@RandyGiles06 maybe see about rearranging the smear they can usually get them in quite quickly but it would mean waiting for the results before ttc just incase. Best to get it before as they won’t do a smear or any required treatment during. We haven’t told friends/family about plans to ttc i have mostly said it wouldn’t be until after my 30th next year just to buy myself a bit more time without the pressure :)
@TheNewMrsW well done on the 2 work outs! Hope af comes soon for you!
I think a lot of people do tell parents and besties before 12 weeks :) agreed would be so hard to hide the not drinking! Dh is adamant when we get a bfp he doesn’t want to tell anyone for 12 weeks but I agree with you about the miscarriage support. I am really high risk for miscarriage due to a blood clotting disorder which I think is why dh is putting his foot down. I guess we will see what feels right if/when it happens
@sunflowersaremyfav93 omgosh same I am wanting choc so bad at the moment lol! Good luck with starting the opks :) I ordered mine but it’s all so confusing I’m delaying until next cycle lol! Let us know how it goes :) have now seen your subsequent posts and this is exactly me trying to work them out which is why I’m now putting off until next cycle haha
@Baker0104 I feel exactly the same excited but also really apprehensive! I feel like when we get a positive and then to 12 weeks will just be excitement but until then I feel the nerves will stay haha! Saying that then I’ll probs be nervous about the birth for the rest of the pregnancy haha
@Pebbleinthesand I just thought the same about everyone being busy haha if possible this group is even more active than the Original one! Oh gosh thanks for the heads up re the caffeine you have kicked my Butt into gear and as of next week I’m going cold turkey! Better to be tired now than when potential morning sickness is an issue lol! So cute that your dd is asking if you brought her a baby yet that is adorable! Love that you will be able to do your announcement with her :)
@queenatom so glad you have moved across :) aw bless you hope you are okay after the eye injection?
@CookieMonster3001 yayyy! So exciting! That’s exactly what I have had to do! In our house ‘ntnp’ involves him not knowing dates even though I know them all off by heart haha! Way less pressure :) ahhh so excited for you :) you guys sound like you are doing exactly what we are doing :) fingers crossed!
Bless your friend! Glad she has had the house move to distract her :) hahahaha omgosh yes I watch them so quietly in fear dh will see and it will put him off hahaha! I think easier for them to be blasé when they don’t have to push the baby out lol!
Love the idea of a post saying everyones names and when they are planning to ttc as I always forget :)
@Bells3032 are you feeling better? Hope dh s.a went well? Did they say they will send results in the meantime? Keeping everything crossed for you! So nice that your best friend is planning ttc too :) will be nice for you to share with your close circle when you get your bfp as they sound like a great support network :)
Thought of the day... anyone else remember being young and the horror stories of getting pregnant from a hot tub or from ‘doing bits’ not having sex! Now I’m sat here reading about how to pee on an opk stick and thinking omg! How does that even happen when it sounds so hard and complicated to get pregnant! All these years I’ve been using contraception thinking it’s so easy to be pregnant and now I’m like how the hell to people even get pregnant haha! Xx