Two week wait...again

[BabyB19]

Hi mums/mumstobe, I’m currently in the two week wait after having a MMC (missed miscarriage) in June at 12 weeks. After a 10 week bleed I have settled into what seems to be a normal cycle again appx27/28 days. I’m saying I’m in the two week wait but I’m unsure if I’ve even OV. Anyone want to keep me company as I’m going out of my mind and feel like I’m boring the real people in my life 🤦🏽‍♀️

Defo our this month AF has graced me with her presence a day early!

New plan for this month is no checking apps, no OPKs and defo no obsessing over symptoms!

So of course I tested early even though I wasn't going to and of course it was a BFN, don't know wether to laugh or cry these days 😂😩

Sorry @SallyCinnamon3009 at least you're in good company, loads of us had her show up early this month must be something in the water!
How dpo are you now @Gee1235 x

Morning all, @babyb19 it does sound like you made most of BFN. I’m on cycle day 6 so will soon be in madness mode 🙈 been trying to do basal temperature but I just keep forgetting when I wake up. Sorry to those that have had AF turn up this month but just seeing this as a positive and hoping for lots of BFP this month. I’ve never been an anxious person but lately definitely been feeling that way think it may be to do with over thinking a lot lately

@baby19 this is very true! Same time next month ladies?

Shall I test today? 11DPO X

@Plzbringmechocolate have you got an FRER?

I personally would be testing with an FRER at 11DPO, but then I seem to be addicted to POAS.

The amount of money I have spent this month is a joke.

Having had a negative on Friday morning, I had a good drink and great time at my sister's wedding on Friday, AF turned up on Saturday morning as well.

I am feeling positive for this month.. really hope we get a few BFP in a few weeks!!
x

@BabyB19 11 dpo but I feel like AF could be making an appearance sooner rather than later! X

@ceebee21 yes I just took a first response, came back negative. Recon AF will turn up at the end of the week x

@Plzbringmechocolate sorry to hear that, but you aren't out until AF arrives, so fingers crossed she stays away!

@ceebee21 yeah I'll see whatever will be will be, I work nights and my ovulation actually lands on the night I'm working every month plus the days leading up to ovulation so might not happen for a while.

How's everyone doing?
I'm on the verge of testing but I'm too scared in case it's BFN. I know I'll be so upset if it is. I've had a few symptoms but could easily be af coming. I've had some lower abdominal pain, the smell of tomato soup (my favourite) made me want to vomit yesterday. I felt faint this morning, I've peed about 500 times today. Oh and my boobs are not sore AT ALL they are normally very sore at this point if af is coming.
I'm due af on Thursday so could test in the morning but I'm just so nervous about it!

AF has been noticeably more painful and heavy this month. Just waiting for it to end now!!!!

Morning all,
All good signs @NZlife and well done for not caving and testing yet!
I'm the opposite @bluetue I've had barely anything this month and last month so my body must still be adjusting after MC, that was last week of June though so thought it would be back to normal by now 🤦🏽‍♀️

Hey girls, im new to this. I have 2 sons 3 and 5. DP wants a 3rd. I do too but just a lil bit nervous as that would mean 3rd c section. I think im 7 or 8 DPO. DTD a few times this month but dont think it would have been enough. Will soon see. Fell pregnant straight away with both DS. Hope you are all well and get ur BFPs soon 🤞

Hi everyone. Been watching from afar but finally decided to post today as feeling in need of some moral support and reassurance. I'm 12 DPO and another BFN today. 3rd test since Saturday. I due AF around Thursday. But have repeatedly convinced myself I'm pregnant despite the BFN's. I've been having mild cramping headaches and generally felt diffirent since about 5 DPO but wondering if I'm just driving myself mad because I want this so much. Anyone had BFN's at this stage followed by BFP's later on?
Luck and love to everyone on the TTW

Hi and welcome @Jl84 and @mums2boys
The only way to find out unfortunately is patience isn't it. At least you already have 2 @mums2boys so you know you have no problems with fertility and if not this month then just a matter of time. Keep us posted on your testing @Jl84 good luck to both of you for this month x

Thank you @BabyB19 this is 1st time round for us. 5th month of ttc but first month I feel we've had a good chance of conceiving so maybe I'm just getting my hopes up. I hope not as I'd really like to be pregnant before my 35th birthday which is next month Xx

@NZlife did u decide to test today? Looks like we are around the same stage and having lots of the same symptoms. Do u already have children?

@BabyB19 yes thats true and im very grateful for the 2 that I have. Will let you know how I get on. Serious mood swings the past few days tho 😄.

@Jl84
I'm the same as you 12dpo, was sure I felt different since around 5/6DPO but with a negative on 10dpo I've accepted the idea that I'm probably not as it was a frer. AF due Friday. Let us know how you get on testing x

I'm sorry to say I think AF has early arrived this afternoon wasn't due till Thursday but guess I must-have ovulated eariler than I thought I'd just a shorter cycle as mine vary between 28-32 days. At first I thought it may have been late implantation bleed but now I'm pretty sure it's AF. @Plzbringmechocolate hope u get a better outcome and thinking of all of u who are still waiting and hoping at least some of u get bfp's xx

I'm sorry to hear @Jl84 we're all here for each other x

Hi to new people joining and fingers crossed for BFP. Lots of people getting early AF’s month I’m wondering if our bodies sense the stress which almost triggers the change. @BabyB19 mine was strangely light this month like 2 1/2 days. Are you going to OPK this month? @siaa how you feeling?

Hi @Jonesbabynumber1 it's weird isn't it that we've pretty much all been early this month. Mine was like a day or two spotting, then stopped then another 2 days spotting 🤷🏽‍♀️ Christ knows what that is all about! So now I don't know if I count the first day it started as that was early or the second day it started so I think I will have to opk this month. Are you planning to? It's all very confusing 🤦🏽‍♀️ x