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TMI- possible two fathers

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NameChangedMarch · 01/03/2020 17:10

Hi all, I have name changed for this as I really need some help.

I am late on my period today by 2 days.

Conceived date was 13th Feb. I have a 28 day usual cycle, no problem. I am not on any contraception at the moment...

I had sex with this man I am seeing at the moment (man 1) he finished in me 3 times over the course of 1 day/ evening. I had been staying at his for a few days. 13th was the only day we had sex (3 times).

Man 2 (my ex) I stupidly slept with the next day but we used protection. I was stupidly quite drunk, but the next day he told me he had w**ked himself off, and then put his 'covered' fingers inside me... I will not tell you what my reaction was to that AngrySad

This was when he was doing something to me....

I know this sounds really, really bad but please don't judge me. I feel silly for even asking this but I need some advice. If I do not come on over the next few days I will of course take a test.

Obviously man 1 has the most chance... but he is a heavy smoker of 15 years, I hear that can reduce the sperm quality? Man 2 is a lot more healthier Sad

Thank you to anyone who has read this x

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JuanSheetIsPlenty · 10/03/2020 11:58

Why the decision to terminate, then?

Because she thought more about?

WanderingTrolley1 · 10/03/2020 14:17

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Windyatthebeach · 10/03/2020 14:35

Sperm quality /quantity won't answer anything..
My exh went for a vasectomy and was told it was unlikely he would have ever fathered a dc anyway. Deformed tube and low sperm count /mobility.
He had 3 x dc.
Please be more careful with your life choices op.
They may come back to bite you in future.
*non perfect mner here.
Flowers

MummyNWife · 10/03/2020 14:46

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PickwickThePlockingDodo · 10/03/2020 14:51

Mummy my post was deleted for asking the same Hmm

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WanderingTrolley1 · 10/03/2020 17:19

Not sure why mine was deleted...

Lillipop87 · 10/03/2020 17:58

Don't see why she is getting so much grief she said she made a mistake and has learnt her lesson for it. No one's perfect and were all human. Op if you think a termination is what's right for you then that's your decision to make. However from previous things that you have said it sounds like you wanted to keep the baby so all I will say is be 100%sure before u decide. hope you are ok and that everything works out for you. X

Hoggleludo · 10/03/2020 18:01

We can't tell you

No one on the internet can tell you

The only way you will know is anDNA test.

Hoggleludo · 10/03/2020 18:05

It could be either. None of us were there

All these people saying it's man1. Giving the OP hopes up

The only way though. Is the dna test. In which case. You'd need to tell each man.

idiotseverywhere · 10/03/2020 19:48

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onetime10 · 10/03/2020 20:33

@idiotseverywhere I hope you count yourself as one of those after that comment. Disgusting rude person.

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