December Bus 2

[Aph413]

Figured I'd start this up before we completely fill the other without a link.
Link: First Thread

@Hana327. I've had funny cramping too. At one point today I thought flo might be coming but no sign. If personally do a test in the morning. If it's a bfn you'll only go to bed pissed off x

It's OK to feel pissed off @Aph413. It feels like a bit of karmic injustice. My cousin is 25 and having her third, and I'll probably sound like a judgmental arsehole for this, but all her kids are by different dads. Not a bad thing in itself, it's just that her relationships aren't very stable, and she has a pattern of choosing terrible men, getting knocked up, then being alone. It's very, very hard not to feel a bit angry that it's so easy for some people, while others have to deal with the ups and downs of each cycle.

My DH thinks I'm nuts because I've just written Fs on his advent calendar on the days I'm fertile. Very subtle.

@LookingAtTheStars89 your definitely right! Wish there was a more definitive and quick answer! Lol
I normally have AF cramps once a day or two days before it arrives but I've been having these cramps on and off regularly since about Monday!

This girl is still chain smoking too just to add to the annoyance.
It's ok I'll learn to ignore it

Aph413 I have been through similar problems (not pregnancy related) but certain people always get what they want straight away where as others have to work twice as hard to get what they want.
All I can say is that you will appreciate it even more when the time comes...instead of taking things for granted which is clearly the case if they are smoking!

@Aph413 I have been through similar problems (not pregnancy related) but certain people always get what they want straight away where as others have to work twice as hard to get what they want.
All I can say is that you will appreciate it even more when the time comes...instead of taking things for granted which is clearly the case if they are smoking!

@Aph413. Pregnant women smoking, drinking heavily or taking drugs REALLY gets to me. What makes it worse is they always seem to have the easiest pregnancies and get pregnant at the drop of a hat!

@Aph413. Pregnant women smoking, drinking heavily or taking drugs REALLY gets to me. What makes it worse is they always seem to have the easiest pregnancies and get pregnant at the drop of a hat!

Stupid posts keep sending twice - sorry everyone!

I was on previous thread but havnt posted much this cycle. I'm only on. CD9 I've started temping this month.. praying for a extra special Christmas present this month

Just found a thing about the percentage of people that get false negatives in relation their DPO 11% of pregnant people in this study got false negatives at 15DPO 😬 how crazy is that x

If anyone needs help to not POAS then here's a link you can select your DPO.
www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test/results-by-day-past-ovulation.php x

@Hana327 I'm impressed you've not done a test yet!

I have at least 6 days til AF and got a tiny bit of brown spotting today. Never had that before but not holding out any pregnancy hopes, I'm pretty sure its not our month!

@tappitytaptap could be an implantation bleed 🤞 x

@sophherts it's been killing me not 2! DH keeps persuading me to wait to be sure! Got until the morning for AF to show otherwise I will test! AF will probably turn up after lol.

@ImpatientMammy lets hope so! Didn't have one with my son though.

Just catching up on today, we need another bfp on this thread. Is anyone testing tomorrow?

Cd31 here. The tiniest bit of brown spotting this morning so I thought that was it and AF was arriving at any moment so I didn't bother poas but nope not today.

Oh my god I am so bloated! I look like one of those puffer fish around the middle lol.

Agree we need another BFP!

I'm on cd 16 and have just got a static smiley on my clearblue opk. I've always suspected I ovulate on cd 16/17ish so I'm pleased as it's the first month I've used them. Any ideas when ovulation is likely to occur? Am I right that it can be 12/24/36 hours after the LH surge - and obviously varies between women. So probably just need to dtd as much as possible now.

Doesn't help that I'm working nights this week and DH works days.. I've just finished work!

Hey, tested this morning as no sign of AF ( or the spotting I get for two days before) but got a BFN. I'm on cd 29 and I think about 14 days since ovulation so will wait for AF now, if I get nothing I'll test again Sunday morning.
This is cycle 1 for us but has anyone else found that a completely reliable cycle is messed up as soon as you start TTC? Before I could tell ovulation easily between egg white mucus and a tint ovulation bleed. But this month they were hard to spot ( does that happen from DTD a lot? It all just gets lost?

I got my crosshairs on Fertility Friend this morning... ah it’s so nice to see them! Officially 3DPO according to that so... Woop!

It’s probably very sad how excited I am that my ovaries have at least done their job this month!

Strawberry yes I see what you mean.

AF due today but not here yet, temp has dropped a touch more, BFN on a FRER with FMU then i get.... EWCM?? What the actual......?

Could a BFN get any more BFN? 😞

@HoneyCake86 snap

Af now 1 day late and 14dpo!