Two week wait...again

[BabyB19]

Hi mums/mumstobe, I’m currently in the two week wait after having a MMC (missed miscarriage) in June at 12 weeks. After a 10 week bleed I have settled into what seems to be a normal cycle again appx27/28 days. I’m saying I’m in the two week wait but I’m unsure if I’ve even OV. Anyone want to keep me company as I’m going out of my mind and feel like I’m boring the real people in my life 🤦🏽‍♀️

Ah Christmas present of a scan photo would be so good.

I am defo booking an early scan if we get a BFP - book it just before Xmas at around 7 weeks.

x

@BabyB19 it’s to think that way I often go from very excited to very anxious and it can change so quickly, but think you could be getting your bfp ina few days and it will all be worth it. It will be a distant memory after a few months of pregnancy. We are all in this together. My fear is being the one left behind while everyone else gets BFP.

I have that fear too @Jonesbabynumber1 I don't want to be left behind.
I would definitely be booking the scan for as late as poss before Christmas @ceebee21

@ceebee21 it must be an amazing feeling seeing a scan and knowing it’s all real. It’s crazy but people are getting pregnant everyday but at moment it feels like such a difficult almost impossible task.

@BabyB19 I just can’t stop eating usually I’m pretty good and not interested in sweet stuff but I’m just shovelling anything into my mouth. Stress eating is the worst I was like this doing my degree in uni. People will think I’m pregnant but in fact it will just be extra fat 🙈😂

I don't think it will be this time around as I seen the scan last time and seen the heartbeat and it still went wrong @Jonesbabynumber1 I have a feeling I won't be completely happy until I'm holding a healthy baby in my arms 🤦🏽‍♀️

OMG @Jonesbabynumber1 I bought the cookie scented plugin this morning and I've been drooling since! I've also got stew and dumplings in the slow cooker waiting for OH to get in from football. I'm STARVING! 🤣

@BabyB19 you will be more fearful but you also be more knowledgable. What I don’t like is that most of the time they don’t know why these things happen and without answers it’s hard to understand. Yes I can imagine I will be the same poas left right and centre to double check. All you can do is take each day at a time. I’m excited 3 days to go before testing. Why don’t you try and hold out with me and we’ll do it together Friday. Sounds lovely I planned on cooking a spag Bol but that’s gone out the window and now it’s quick oven food.

That sounds like a good deal, I will Be due AF on Friday I think so would be the perfect day to test tbh @Jonesbabynumber1 I'll try my best I promise you x

Ooh wow lots to catch up on 😊 I've just got back from my sisters where my other sister was down visiting with her new baby, was lovely but I'm definitely starting to feel like the odd one out my older sister there with her 2 babies and my little sis with her new one..about time I got mine 😁.
A Christmas reveal would be perfect wouldn't it! I'm really hoping for us all!

I got my frers all ready for tomorrow.
The poas opk did help earlier enough to hold me till the morning. I thought that the second line that came up on it was slightly darker than just before you ovulate if that makes sense..but not a positive..so now it's put all kinds of ideas in my head lol but I'm sure I'm just overthinking.

@BabyB19 I know how you feel about the scan, as much as I want it I'm gonna be terrified at the same time but definitely gotta take each day as it comes and stay positive.

@BabyB19 great id love us to both get bfp together. I’m still having cramps and I’m convincing myself that I’ve now got PCOS 😳 how long are you cycles? I’ve convinced myself I’m out.

@dizzy85 praying for baby dust for tomorrow

Oh @dizzy85 that must be hard I'm sure it will be your turn soon, and think of the positives, loads of hand me downs and loads of advice from your sisters!
I would love that too @Jonesbabynumber1 Friday seems a long way off though! My cycles are 26-28 days so I could get AF from Wednesday ish, I've got cramps again today, hoping it's not the witch in her way x

@BabyB19 yes I’m same 26-29 that’s why we must be so close every month. You can do it only 3 more mornings get up and pee quickly you won’t be so tempted then as anything after first morning is pointless. Least you’ll be more confident peeing that close to AF. Mine are like pulling than AF cramps and AF not due for another 7 days x

I did the frer calculator and said earliest I can test is Friday I was hoping it would say sooner.

www.firstresponse.com/en/online-tools/how-soon-can-you-take-a-pregnancy-test

@Jonesbabynumber1 @BabyB19 Thankyou, I hope the week goes quick for you both.
Yer that's the good thing about it plenty of tips and advice when i need it 😊.
I've had similar cramps and pulling but mainly on one side, I lifted some stuff at work today and as I put it down I felt a weird sensation on one side.

@Jonesbabynumber1 I am slightly ahead of you I think it's giving me Wednesday which is what I was initially aiming for x

This hasn't helped with the waiting until Friday hahah x

@BabyB19 Im not surprised it hasn’t I put my cycle as 28 although it can early as I’d rather try and make sure the result I get is most accurate. Imagine the people who just wait for AF to show up. They must have so much patience x

I put mine at 28days as well just to be sure. I don't know how people do it! I did last time tbf but that's only because I hadn't had a period so had no idea that I was late haha @Jonesbabynumber1

I've started with a horrible taste in my mouth now, why do these things happen when you're trying not to get excited 🤦🏽‍♀️ x

I am not sure how long my cycle is... I’m thinking 26-28 days!?

Last month I had an 11 day Luteal phase, but OV 3 weeks afterERPC.

This month OV exactly 2 weeks after AF arrived

So maybe you will go to a full 28 this month as it can take a couple of cycles to be back to 'normal' can't it @ceebee21

Now getting some really intense cramps in the lower abdomen. Maybe just wind or something but it's coming and going and feels really quite strong, stronger than what I though implantation would be like (I didn't feel anything last time) I know I'm just waffling with no replies here but I have to get it out to someone x

Hope those feelings are good signs @BabyB19 😊x

BFN again today with a frer 😭 so disheartening. I feel drained from it all this morning already ☹️

Can I ask how does everyone count there ovulation day? Like if you get ovulation pains how long after that do you count as ovulation day?
Also what cycle day are you on?

Sorry a million questions lol I'm just feeling confused as to whether I'm not as many DPO as I first thought as my period calculator is saying one thing but I went by my ovulation pains this month as since the mmc my cycle lengths have all been different.