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Two week wait...again

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BabyB19 · 22/10/2019 15:28

Hi mums/mumstobe, I’m currently in the two week wait after having a MMC (missed miscarriage) in June at 12 weeks. After a 10 week bleed I have settled into what seems to be a normal cycle again appx27/28 days. I’m saying I’m in the two week wait but I’m unsure if I’ve even OV. Anyone want to keep me company as I’m going out of my mind and feel like I’m boring the real people in my life 🤦🏽‍♀️

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Kc1988 · 19/11/2019 20:48

Oh ok yes I am new so that will be why

dizzy85 · 20/11/2019 07:09

Morning, another negative for me again 🥺, plus had another bit of spotting so I'm pretty sure it's pre af. Feel really depressed now 😭

Tbug · 20/11/2019 09:59

Sorry I've been non existent, been working the longest shifts 😟 hoping we get some BFPs ❤️ you guys testing today?

Jonesbabynumber1 · 20/11/2019 10:34

@dizzy85 nothing worse than a bfn to make you feel rubbish but if af come you can have a break and recharge ready for next cycle. I don’t want to do one as I’m sure I’m out

Jonesbabynumber1 · 20/11/2019 10:40

@tbug I think I’ll be 10/11 dpo Friday so may rest then with a frer but almost Tempted to wait until sat

Jonesbabynumber1 · 20/11/2019 10:40

@BabyB19 have you tested?

BabyB19 · 20/11/2019 10:41

Urgh, hungover and a stark white on an IC, feeling pretty shitty today and sounds like I'm in good company, feel like I'm definitely out this month now. So pissed off. At what point do you go to the dr?

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Tbug · 20/11/2019 10:52

I was thinking this they say TTC over a year you should go docs, this is month 10 for me x

BabyB19 · 20/11/2019 10:55

I don't think I can wait much longer I feel really utterly fed up today. I just think I'm really out. Even though AF isn't due yet I just have that feeling

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BabyB19 · 20/11/2019 10:55

Has anyone else tested?

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Jonesbabynumber1 · 20/11/2019 11:03

@BabyB19 that’s how I feel I was thinking I wondering when can I go Drs even for just a basic blood screen. I’ve got my works Christmas night out etc Saturday and I’m planning on drowning my sorrows in plenty of alcohol. No test yet. I just don’t want to see the bright white test. When actually I’ve excepted it this month

dizzy85 · 20/11/2019 11:03

@Jonesbabynumber1 this is true but it's having to go through it alllll over 😒. I hope your lack of wanting to test is a good sign!

dizzy85 · 20/11/2019 11:07

@BabyB19 I feel your pain I've had enough these last few days too! In such a bad mood again and just did a cheap test even though I got a bfn this morning still the same. I asked my doctor before and he said they won't send for any tests until you've tried for a year without success or had 3 miscarriages it's crazy!

ceebee21 · 20/11/2019 11:31

Hi @BabyB19 @Jonesbabynumber1 @Tbug @dizzy85

Sorry to hear a few of you are feeling down :(

I am still a few days behind you yet so can't really comment, but I do think it is natural to feel really down and gutted each time you see a negative. I am sort of dreading next week, the TWW is horrible, but at least you still have that 50/50 chance of a BFP so you can remain slightly optimistic.

I fell pregnant straight away after having the implant removed in July and couldn't believe it... I then thought it would be as easy as that again and that I could fall straight after my ERPC, but that wasn't the case.

The worst part is really not being able to control anything; most things in life are to a certain extent within our control, but this we literally have nothing - even if we DTD at exactly the right time, it does not guarantee anything, and I think that is what I find the most difficult.

It really is rubbish x

BabyB19 · 20/11/2019 11:47

I was the same @ceebee21 caught first cycle last time so expected it to be the same this time. It's crazy how we're all in this slump at the same time. We're all still too early to know for sure and until AF arrives still have a chance so going to try and be more positive, it's just so bloody hard I feel like crying today 😭

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BabyB19 · 20/11/2019 12:00

An I going absolutely mental or is there a faintest whiff of a shadow there?!

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ceebee21 · 20/11/2019 12:33

@BabyB19 sorry, I can't see anything - but the photo is quite far away?!

Jonesbabynumber1 · 20/11/2019 12:38

@BabyB19 no sorry hun I’m the app we got I think you can scan PT like a opk give that a go. I think it’s still early and it and IC

Jonesbabynumber1 · 20/11/2019 12:40

@BabyB19 yes we are all feeling the same it’s horrible, this time of year doesn’t help. I’m just eating my feelings at the moment

BabyB19 · 20/11/2019 12:48

The more I look at it the more there is definitely something there. It's not a stark white but it could be either a line or an indent so I've just been and bought some FRER got a 2 pack will do one later and one in the morning and see if there's anything in them @Jonesbabynumber1 @ceebee21

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Jonesbabynumber1 · 20/11/2019 12:57

@BabyB19 how exciting fingers crossed. Keep us posted

dizzy85 · 20/11/2019 13:03

@BabyB19 good luck 🤞🏻let us know how you get on.

BabyB19 · 20/11/2019 13:15

Same again, something there but so so very faint 🤦🏽‍♀️ feel like crying I don't know what to make of it

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BabyB19 · 20/11/2019 13:28

@dizzy85 @Jonesbabynumber1 @ceebee21

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dizzy85 · 20/11/2019 13:31

@BabyB19 I think I can see something really faintly too. I'd try again with another frer tomorrow x

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