What do we want????? A BFP!!!!!!!! When Do We Want It???? JANUARY!!!!!!

[Ready]

Ladies!! I have had a little break and am raring to go this cycle. This is cycle number 4 for us, and I am currently on CD8, so just coming up to the "fertile phase" and plan on plenty of sex not BDing!!

I looked for a January thread, but couldn't find one?? I don't think I am the only one hoping for my BFP in Jan am I ???

Fingers crossed for everyone!!

x

honeyapple - No not tested yet 1) I haven't got a test to use - however, I've ordered a couple of cheapy ones off the internet today and 2) I told myself that I would wait at least a week after AF due date before testing incase she showed up in the meantime!

RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!! It seems my MN rep Ready isn't doing her job by telling you all off for testing early!!!!! She says it's because she feels like a fraud coming on the Jan thread. Tut.

Listen 'ere you lot!!! No more testing before AF is due! For those of you who don't know me, you can see my campaign here

Yes I know I am a bossy boots!! But ttc is stressful enough without adding to your worries by testing early! You all know I am right!!

No more early testing!!! You can resist!

Babydust xx

I didnt use Clearblue...

Tut tut Honeyapple!! Nice try. But a test is a test Do I have to send some of my elves round?

Aw - Greedy, I love you! It does make me feel whole lot better. Feeling a bit under-appreciated at work (that's why I'm on MN a bit too much - I'm going to get caught one day though and then there'll be trouble, but DH doesn't really like me being on here all evening, which I have to be just to keep up with this thread at times!!)

CBF - good to hear from you, but tell Ready I miss her and I want her popping back here to say hello.

Maybe we should set up a general chat thread, but I wouldn't know how to!

Anyway, hope everyone else had a good day - I feel really really sick at this precise second, but apparentely there is a virus going around that makes you feel nauseous, but you aren't actually sick (either that or there are a lot of pg people, including men at work!!)

Best go and have some family time with DH and DD.
take care all
f x

ps Thanks for the info re AF pains everyone too - maybe I'll stay positive for a few more days. Wouldn't think AF due til Sunday at earliest anyway.

Don't worry CBF - I won't be testing for a while - too scared, at least before the BFN you can pretend you might be pg, but afterwards, its too depressing!

x

Fettle - Hiya chick. How are you? Thanks for saying you miss me I am on the Feb thread now (CD11) and it seems wrong of me to keep posting on Jan... it kinda just reminds me that I have missed the boat Fingers crossed you get your BFP soon!!

promised myself I would not let TTCing get to me, but last night it did.

We shared a bath and had (what I thought) was an excellent BDing seesion.

While he went to the bathroom, I lay with my legs up. When he came out, he asked what I was doing. When I said that I was just making sure, he laughed and told me that he had not "got there".

Whilst he read I turned over and cried. He never even noticed.

I think I could have coped with it if he had not laughed. That was our last opportunity for this month.

Sorry to be so self pitying,

Thanks for reading.

That does seem very heartless. Especially not to mention it??!!

Love to you winnie x

Oh dear Winnie- that's sounds awful... dont want to sound rude... but didnt you realise he hadnt er hmm you know...???

Sorry Clearblue fairy- i will not test again until AF due... I promise...

Well after just joining the thread I am out. a/f arrived last night DH is away for 3 nights over my next fertile period so I am going to get some ovulation sticks just to make sure we get it right. Postive thoughts for February!

Sorry to hear that angie, good luck for feb.

To be fair to Winnie, my DP makes some 'interesting' noises during sex and sometimes I think he's erm....got there...and he hasn't! x

Honeyapple, when is your AF due? x

Hi Ammy- re DP/DH not unloading so to speak,
I guess men are all different in their behaviour!
My AF is due 19/20th- Bit stupid to have already tested! But it was a VERY cheap PG test- definitely wouldnt have wasted a clearblue yet!

not long yet though!! How do you feel? x

worried, hopeful, nervous, excited, impatient, scared...

also,
have had tingly boobs which were definitely bigger a couple of days ago, but now I'm not sure... also a lot of odd abdominal cramp/pains for the last couple of weeks.

honeyapple - I feel exactley the same as you at the moment, but also confused!

I was like that last month. I was CONVINCED. but AF came on time!

The best thing to do sometimes is not think about it, push it to the back of your mind. You can easily drive yourself mad. xx

Good luck xx

oh yes absolutely and utterly CONFUSED!

Ammy- I was quite hopeful last month too- I've never been convinced that i was PG since TTC no.3- good really as i havent been!!!
I guess I am more hopeful this month as we BDed every day from d7 to d17- of a normal 28 day cycle.

bloody hell! you must be knackered! wish we had that stamina!

Me and DP are all mouth- we talk bout it, wind each other up, get excited then get to bed and nod off!

xx

It wasnt that bad!
We just wanted to make sure we didnt miss the right moment...
In fact my DP was more enthusiastic than me!
If I went to bed before him, he would always wake me up and remind me of the schedule!

I got PG accidently with both my DC- each on 'one-off' unprotected sex. SO, for me to be not PG after 6 mths TTC is very confusing.

God thats good!! He sounds too good to be true!

It took me 3 cycles to get pg with DD and that was after stopping the pill. We are only giving ourselves 2 cycles as we are getting married this year!!