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Anyone else 4dpo?

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Faybelline · 28/04/2015 12:09

Today I'm 4 days past ovulation- I think. So that makes me due AF 8th May.

I'm 27, and first month ttc #1.

Just wondered if anyone else was in the same boat?

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Rickalicious · 06/07/2015 20:45

Chelle, you should def test! If we all test on a different day there will be news each day and everyone can get the individual congratulations or support that they need...... But then again it would also be nice to share it together!

chelle792 · 06/07/2015 21:48

lod I don't know if I can wait!! We just went out for dinner and I drove home.... Such painful sharp pain the I almost pulled over! OH had to grab the wheel from me cuz I just let go! Shock

Am I normal or going loopy?!

Yeah, talked through. I'm wondering whether it's why I ovulated this month. Even though we weren't doing anything about that. She works with a lot of ivf couples apparently. It all came up when I talked about the tests i was having for not ovulating

chelle792 · 06/07/2015 21:48

Do I give in to peer pressure and poas tomorrow am? I really want to wait for lod!

LastOneDancing · 07/07/2015 05:49

Ah test chelle! Go on! I'm tempted already but luckily no sensitive tests to hand.

I'm having a wobble. Tough day with LLOD yesterday, started with a terrible night so i was whacked, then he was whiny and screamy all day, hit me deliberately at least twice after being told not to, threw his dinner on the floor (standard tbh)and then finally - which explains a lot - started puking his little guts up at 11.30PM, poor baby Sad I have to be in Chester to run a course at 9 am this morning poor me

How do people cope with two irksome pukers? DH is a good dad but not very patient and stands back and let's me deal with DS a lot.
I want 2 because I want LLOD to have family - we are both onlies so he's got no aunties uncles or cousins - and I love him to the ends of the earth so would love two little crazy characters to enjoy but I'm worried I won't manage Sad I don't know whether to carry on trying. I don't know if I'm mummy enough for 2 or if it will just wreck our mostly happy 3. How does 4 work?!

Gonequiet · 07/07/2015 06:19

Yes go on chelle

sounds like a rough day for you lod we have all been there. I am sure he will be back fighting fit soon who's looking after him today? If you only want 1 thats fine (as you know from only being 1 yourself!) but don't do it because you think yoj can't cope. It's hard at first but I actually find it easier now having two than when for some reason I only have one at home as they entertain/lead each other astray together! You have more than enough love for both and you will manage fine. When DD2 was born my DH would take our eldest out (even if just to the shops) which was brilliant. I'm a SAHM but DH is away a LOT, but I manage. Id still have to get up early if I had one or two, still have to run round before the nursery run etc!

Get off that jelly and stop wobbling you'll be fine Smile

Oh and ok you were well behaved witn POAS last month. Happy now? I may change my name back ...

chelle792 · 07/07/2015 06:31

lod I hope you're ok. A fractious child is never going to be easy to deal with. You're doing great xx

I NEED to test. I hardly slept last night. Tossing and turning. So here we are. Test in hand...

Gonequiet · 07/07/2015 06:35

And....

LastOneDancing · 07/07/2015 06:35

Thank you quiet. My reasoning throughout birth and motherhood has been - im a normal capable person, millions of normal capable people cope with labour/parenting , I will too. But I guess not having a sibling myself, it does feel daunting.

Yesterday was the first time I actually thought 'I don't know if I can' Sad

Anyway, I will expect my share of the puking to start at about 4pm so best get out to work Wink have a good day all.

LastOneDancing · 07/07/2015 06:36

OMG... UPDATE CHELLE!!

chelle792 · 07/07/2015 06:37

Ah that was a waste of time.

chelle792 · 07/07/2015 06:39

I'll be pissed if these stomach pains don't result in something! So a BFN it is...it is still a little early though reallyBlush

Gonequiet · 07/07/2015 06:42

Sad how many says Dpo are you chelle still time for a BFP so positive thoughts!

lod that's kore like it. Have a good day, get the work done before the sickness arrives Wink

LastOneDancing · 07/07/2015 06:42

Oh no Sad but yes, it is early - what test did you use? It wasn't a CB digi was it?

chelle792 · 07/07/2015 07:08

I'm 10dpo. I used first response? Apparently 50% of women get a negative at 10dpo. I'll find the link.
lod I'm rubbish with supportive words but hope you have a good day at work Flowers

Rickalicious · 07/07/2015 09:17

Chelle Still early days! FX for your next POAS.... will that be Sat with LOD?

LOD, everyone has a wobble and wonders if they cope, of course you will and it will all be worth it!

Vap0 · 07/07/2015 10:18

Hi All

You are all very early risers!

Sorry for the bfn chelle it's still early though. Don't lose hope.

lod sorry for the wobble! Give it until tomorrow and you'll feel better hopefully!

I think there is something in the water at the minute! I had a total meltdown this morning about work, dp was even wearing his worried face Confused which I haven't seen since I was put under general anaesthetic. More time away! This bloody job is killing me! No wonder we can't conceive when there is so much pressure!

Gonequiet · 07/07/2015 10:53

Is the no chance of moving jobs vap it doesn't sound like that place is any good for you! If it makes you feel any better I initially read the but about the GA as DP last looked worried when I put him under GA. Grin

Aceberry · 07/07/2015 11:02

lod I have two little girls 2years apart and I had moment where I think I can't cope anymore, but then it passes and then things are good again. Just put one foot in front of the other and plod on.

I think I can feel something going on down there (I'm 7 dpo) but probably hyper sensitive so it probably happens all the time!

vap I used to have a job where I was sent away a lot and I can imagine now how frustrating it is when TTC. Mind you, my DH is away 3 nights a week so we have had to a morning quickie before he left this week Wink

chelle792 · 07/07/2015 13:02

ace what you feeling? I've had cramps, twinges and occasional back ache. Really hope I'm not imagining it!

lod we on for testing Saturday?

vap are you ready for a work change? X

LastOneDancing · 07/07/2015 16:27

chelle we are SO on for Sat.

Anyone else joining us? Ace? Rick?

Vap will you be on it like a car bonnet this weekend? when are you in the zone? Did AF properly arrive?

Vap0 · 07/07/2015 16:49

lod fertile window starts on Sunday through to Friday. So will be holding off a bit I think. Don't want to wear him out too early!

AF? Well it only happens for a day and a half each month so I suppose so if a day and a half counts Confused

Not had chance to read through, rushing to the hotel to meet work colleagues - I'm always the last one to arrive! Will read through tomorrow!

chelle792 · 07/07/2015 18:28

I think its just us lod. I'm in agony with cramps today. I'm pretty sure they don't feel like AF cramps but then again it's an ovulation month for a change so might just be going through extra suffering. I suffered like crazy in Jan.

I am feeling rather disheartened though!Wine

Aceberry · 07/07/2015 19:23

I'm going to hold off testing until Monday - I think!

LastOneDancing · 07/07/2015 19:32

I'll be either 11 or 12 dpo (I think) on Sat. so assuming my FRER arrive I'm good to go and will take it as the definitive

Glad you've not been lured to the darks ide of random way early testing Ace. Hold fast.

I have no symptoms. Never felt less pregnant.

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