PMA Express to BFP #4

[Hippychic79]

Moving onto thread #4
Our intention is clear – to show AF the door!
Leave us alone biatch for the next 9 months…
We want to be upduffed – can’t be any more blunt!

So hop on board the PMA Express
Where all the passengers are lovely
And we’re all trying our best!

So come on Peggy Eggy and Doreen too – time for you to fuse…
Cuz we want to graduate with our friends, Ohb, Dolly & Moo

xxx

@rainbowsockstoday how are you meant to just stop TTC for 18months??! Do they realise how crazy that is! I'd be ignoring it too.

Thanks @Roseandbee. Yes I think I always feel positive too. I like to plan things and get a bit of control. It generally falls to pot in the end but it makes me happy for a while!

But surely if you got upduffed then you wouldn't need to carry on with the tests anymore, so you'd just ring up and cancel. So why are they so worried about you ttc? I swear these GPs don't understand how hard this ttc malarkey is

That all does sound a bit stupid. Maybe it's so the dye stuff doesn't go in if you could potentially be pregnant and disrupt it before a BFP? But then if you say they do it like CD11 anyway it shouldn't matter?! I'd just ignore it. 18 month waiting list is ridiculous. This is people's lives!

Sounds like good plans cakes! CD12 for me today. Got first bit of EWCM yesterday which was bit earlier for me. So DTD antes with pressed. Sticking to my plan of EOD until I get positive OPK. I had a faint line yesterday so maybe it's closer than I think. I didn't ovulate until CD16 last cycle.

It makes me really nervous now. Is that stupid? Nervous that it won't work again and will be back at the start again next month 😩 #COMEONDOREENS

DH has definitely cottoned on to the fact the eggy has been and gone. That means no more touching till the 5/6th April now 😆

Anna yes that's the reason you have to avoid unprotected dtd as if u ovulated early for some reason and conceived it wouldn't be safe to do it. I have heard of women having it later in their cycle though but my info sheet said between day 8-10 and you mustn't still be having any af bleeding.

Cakes & Anna I think it is def worse being in the 2ww, cd 1 your making your plans and then have a mission to dtd at the right time. 2ww your just in limbo although it is slightly exciting knowing it could be your time but all the doubts are creeping in and it's all just a bit of a roller. The other day I said to my DH "do you know how frustrating it is to not know wether your growing another human inside your or not?"

CD1 ladies...go get it! This could be your month! BFP at the finish line!
PMA all the way.

I am at 7dpo. No symptoms but there wouldn't be yet anyway.

It deffo is a roller coaster! Doubts always creep into my mind now & I don't really feel the excitement. I'm not sure I will even with a positive test. More fear or the unknown again. But I guess that's normal if you suffer a loss. It won't ever be the same as the first time.

Still the parts I didn't get to will be exciting! So once I get past 13 week mark I think I'd be in full swing!

Xmas baby is on it's way. It better be! Slightly darker OPK today. Could be positive in next few days so PMA here

Xx

evening all sexy ladeezz

v interesting to read about the fertility help/processes. thanks for sharing xx

sympathising with all in the 2ww - i didn't really have that last month cos i was so confused with my peggy v's flashing smiley faces saga. the 2ww went by without me even noticing haha. every cloud eh!

cd2 here and with @CakesALot in the planning stage, planning nights out (non booze cos i'm still sore from sunday's hangover), food, holidays ohhh and deciding what we will do this cycle, POAS OPKS, SMEP, EOD orrrr just chill the fuck out (i'm 50/50 kinda person with chilling out, i like to be an organised proactive chiller outer).

hope anyone near or around london tonight is safe and no1 related to any of you are directly affected xxx

What's EOD?

every other day

Hi girls hope you all had a lovely Wednesday! Iv had a very productive positive week so far!!! Spring cleaned my whole house it's absolutely shining lol! Made the gym twice & made good home made dinners! 😂 Feeling very proud of myself lol! Back to work tomorrow.

I am CD9 and I done my OPK at 2pm today. Got low fertility. I have some kinda thick creamy discharge (sorry tmi) is that usual early on in ur cycle???

Anyway dtd so keeping this positive head on for my wee xmas baby x

Please don't kick me off the bus but we do all know that the only way we are going to have a Christmas baby as a) by already having a confirmed bfp or b) having a baby born early. Anyone conceiving last week onwards is having a January baby. Today is my sons 3rd conception day and he was born a solid 10, nearly 11, days AFTER Christmas 😬

Rainbow I once iced DS on 28th March (approx) and he was due Xmas Eve, and born 29th Dec

*obvs once iced was meant to say conceived, but pissing myself here at the thought that I once iced DS 🙈😂

Rainbow the due date calculators are putting me at the 23rd of December and ive not even ovulated yet, I'm cd 6 I think. Was your son a few weeks late?

Archie's I'd be conceiving about then if I OV as usual, but I guess the hycosy might delay things

No he wasn't. Our hospital only allow a week over at most and start sweeps at 36weeks. My due date calculated as a Christmas baby but my conception date of 22/03 put him after Christmas as you have 7-10 days AFTER ov added to create your edd by scan.

Also the date he was conceived was also the last day of af (cd6) which meant it was the 28th April before I realised I was late.

Xxx

@rainbowsockstoday i said a couple of days ago that i was looking forward to a winter baby, so maybe others are referencing a christmas baby meaning around christmas time, rather than the literal 25/12!!

thanks @Hippychic79 😘😘

Morning ladies - I'm still reading and keeping up with the thread but I'm purposely having a busy wk to distract myself from overthinking tTC.
That said - I saw my naturopath last night and she she did some very different kind of tests to the western approach that you are all talking about that I thought I would share quickly ....
Without boring you all - at 38 years old I have spent the majority of my adult life consciously trying not to conceive as I'd never met the right guy .... until just over a year ago when I fell madly in love with my dp. Since last September I have actually wanted tTC and have been half trying (half as dp isn't fully on board yet)... anyway my naturopath did some alternative tests (not sure what they're called) which basically identified that subconsciously I do not believe that I will get pg so she did some meridian tapping and has started to process to re wire my brain .... so my plan now is to meditate and pray with a view to changing my energy field .... whilst I don't dispute that modern medicine has its place I think our brains are the most powerful muscle we have and there are many simple ways and techniques out there that we can use to get our minds fully on board with this process.
Our energy speaks louder than our words - so just stating that we want a bfp may not be enough ... we have to truly believe.
#powerofthesubconsciousmind

Xxx

Yeh i was just meaning a baby around xmas time too @bellamoon xxx

Rainbow I'm not sure what you mean?
I havent ovulated yet. Due to any day fx...& my EDD would be 17th Dec. That's a 40 week pregnancy. So the baby wouldn't come in January because I would be induced at 42 weeks at the latest which would mean the baby would be here by 31st December at the latest. Well that's how it works where I live anyway.

I hate to break up the party ladies but babies come into the world when they are ready .... my Neice was born at 26 weeks so .... so much for her due date 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤️️😂❤️️❤️️❤️️