TTC June.... early I know but excited and don't want to talk to anyone in RL about it!

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Have been slowly coming off antidepressants and stopped taking the pill (using condoms) to get body back to normal ready to try for no.2 in June, also started taking pregnacare. I know its early to start posting but got my first proper period today so just been on site to check fertile dates for months again and think we're going to go for it in June - ooooooooooooo, very excited. Just wondered if there was anyone else out there planning way ahead cos i wouldn't talk to anyone in RL life about it so far ahead, other than dh!

Oh Anniemac, I thought you were taking us all out for dinner .

Scorpio, do you think AF is coming? I had a lot of AF pain, but for four days before I tested today, and I would normally only get it for an hour or so before AF arrives, which gave me a bit of hope.

just read a depressing web site that said only 20% of people TTc each month are successful and thats healthy fit ones and I am overweight oh though the same weight as I was with ds

couldn't say really, no pmt really, but i dont always have it every month.i am pretty much symptomless when pg anyway; im never sick or sore or anything! both pgs before, i have had - until about 6wks pg too, which is why im not stressing.

Have just caught up on thread....congrats Egg Very chuffed for you......hope I am as lucky 2 days to go!

Glad to hear you haven't got much longer to wait Scorpio and UpsyDaisy. It must be agonising. I suppose that is one of the up-sides of having irregular cycles, you never know when af is coming so never know whether she's late or not. It also means you never know if there's a chance you're pg or not - which is one of the down-sides!

Fingers crossed for you both - and anyone else waiting to test

Found a really good web site for ovalation

www.yourdays.com/ovulation-calendar.htm

Good morning

So, today i am cd41, which is as far as i got last time [nail biting]. Just a waiting game now.

Maybe i could test on the weekend??

what does everyone think? or leave it another week or so, just so i know its deffo late?

Ideas on a postcard please....

How is everyone? Tiger-have you tested at all to see whats going on in there?

Hi Scorpio, If you can hold off til the weekend then you will be late anyway. Good luck. I tested Thursday of the week before last. Then had that reddish-brown cm. Then Monday and today had bright red blood just after waking up then nothing all day!! Have got my scan tomorrow so am saving my last test until the morning. I don't feel pg, but then, I didn't last time either!

Hope everyone else is ok today.

Good luck for your scan

Saw a sort of mate yesterday, with a massive bump - she found out 4 weeks ago she was 30 weeks pg, and didnt know!!!!no bump, etc.fully bf, too! its her 3rd. she is over the moon!

I am so forgetful I just had to read the whole thread again to work out why you have a scan tomorrow tigerschick. Good luck and I hope it is only good news .

I know I should leave this thread but you are such nice ladies and I have to keep an eye to see how you are getting on. Upsydaisy, Scorpio and littlesoldier, fingers still crossed (and anyone else I have failed to mention who is waiting on AF).

Tigerschick, that is amazing that your friend didn't know at 30 weeks! Although the fact she was bf-ing would help hide it as would explain lack of AF. She got through all those early weeks without the worry!

Egg-it was my friend. she was bf and had just started full time work, including night shifts, with 2 little ones, so just didnt have time to think about stuff. she is really chuffed though which is great. and hang around here for as long as you like!

gosh 30 weeks so she only has 10 to go how lucky is that although I think I would panic a bit!

Good luck with the scan Tiger hope all goes ok.

Ooops yes, sorry Scorpio . She must have been exhausted, but just put it down to small children and work. So she will be on maternity leave soon!

My sis is coming over in about 20 mins. I am going to do my best to keep quiet .

i have never managed to keep quiet when im pg , good luck with that!!!

With my first I told everyone i knew in about an hour after doing the test

I found it really strange telling people when I found out with dd. We waited until after the 12 week scan to tell any one other than our parents. But what was most odd was when people said 'Well done'. I know it's a sensible responce but it felt like they were saying 'Well done, you had really good sex!'

Thanks for comments about the scan. Got some friends over for lunch tomorrow and only 1 of them knows why I have to go out. So will have to keep a bit quiet, don't want everyone knowing what is going on. Still have to wait until the 12th to get the results tho

lol tiger i know what you mean when my dh sees a pg women he says "oh that dirty cow has has sex" which always makes me laugh!

Congrats egg Hi Scorpio - you have so steely resolve I must say. I would defo test. Hope it is good news I am now 5 weeks and 5 days. Got drs appt tomorrow and am going to get referral for scan end of following week when I will be almost 7 weeks.

Doh! Not so steely - just steely!

Scorpio any news?

no u nosey beggars

test in the morning tomorrow

Ooh ooh Scorpio. Still no AF then? Fingers crossed for tomorrow's test.

Hope tigerschick's scan is going ok today.

no, no af for me yet. im cd42. last cycle was 41 days. no nothing any different, so convinced this isnt my month.

I too hope tigers scan going well.

Plummy-keep going!! glad its going well - nearly 6 weeks already, this is flying!

i know I am quite nosey, sorry

Hope all goes well for tomorrow though