just feels so busy at the moment, and like @Fredthespider says I sometimes get carried away posting about stuff on here then feel guilty for over sharing now 😣

I'm waiting for the BFP posts of all the OG crazy gang! 🥰 Because it WILL happen!
I've tried a few other threads on here and have to say no where else is the same as our little gang! Xxx

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Missgoldilocks · 10/10/2020 14:26

@Mumofboys17 🤗🤗❤️❤️ Well I have no idea where I am in my cycle or when af is due because I dunno when or if I ovulated! Dtd around the time needed that's all we can do!

@LAnna20 you OK? Xx

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LAnna20 · 10/10/2020 14:53

@Mosherchick hello and glad you are feeling better about it 😊
@Missgoldilocks I am still here . I've just taken a bit of a break this cycle. However the relaxed approach I think meant we only dtd once in my fertile window so not feeling hopeful there. So pleased to hear about your mum that is great news ☺️ x

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Quiffy · 11/10/2020 11:02

@Missgoldilocks that is brilliant news on your mum, so happy for you all. Here's to beating cancer's butt.

I'm with others, checking in every few days to see how you're all getting on. 🤞🤞🤞 For bfps soon ❤️

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BFP2020 · 12/10/2020 19:56

Hey girls just said I'd check in I had my scan last Tue all good here's a pic of my bub looking like it's sucking it's thumb. 💕 hope everyone is doing good and hoping for some BFPs this month xxx

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Danni2020 · 13/10/2020 08:11

@BFP2020 so glad everything is all well with your little one. Now the excitement can start x

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Missgoldilocks · 13/10/2020 13:00

@BFP2020 awwww cutie!! That's so lovely xxx

@LAnna20 thanks chick. I still don't know when i ovulated or if I have lol but got some gold news today, the hospital rang me and is moving my fertility appointment forward to sometime this year, just waiting on another phone call with an appointment :) xx

@Quiffy thank you xx

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Danni2020 · 14/10/2020 07:45

@Missgoldilocks glad your appointment is being moved up that is amazing news! Really hope you get some answers. My af is definitely about to arrive can just tell so that's me out another month. Oh well. Have another blood test on the 26th and if my levels are finally where they should be also going to be asked to be referred for further tests etc. They just won't do anything else until my thyroid level is where it should be which is very frustrating. It should hopefully be sorted this time though x

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Missgoldilocks · 14/10/2020 10:24

@Danni2019 thank you! Fingers crossed that it's good news for that blood test then! All we can do is try to be as healthy as can be I suppose.
Im going to be as positive as I can be. I don't know what dpo I am but I don't feel pregnant at all, I feel the same as I do every month. Also just got news that someone else is pregnant lol I'm like wow there must be some issue with us!! But I've got to try and focus and be happy x

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LAnna20 · 15/10/2020 15:07

@Missgoldilocks that's great news about your appointment. When did you first contact them to get on the list? X
@Danni2020 hope AF didn't arrive for you? Mine arrived although I knew it was going to this month so just trying to focus on next month now . We will get there x

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Missgoldilocks · 15/10/2020 15:43

@LAnna20 before lockdown! But she put me on referral in July and I had to wait till january to get seen but obviously now they've pushed it forward but I still don't know when. Sorry af got you :( I don't know when mine is due but somewhere next week sounds about right

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Danni2020 · 16/10/2020 18:01

@LAnna20 af is tormenting next this cycle not arrived today took a test but it's negative so just waiting for it now. Just wish it would hurry up and arrive to get it out the way again! X

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Danni2020 · 17/10/2020 12:10

Well still no af for me today which is very strange my last cycles have all been 26 days and occasionally 27 but haven't been over that all this year. Definitely tormenting me now!! X

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