TTC after MC#6 - the lucky one for all of us!

[Romeolovesjuliet]

New thread. Hoping for lots of lovely BFPs over the coming weeks

lion-that is amazing news! Gosh, I cannot imagine what went through your head at the scan! Fab though. Hope the scan tomorrow gives you even more answers. What a miracle-it just goes to show.

adventure hope you are doing ok-sorry to hear you have been feeling down. Milestones are hard.

Thanks for all of the dtd info ladies-I now have the resolve to do every other day the whole cycle! Fingers crossed we can keep it up. I know we have exhausted ourselves too early in the past. DH is always super keen as soon as AF is over but if I try for every day he starts complaining that he is 'empty'!

keys I know I had 'pregnancy symptoms' for a while post-miscarriage and I would get nausea every cycle just after ovulation which was really annoying as the only other times I had ever really had nausea before was during pregnancy. I think hormones were all over the place. That settled down a while ago now. Try to get some rest and be kind to yourself

disney So glad to glad to hear that hun. Know you were on a little downer when af hit after mc I know I will be the same :(. Good luck with getting a bfp this month :).

Drifting we have been dtd every other night but for the week leading up to ovulation I was going to try everyday. Before was every other night but it has taken a toll on my body so I need to may leave it a few days and let nature take its cause this month. Im shattered.
However just some info which you may find helpful think I have said it before somewhere when I fell pg with the one I just lost my ovulation was like 5 days late which threw us completely because we was not really trying hard not like we are going to now so I had no idea when I ovulated that month when we had the scan I had ovulated a week before my period. So I think hun when you get that smiley face dtd is more crucial dtd every night other than when period has just finished if hubby gets tired. The more swimmers there are the higher the chance :). But all our bodies are so different. Again wishing you all the luck in the world.

Thanks for advice guys going to cool it until af comes now and hopefully get a fresh cycle and try again next month. Will chill the wine for the weekend :)

Thanks so much for all the posts. I know I only joined the thread the other day but have been lurking for a while and know how supportive all you guys are. I must say when I found out I was pregnant in March I did wonder how I was going to get to 12 weeks without worrying myself to death so it is one way to do it without worrying I suppose. I'm now worrying that it will be bad news tomorrow with one twin gone and something wrong with the remaining but time to be bloody positive after today. The doctor was so lovely and just kept saying that life is full of surprises. I was getting so close to coming home as well as I got there at 9 and then they lost me off the system so I still hadn't been seen by anyone at nearly 12. They had an emergency so didn't want to make a fuss but the wait was worth it!

Adventure game I'm glad I cheered you up a little bit. I know how hard it can be to keep positive and I hope my story gives other people some hope that sometimes surprising things happen.

temp - congratulations to you and hope all goes smoothly.

keys looking backing now I feel so stupid for not getting it checked out. If I'm honest I have had enough of epu waiting rooms and just couldn't face it to find out what I thought I already knew. I will come back tomorrow and let you know whatever the outcome. I hope you get there soon - I know how it feels to just want to get back to normal (if there is such a thing) and start to try again. Enjoy your wine in the meantime!

Congratulations temp!

Omg lion that's wonderful news! So pleased for you. Hopefully tomorrow can give some reassurance.

keys bodies are weird and wonderful and I'm sure everything will settle down soon for you. Put your feet up and look after yourself lovely lady.

Good luck for dtd eod drifting .... These men all of a sudden start feeling all used and abused don't they hehe!

Disney glad you are feeling better and starting to get back to normal.

Thinking of those going through a crappy time.

Nowt to report here! Spotting seems to have stopped again and hoping to have a bfn tomorrow but we shall see! I haven't told anyone at work what's been going on and am starting to feel a bit resentful that pressure just keeps getting put on me. I don't want them to know but I also want a bit of let up some days .... Instead of being made to feel guilty for being a bit behind. Unfortunately losing a baby and having a week signed off following surgery .... I'm not going to be on top form. Grrr! Moan over, sorry.

Lion that is the most wonderful, fabulous thing to happen!! So happy for you

Morning all.
I poaexpensivestick this morning and I am indeed pregnant. Thanks for all the good wishes. I'm now working on not thinking about it for a while, to try and delay the,start of the paranoia and anxiety. The first few weeks are such a long haul.

Hope it's a good day for everyone.

Fab news temperamental. Take each day as it comes and I hope everything goes smoothly.

Oh congratulations huni I am so so so over the moon for you :). Here's to a
happy and healthy pregnancy. :) Yay!!!

I am off to doctors again this morning :(. I started bleeding so heavy in the night and this morning no clots though. Has caught me really off guard and hoping so much its my AF but only just after 12 days I doubt that. Or is it the end of the mc now and the pg tests will now become negative and can get back to normal. Just when you stop bleeding for a week and getting negative pg tests to then getting a positive pg test and start bleeding again so heavy I am very confused.

Happy friday everyone xx

Fantastic news temp! Congratulations!!

Oh my goodness lion. Whata turn of events! Congratulations

keys- how confusing. Hope you get some answers today.

CD11 for me. Nothing to report

Congratulations to Lion & temp

Hi carrotV sorry to see you here too.

ibeka thank you for your kind messages on both here and bumsnet.

Congrats to all the BFPS! X

Congratulations temp - fingers crossed for an uneventful pregnancy

I'm starting to get lines on OPKs so hopefully building up to ovulation. DTD has recommenced! MrVan is very pleased

Congrats temp that's great news.

red hang on in there. I'm cd9 now so just a couple of days behind you. Still showing high on cbfm but I'm not feeling it. Tmi but cm doesn't look fertile to me. Still early in the cycle though.

Hope everyone's having a good day x

All hormones levels are 0 so the bleed is nothing to worry about. Heres to getting AF soon and the only time I want her this year lol.

disney Apparently your at a really fertile time my gp said today 3 months after a d+c or natural miscarriage so you could be ovulation very early hun. Goodluck :).

Hehe carrot Have fun ;)

Keys glad you know what is happening and can look forward to af iykwim.

A fuller scan today and I have twins - both with hbs. One measuring 11 wks 1 day and one 11 wks 5 days so spot on. And it looks as though they will be identical. What a rollercoaster.

Need to try and get booked on quickly for a dating scan before 14 weeks. I don't think it has sunk in yet and I'm in shock again after thinking one didn't have a hb.

Sending good luck vibes out to everyone and hoping for lots much bfps.

lion thats brought a tear reading that how lovely so happy for you must so drunk on happiness right now xxx

Somebody posted in June bfp's that if we fall this month feb is a leap year!!! Some of us might have feb 29th babies wow!!!

lion so many congratulations !! Did they say what they thought the bleeding was then ?

Adventure - the scan person just said that she could see no reason for the bleeding so fingers crossed no more.

xxx :) xxx twins so lovely. Better get as much sleep as possible lol.

Wow ! Your world has been turned upside down and then back again !! I bet you can't believe it !!! A positive story for anyone who experiences a heavy bleed during early pregnancy !!

Lion I'm so thrilled for you. What wonderful news x

Oh lion that's amazing! Just gave me goose bumps, you must be so happy but all over the place too! Just lovely, what a miracle xxx

Glad all went ok keys, good to know about the 3 month super fertile time! Will keep my chin up and stop obsessing I think!

Just spent the morning having lunch with friends and our 3 little ones who are all 2/3. Spent the entire time running around after them .. Dd's just dozed off and I'm scared to wake her up haha!

temp congratulations! Really pleased for you, try to enjoy the first bit and not worry too much (I know it's easier said than done!)

lion that is just so incredible-what an amazing story and twins! So thrilled for you, what a roller coaster. I hope the rest of the pregnancy is stress free.

mummy how are you doing?

Gosh leap year babies! That would make for interesting birthdays. I want a February baby so badly but I feel so burned by so many months of disappointment I'm almost scared to get my hopes up this month (must keep positive, must keep positive!)

red and disney I'm right there with you on cd10 today! Think I might start the opks today...bit early probably but not used the IC ones before so don't really have a clue what I'm doing-any tips gratefully received!

Treated myself to an expensive bottle of my favourite wine to have this evening-hardly ever drink anymore between TTC/2ww so I thought bugger it, I'm going to have a couple of glasses of something really nice-just because I can!

Hope everyone else is doing ok. Happy Friday!