Trying to Concieve 10 ... the LUCKY thread!

[BeckiF]

OK ladies .... here we are. Forgive my upset and tears, just struggling at the moment. Another bfn this morning

Anyway ... we MUST have gradulates beofre Christmas and one of them HAS to be me!!

[Wifeof]

Hello everyone, may I join you?

Now on month 7 of ttc #3. Have a ds and dd but desperate for another after mc 4 years ago. This is my last chance really as fast approaching 40.

I can't bear this waiting! I'm supposed to working this morning but have been obsessing about all minor symptoms especially dragging/achey feeling and sore boobs. I'm currently on cd23 so AF due early next week if unlucky!

Just have a feeling this could be the month.....but I've been convinced all year as I read in my New Year stars back in January that a major, major change was going to happen in my life in September, and nothing else fits the bill as far as I know.

Anyway, lots of luck and babydust everyone

[Tessiebear]

Tania - directly afterwards DH went out to get something from the DIY shop and i lay there on the uncarpeted floor with my legs in the air for about 10 minutes in the hope of keeping the "swimmers" in!!! (obviously worked)

[Twiga]

Hey, am back at home, had a relaxing few days away. Have only skimmed through the ttc9 thread and this one, so many postings, glad the whole thread thing got sorted out. I'm well and truely fed up, I've been hanging on since last monday (6th)for af, which is partly my own stupidity as got dates muddled around and was only actually due fri/sat (10th/11th) - however, still no af and it's now the 16th. Still feeling sick after eating, it's a funny kind of nausea which feels like it's from my throat rather than my stomache - if that makes sense - boobs still sore though not feeling as big, nipples look a bit lumpier than usual and paler in the middle. All hpt's coming up BFN - think I'm losing the plot and am starting to feel quite upset, the only other time I was this late was when I was pg before. Wish things would just hurry up so I can get on, despite symptoms am fairly uncovinced that am pg - just nuts - don't understand why tests are negative given all this. Any way sorry to rant - been away and the first thing I do when I'm back is moan - sorry .

[Twiga]

Welcome to Wifeof and welcome back Mrs Flowerpot - sorry forgot my manners during rant!

[Tessiebear]

Are you using First response Twiga?

[Twiga]

No, have used clear blue, clear blue digital, medisave, and another one (can't remember make) that I still had kicking about in the cupboard - as you can see it's been a 10 days + obsession, really do feel like I'm losing it.

[Tania2]

LOL even more. your a pissa Tessiebear.
Twiga dont appoligise thats what we are here for you moan all you like. How frustrated you must be. Just go to the doc's and see if their test come up the same. Sounds like you are to me. Fingers crossed.

[Tessiebear]

You are not losing it Twiga - i have had months where i have been "convinced" i was and have spent a fortune on tests. Some months i have had to avoid going into the Town because i couldnt pass boots without buying one!! Some of those months there was only a very slim chance i could have been pg. Ths is why we have decided to actually start trying in ernest. (Not just me miss pills at certain times of the month and pretend it was an accident!)

[Twiga]

Right Tania2, have just phoned Dr and have got earliest appt for Tues morning. If nothing has happened by then I'll go, and can always cancel if af/BFP suddenly appears. Tessie, it sounds like I'm running out of test to try.....

[Tessiebear]

Some months i have had a really light period, convinced myself it was spotting and STILL done a pregnancy test!!! {slightly crazy woman sidles off in embarrasement}

[Tessiebear]

Some months i have had a really light period, convinced myself it was spotting and STILL done a pregnancy test!!! {slightly crazy woman sidles off in embarrasement}

[Tania2]

Your naughty Tessiebear.
I think we have all been there Twiga i was last month even had everyone around me convinced. Dont know what to say to you to help cause i know nothing will make it easier until you get the BFP or hate to say it but if AF arrives.

[Twiga]

Right, better go and get ready for work. Will keep you posted if you can bear the madness ! Thanks!

[Tania2]

Hope you dont get a visit from that blimey AF fingers crossed for Tuesday. God that seems so far away.

[Sallie]

I hope this thread IS lucky. I posted on no 9 thread saying I had just got a BFP - am in the midst of miscarrying now. Obviously early days but have been surprised at just how emotional it is making me feel. Do I need to go to the doctor or should it just take its natural course? Had allowed myself to get really excited at the prospect of being pregnant so am now feeling mega-low and am also facing the grim prospect of returning to a job I hate in the next 3 weeks....

[MINNIE1]

quick question,
I was saying yesterday that it has been 34 days since my last AF, Now i has a D&C 2 months ago. I feel nausea at times but no sore boobs, tired.. The last test i did was monday (one of many). I think i'm going mad, its all in my head.. Has anyone ever experianced this?? b4 i go mad al to gether!!!

[Sallie]

I got two BFN on CD 28 and 30 and then a BFP on day 33. Sadly have now miscarried but I got some long and odd cycles after having ds and am experiencing the same now, some 7 months after having dd. I guess it takes a while for your body to readjust. But fingers crossed nonetheless!!!

[Tessiebear]

Sorry for your loss Sallie Good luck for your next attempt

[Geordie]

Sallie,

((((((great big hugs)))))) so sorry to hear your news. I think that m/c are hard whatever stage you are at. Not sure about the dr, however I would go to the dr just to register that you are m/c anyway.

so sorry about wk too...know just how you feel (i hate work).

take it as easy as you can- rest up!

am thinking of you

Geordie

[MINNIE1]

sallie, Big hugs...
soo sorry to hear your news, you should go to the doc (if your feeling up to it).. Try and relax and were all here for you..
Hugs

[whitefeather]

good luck to all you on here! im scared of ttc as had 2 mc, but thinking of trying again soon... well maybe just dunno if i can face it aging its great to be on here as the support is fantastic, good luck to you all x

[Tania2]

So sorry Sally no wonder your feeling low. I agree with Minnie you should go to the doc's so its reg with them. Try to rest up and treat yourself to something special. {{{{{HUGS}}}}}}

[whitefeather]

id say go to the docs aswell best to be checked out, get lots of tlc and rest, its a sad time hope you are ok , thinking of you x

[Hulababy]

Really sorry Sallie. All mc are difficult and emotional - there are just so many horones flying around at that time to start with. I too would go to the doctors to register the fact.

[alterego]

Hi again,

Last posted on ttc8 (I think) but have stayed off recently as highly superstitious. I am now 8 weeks pregnant, but very nervous (for those who don't recall I had a mc at 10 weeks in November and then two false starts in May and June). I'm trying really hard not to do all those things that I did wrong in the 10 wk mc - ie telling everybody, drinking (wasn't much anyway), sitting in jacuzzi (not actually difficult to do but wild horses wouldn't get me in a jacuzzi this time). Went to see GP yesterday and he said I'd just gone past the highest mc risk weeks which are apparently 6-8 weeks. Doesn't help me much though - I'm just praying to get to 10, 11 and 12 weeks. There's certainly no way I'm moving onto the "anyone due in ..." thread until at least 12 weeks, so I'll be lurking on here and maybe the mc boards until I feel more confident.

Lashings of good potent babydust to you all.
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