TTC June.... early I know but excited and don't want to talk to anyone in RL about it!

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Have been slowly coming off antidepressants and stopped taking the pill (using condoms) to get body back to normal ready to try for no.2 in June, also started taking pregnacare. I know its early to start posting but got my first proper period today so just been on site to check fertile dates for months again and think we're going to go for it in June - ooooooooooooo, very excited. Just wondered if there was anyone else out there planning way ahead cos i wouldn't talk to anyone in RL life about it so far ahead, other than dh!

Sorry to hear that anniemac I know how you feel, hope you and dh can talk it through and that you carry on going

Confused my ov sticks showed a surge on Sunday as this is my first month ttc and I havent paid attention to my cycle of late I am unsure how long my cycle last anyway if I had a 28 cycle I should have oved last Tuesday which would make a week since ok this morning I am feeling cramping mainly in my back, my nipples are tingling and my DS breakfast made me feel sick still have hte felling in my tummy but if I only oved on Sunday i would have any signs yet would I ? really confused and wonder if I am dreaming it also I have a blue vain come up in my left breast

Littlesoldiersmummy - how strange! I´m really not an expert on this ttc lark but would there be a surge on your ov sticks if you were pregnant? Probably a silly question I know but I´m sure someone will be along soon to put me straight Apart from tender boobs and wanting to wee a lot I didn´t get any other symptoms when I was pg with ds so I´m not good at this symptom spotting either ..... cor, bloody useless me

soph thats whats confusing me ohhh maybe its all in my head! how early can you get symptoms?

Tbh I don´t really know how early, but I think you´d probably start to "feel" pregnant on or around the day your period was due to start, however, if you´re not sure how long your cycle is yet I´m not sure when you´d start to see symptoms!!

Hi thelittlesoldiersmummy - sorry you are so confused. I really don't want to get your hopes up but I found this on peeonastick.com and I think that the only ways to be sure what is going on is either to do a HPT or to wait until you think your period is due. Hope I haven't confused you more

Im full of symptoms, just tested and bfn all in my head unfortunatly. Does anyone know whether a high soft cervix means af coming?

this may help x

www.askbaby.com/charting-cervical-position.htm

So im fertile now !!??

Afternoon all

Quick update as have a tutoring session in 5 mins ...

Been to gp. He says that basically, my hormone levels are all 'within normal range' and he has compared the LH and FSH and they're fine too. The only one that is slightly high is testosterone (?!) but he is satisfied that there was enough evidence of PCO on my scan to refer me to the gyn clinic at LGH. So, progress. I asked how long it should be before I hear from the clinic and he said - "Shouldn't be too long" - so goodness only knows when that will be, but I'm off on my jollies on Monday so I hope to see a brown envelope when I get back from that ... or is that wishful thinking? Won't get my hopes up too high just in case.

Hope everyone is ok today. May catch up more later

Im not fertile now - have started spotting, only the onece when i went to toilet (and it was brown blood) so AF must be coming. How long do you spot for before af? I dont normally

Sorry anniemac. I don't know about checking your lp but I have heard on here that there are ways of lengthening it. I think it involves medication tho there is probably a non-medical option if you prefer. Not an expert but the answer is here somewhere

Hey everybody, as expected af arrived on Sat, am now on cd 5 (as it is wednesday in Germany now) and off to the spa tomorrow.
See you in about 3 weeks!! XX

Sorry to hear that AnnieMac and Iwantanotherone .

Tiger - called you got something out of your appt anyway ! have a good 'jolly'

Hello ladies

I've been off enjoying the relative sanity that happens between af and ovulation! At least for those 2 weeks you can't do anything about ttc and you're not waiting to find out if it all went right this cycle, so it's very relaxing. About another week until the madness starts again.

I was planning to visit a friend in Cambridge next week... I've taken the week off work and everything. But next week it's that time again so I can't leave DH!! I'll have to call my friend this evening to sort something out. She's 7 months pg with sprog number 2, and number one took a lot of effort to conceive so she'll understand. Gosh, now ttc is getting in the way of my social life too!! Who know it was all so much hard work!!

derah - know what you mean. Even though I don´t have a whirlwind of a social life I plan the few events that I do go to with military precision Very unlike me and dh thinks I have gone officially bonkers Sometimes it makes you wish you were male!

Gosh - it's a bit quiet around here at the moment.

Well, I feel almost normal at the mo - my period arrived a couple of days ago. And, after 5 months of a 'free rein' dh had the gall to complain that he'd have to behave himself for a while!! Just feeling annoyed that I probably oved and missed it! And worried that it won't be gone before I go on holiday on Monday. Now that would be super annoying.

Anyway. Hope everyone else is OK.
Scorpio - did you have end of term exams? If so, how did they go? You enjoying your holiday?
Anyone ready to test?

wahoo, tiger, a period! finally ready to start again ? your dh sounds like my dp....although not last night. he was v tired and i said we had to cos i had ewcm, and he moaned that couldnt i try harder to turn him on rather than talking bout cm!? yeah i had exams, went ok i think, marks in a couple of weeks [nail biting]

ooh, how exciting, at least you don't have to wait too long.
Yeah, ready to start all over again but not holding out a huge amount of hope as I had no idea that I'd oved until period started. So how can I know what to look for next time? Ah well, mustn't grumble, at least I know I should be hearing from the gyn clinic at some point. I would dearly love to be pg before November as I would like just 1 school year between dd and #2 ... but we'll have to see

Hi all,

Just thought I would drop in, I have had a couple of months off TTC (if thats possible) and feel a lot more positive. I've managed to lose abit of weight and have come back from holiday nice and refreshed.

I'm due AF in about a week (but then I could be wrong!) and if no BFP this month I will be back to full on TTC.

It seems very quiet in here, I hope that means your all getting as much bding in as possible.

What cycle days are you all on and how is everybody feeling?

Can I let out a huge scream of annoyance? I use FF to take temps etc. According to them, today would have been my last day for AF to arrive before I'd be officially late. I woke up so excited to find she'd not arrived. Charted my temp and FF decided to move my ov date, so now I've got another 2 days before I'm officially "late." Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.