December Bus 2

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Figured I'd start this up before we completely fill the other without a link.
Link: First Thread

😔 @HoneyCake86 I wonder what's going on hope your ok x

Ahhh @sophherts sorry I didn't see yours hope your ok x

Im ok hun ty. Disappointed but it is my first cycle of properly ttc after cerelle and theres ladies on here who have been trying for a long long time so it wouldnt be right for me to moan about it at this stage. I just want my body to make up its mind what its doing now i cant stand uncertainty xx

@HoneyCake86 I think this is a supportive group people will understand your feeling fed up and disappointed even if it is your first cycle. Lots of love and baby dust x

Morning ladies! I'm sorry to see all if the bfn's this morning. Like I said before though, it isn't over until the red lady flows. That chart that was on here yesterday showed that even at 16dpo the hcg can still be low.

I'm either a day late now or not due until Sunday. It's funny because for years I had irregular, I mean didn't show up for months, irregular flows but since my miscarriage in the summer, I've had them every month.

I haven't tested today because I am not in the mood for a bfn today!

@HoneyCake86 don't worry I feel exactly the same. I hate the not knowing & the false hope of a late af. This is my 1st cycle properly TTC after mc in September so there's a lot of emotion connected to it, as I'm sure there is for everyone

@ImpatientMammy thank you. It's the 5th bfn in a row this cycle but I can't help waking up each morning & thinking that I'll get a bfp!

I think being pregnant has a big impact on your body I get ovulation sickness now which never happened before. How you feeling since your miscarriage? X

Aww @sophherts I just read the second message. Bless you. I read somewhere It takes around 48hours for your hcg to build enough to get that BFP so try skipping a day give yourself a break in between x

@Hana327 did you test? Fx you have a bfp

I finally picked up some frers on the way into work so if still no AF I'll poas tonight just to see. Couldnt find my IC i thought I had so I'm still clueless at this point

@ImpatientMammy good point. I'm away with friends this weekend so I'll test again on sunday if still no af. My periods are heavier and more painful since the mc, they used to be so easy! My cycle length has also got mixed up. I used to be bang on 28 days and since Sept I've had 31, 25 and now on 31 with no sign of af.

@sophherts they might settle down again 🤞 x

Found this online
Hope it helps x

The fun starts now lol
Af has finished
Bfp due around 29th could hopefully push it a few days earlier lol
But not doing the test every day thing like last month
That fucked with my head way too much
And after the positive then negative was all too much to cope with

Fx for everyone

@sophherts. My periods have been heavier and more painful since my miscarriage too. I used to have really light periods.

I feel like I know I'm not pregnant thins month but still obsessing 🙈 x

Hi everyone, can I join

Age:33
TTC No:2
Cycle: probably 3 but we were trying/not trying

I'm not overly monitoring as trying to keep it fun this time. LG took nearly 2 years to conceive. So was very stressful and would like to avoid stress as much as possible as I think it played a part in it taking so long

@LookingAtTheStars89 crazy how it has a lasting effect isn't it? Mentally and physically

@sophherts Yeah. Sometimes I will get so upset over baby related things, I will be perfectly fine and then WHAM in tears. I'll tell you what else I have noticed since, I get pms symptoms and I haven't had those since I was about 15 lol.

@LookingAtTheStars89 Luckily I seem to be about the same with pms (I still want to kill my DH one day a month...). My SIL had twins 2 weeks ago and that was a bit of a rollercoaster for me!

Aaaaaand I'm out. Just started spotting. Good luck lovely ladies! Hopefully I won't see you over on the Jan bus x

I'm getting there right? Day 21 and still no positive opk. I'm hoping since my last cycle was 78 days that I'm just slow and this is ok. Got some serious cramps deep in my right side today. My temp suggested I had already ovulated but I'm going to keep doing opks until it's positive.

Sorry sophherts good luck on your next cycle

@sophherts. Ahh Sorry to hear that. Good luck for January! I don't think I'll be far behind you as I'm bloated and cramping x

Who's still left on the bus now? I hope we lose some more ladies to the pregnancy boards and not the January bus!