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MrsMcJnr · 06/11/2006 10:03

Well, I thouht I'd better start this thread as I am CD1 of my 6th cycle of trying for our very precious first baby. This is going to be a lucky and positive thread, I can feel it so I'm laying down the babydust now so that as you join me, you can collect your dose .

For those who join me, what are you doing differently this cycle?

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Impatience · 23/11/2006 18:23

Updating me too:

greedy - cycle5 - cd26 ov'd cd25 ( i think) so due to test about 5th dec!

MrsMcSpink! Cycle 6 - CD18, OVd CD15, 3dpo. Af due 2/12. Testing 3/3 Dec if the old hag doesn't pitch up beforehand!

Impatience: Cycle 18 - CD18, OV'd CD13, Af due 4/12, testing 3/12.

Ready: Cycle3 - CD13, potential to OV on CD15. Cycle is normally around 28 days give or take a day. Will not be testing until 5 days after AF fails to arrive

GeekInPigTails: Cycle5 - CD18 too, pretty sure OVd on CD15, so 3dpo today. AF due 4th Dec, so might give in to temptation and join the ladies testing on the 3rd

Flossam: Cycle 3, CD13 think i ov around day 10. 28 day cycle. By my calcs AF dues dec 8th (my birthday!)

Minshu: Cycle 15, CD16, due to ov CD14/15 (i.e. 22/23 Nov - nicely coinciding with DH being away with work ). Cycles 28 to 32 days. Don't normally test as I know when it's coming (6-8 days after boobs get heavy). Will not be buying a test until 10th at earliest...

Kitkat - CD2 - due to ov CD16 or CD18 (and will have a 29 or 32 day cycle depending on which day I ov)

Impatience · 23/11/2006 18:28

Greedy, am tempted to get really gross with ref to your scooping, but dont want to put off the more fainthearted reading in!

As for perving, I get horny on the run up to ov, which seems evolutionarily sensible, but in my case completely useless! So I put myself forward as a case study where horniness is in no way motivated by a need to marinade myself in babygravy.

Eeks! gotta dash but could really stay on here and have a laugh. If you all lived round the corner (er, maybe you do... ) I'd drag you off out for a pint!

sideways · 23/11/2006 18:55

Wow, babymad, you are really doing well with all the tests. I hope it all goes well.

We managed quite a bit of bd this month - better be worth it .

20smum · 23/11/2006 19:02

Hi guys, would you mind if i joined you on this thread? i'm 29 years old and this is the first month we have been trying to concieve. Currently on day 18 and think i ov'd on day 14 or 15 but can't be sure! Have a usual 28 day cycle, first day of last period was 6th Nov, so am i correct in saying i should test on the 4th of Dec? - Hope you don't mind me gatecrashing, i've been reading this thread for a bit and have found it very interesting and useful xx

Flossam · 23/11/2006 19:04

That maths seems to work out to me 20's! My AF was 11th Nov and I am due AF on 8th Dec.

20smum · 23/11/2006 19:11

thanks flossam, do you wait until your af is overdue b4 testing? i'm very impatient so doubt i will be able to hang on til then! noticed that you said earlier in this thread that your birthday is on the 8th, remembered that cause mine is on the 9th of Dec - which will make it extra cool if i am preg, but extra rubbish if i have my af that week!!

Flossam · 23/11/2006 19:14

I will do my best to wait unless I have any extraordinary symptoms which make me go 'ohhhhhh!' 1st cycle I tested early and it was a waste. Last cycle I hadn't come on by lunchtime, wasn't entirely sure when AF would be due and had BFN. This month I think I will wait as if it were to be a BFP it would be a lovely day to get it!

Beccarolloveragain · 23/11/2006 20:53

Adding myself to the list....

greedy - cycle5 - cd26 ov'd cd25 ( i think) so due to test about 5th dec!

MrsMcSpink! Cycle 6 - CD18, OVd CD15, 3dpo. Af due 2/12. Testing 3/3 Dec if the old hag doesn't pitch up beforehand!

Impatience: Cycle 18 - CD18, OV'd CD13, Af due 4/12, testing 3/12.

Ready: Cycle3 - CD13, potential to OV on CD15. Cycle is normally around 28 days give or take a day. Will not be testing until 5 days after AF fails to arrive

GeekInPigTails: Cycle5 - CD18 too, pretty sure OVd on CD15, so 3dpo today. AF due 4th Dec, so might give in to temptation and join the ladies testing on the 3rd

Flossam: Cycle 3, CD13 think i ov around day 10. 28 day cycle. By my calcs AF dues dec 8th (my birthday!)

Minshu: Cycle 15, CD16, due to ov CD14/15 (i.e. 22/23 Nov - nicely coinciding with DH being away with work ). Cycles 28 to 32 days. Don't normally test as I know when it's coming (6-8 days after boobs get heavy). Will not be buying a test until 10th at earliest...

Kitkat - CD2 - due to ov CD16 or CD18 (and will have a 29 or 32 day cycle depending on which day I ov)

Beccarolloveragain Cycle 2 - CD 16 possibly OVed yesterday tho not sure! Testing 5/12 (tho 4th is my birthday so might try a day early if I have any symptoms!)

Oh and BTW Impervience - YES Have been hornamudo. Had a morning shag yesterday even tho kids were up and about and we were late for school run!

Minshu · 23/11/2006 21:15

Mirry - we could be in the same boat. After loads of farting about trying to get DH's results, my GP phoned to say that they are now on their way to his GP. As my results have all come back "normal" so far, I think he's beginning to think it's his "fault". However, it's more likely to be because we aren't BDing enough (my fault ). Sorry I can't help, but would be grateful for any advice, too.

Glad to hear that the op went well, MrsMc. Hope he's not too bored for the remainder of his stay.

MadameButterfly · 23/11/2006 22:50

I don't understand all the abbreviations further down.

Can someone please explain them to me.

Sorry if I am bweing thick.

Mirry71 · 24/11/2006 08:23

Minshu - thank you - and I keep on thinking that it could be down to not enough BDing as well...
I will let you know what happens....I am trying not to think about it but we have a joint appointment when hopefully we will learn all the results at the same time....
good luck to you

Impatience · 24/11/2006 08:47

Becca, good effort!

Impatience · 24/11/2006 08:53

I'm seeking some sympathy. A friend told me last night she's trying for her next baby. Her first was conceived first month trying. She's going to be af due about the same time as me, and I'm just sure that she's going to get pg this month (ie, first time again) and I won't. This also happened to me a couple of months ago. I'm starting to feel like a right prat, embarrassed by my stupid body and uncomfortable with the near pity I get from the newly pg person (most ppl know I was trying for our first, and altho' I've kept it quiet again all these months since ds was born this destined-to-be-pg-1st-go friend knows.)

I feel I should just curl up and hide away to avoid all these 'falling' people: Like it's just soooooo easy

KitKat30 · 24/11/2006 09:02

Impatience hun - I'm sorry you're feeling crap. I know that little I can say will make you feel better, so here's a huge . I think it's only natural you feel this way - my BF is also TTC and if she falls before me I'll be so pleased for her, but I also feel absolutely gutted that she is and I'm not.

She might not fall as easily this time round - these threads prove that! Loads of mums on here who fell easily but are now finding it harder. Each pg is so different and each person is too. I think it's all a bit of a lottery to be honest... I was watching that fertility prog on BBC1 a couple of nights ago, and the doctor was explaining that what turns a fertilised egg into an embryo is pure voodoo. There is no scientific formula that makes it happen - he said it's like asking someone to roll a 5 on a dice - it might happen but you're as likely to roll a 6 or a 4.

I'm rambling now! I think what I'm trying to say is that even though we're struggling to get pg, it's not because there's something wrong with us, or because we're not doing something right or often enough etc. It's just nature taking it's time...

I doubt that helps at all - so

Hope everyone is OK this morning

KitKat30 · 24/11/2006 09:09

Just moving this to the top...

greedy - cycle5 - cd26 ov'd cd25 ( i think) so due to test about 5th dec!

MrsMcSpink! Cycle 6 - CD18, OVd CD15, 3dpo. Af due 2/12. Testing 3/3 Dec if the old hag doesn't pitch up beforehand!

Impatience: Cycle 18 - CD18, OV'd CD13, Af due 4/12, testing 3/12.

Ready: Cycle3 - CD13, potential to OV on CD15. Cycle is normally around 28 days give or take a day. Will not be testing until 5 days after AF fails to arrive

GeekInPigTails: Cycle5 - CD18 too, pretty sure OVd on CD15, so 3dpo today. AF due 4th Dec, so might give in to temptation and join the ladies testing on the 3rd

Flossam: Cycle 3, CD13 think i ov around day 10. 28 day cycle. By my calcs AF dues dec 8th (my birthday!)

Minshu: Cycle 15, CD16, due to ov CD14/15 (i.e. 22/23 Nov - nicely coinciding with DH being away with work ). Cycles 28 to 32 days. Don't normally test as I know when it's coming (6-8 days after boobs get heavy). Will not be buying a test until 10th at earliest...

Kitkat - Cycle 3 - CD3 - due to ov CD16 or CD18 (and will have a 29 or 32 day cycle depending on which day I ov). AF due 21st - 23rd Dec.

Beccarolloveragain Cycle 2 - CD 16 possibly OVed yesterday tho not sure! Testing 5/12 (tho 4th is my birthday so might try a day early if I have any symptoms!)

MrsMcJnr · 24/11/2006 09:32

Morning Ladies Happy Friday! not much to report today on the TTC front, CD19 and 4dpo, woke up with a sharp but slight pain just below right hip bone, keeps coming back. Lots to report otherwise, went to visit DH last night, he was groggy but doing well, no nausea or anything. Hope he comes home tomorrow. Think I should resign today playing it by ear - wish me luck!

Impatience - yes you are the perfect test case for horniness v desire for babygravy. Sending you big hugs, we all know how you feel about the mixed feelings you get when someone we know is TTC and gets their BFP. Just remember, that's her baby and her pregnancy and they are not linked in anyway to yours, you want your own, not hers and BFPs are not in limited supply. That thought seems to make me feel better

Sideways - good luck this cycle. When is AF due/are you testing?

Welcome 20smum - 4/12 sounds fine to me. You will be in good company testing that day with Becca. Impatience, Geek and I are planning to test on 3/12 - if the wicked witch stays away.

No Flossam - your AF isn't due on your birthday, your BFP is!

Madame Butterfly - you'll find an acronym list in the useful stuff panel about the thread. Hope that helps!

Just one week until the lucky month begins ladies! GO Rudolph! ................

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Kittiwake · 24/11/2006 09:56

Morning all

Adding myself on to the list

Kittiwake - cycle 2 - cd14 should ov today or tomorrow I think so Af due 8th Dec.

greedy - cycle5 - cd26 ov'd cd25 ( i think) so due to test about 5th dec!

MrsMcSpink! Cycle 6 - CD18, OVd CD15, 3dpo. Af due 2/12. Testing 3/3 Dec if the old hag doesn't pitch up beforehand!

Impatience: Cycle 18 - CD18, OV'd CD13, Af due 4/12, testing 3/12.

Ready: Cycle3 - CD13, potential to OV on CD15. Cycle is normally around 28 days give or take a day. Will not be testing until 5 days after AF fails to arrive

GeekInPigTails: Cycle5 - CD18 too, pretty sure OVd on CD15, so 3dpo today. AF due 4th Dec, so might give in to temptation and join the ladies testing on the 3rd

Flossam: Cycle 3, CD13 think i ov around day 10. 28 day cycle. By my calcs AF dues dec 8th (my birthday!)

Minshu: Cycle 15, CD16, due to ov CD14/15 (i.e. 22/23 Nov - nicely coinciding with DH being away with work ). Cycles 28 to 32 days. Don't normally test as I know when it's coming (6-8 days after boobs get heavy). Will not be buying a test until 10th at earliest...

Kitkat - Cycle 3 - CD3 - due to ov CD16 or CD18 (and will have a 29 or 32 day cycle depending on which day I ov). AF due 21st - 23rd Dec.

Beccarolloveragain Cycle 2 - CD 16 possibly OVed yesterday tho not sure! Testing 5/12 (tho 4th is my birthday so might try a day early if I have any symptoms!)

MrsPolly · 24/11/2006 10:03

Morning all

Adding me too:

MrsPolly - cycle 6 - cd24, ov cd21, due to test 3rd or 4th December

Kittiwake - cycle 2 - cd14 should ov today or tomorrow I think so Af due 8th Dec.

greedy - cycle5 - cd26 ov'd cd25 ( i think) so due to test about 5th dec!

MrsMcSpink! Cycle 6 - CD18, OVd CD15, 3dpo. Af due 2/12. Testing 3/3 Dec if the old hag doesn't pitch up beforehand!

Impatience: Cycle 18 - CD18, OV'd CD13, Af due 4/12, testing 3/12.

Ready: Cycle3 - CD13, potential to OV on CD15. Cycle is normally around 28 days give or take a day. Will not be testing until 5 days after AF fails to arrive

GeekInPigTails: Cycle5 - CD18 too, pretty sure OVd on CD15, so 3dpo today. AF due 4th Dec, so might give in to temptation and join the ladies testing on the 3rd

Flossam: Cycle 3, CD13 think i ov around day 10. 28 day cycle. By my calcs AF dues dec 8th (my birthday!)

Minshu: Cycle 15, CD16, due to ov CD14/15 (i.e. 22/23 Nov - nicely coinciding with DH being away with work ). Cycles 28 to 32 days. Don't normally test as I know when it's coming (6-8 days after boobs get heavy). Will not be buying a test until 10th at earliest...

Kitkat - Cycle 3 - CD3 - due to ov CD16 or CD18 (and will have a 29 or 32 day cycle depending on which day I ov). AF due 21st - 23rd Dec.

Beccarolloveragain Cycle 2 - CD 16 possibly OVed yesterday tho not sure! Testing 5/12 (tho 4th is my birthday so might try a day early if I have any symptoms!)

Ready · 24/11/2006 10:06

CD14 today. And I have had this overwhelming feeling today, and I can't explain it. It's almost as if I am in a panic that we haven't made a baby again this month. It's a very strange feeling.

Kittiwake · 24/11/2006 10:07

Sending hugs to Impaitience too..... know how you feel hun, I have new nephew aged 3 months plus proud parents coming to stay for the weekend. Really looking forward to seeing them and he is gorgeous, but there is a small part of me that will be quite a poisonous shade of green....

MrsMc glad hubby is okay and hope he comes home to you soon. I handed in my notice fairly recently its quite a rushkind of strange to do something i had imagined in my head many times!

MrsMcJnr · 24/11/2006 10:30

MrsPolly - you're in good company, lots of AFs due/potential tests going on around first week in December

Ready - now listen, it's far too early in the cycle to be having any thoughts about the success of the cycle!! be a good girl, stay calm and happy and just wait and see!!!!

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cityangel · 24/11/2006 10:34

Adding me too

Cityangel - Cycle 4 - CD1, OV CD17, if testing it will be Christmas Day!

MrsPolly - cycle 6 - cd24, ov cd21, due to test 3rd or 4th December

Kittiwake - cycle 2 - cd14 should ov today or tomorrow I think so Af due 8th Dec.

greedy - cycle5 - cd26 ov'd cd25 ( i think) so due to test about 5th dec!

MrsMcSpink! Cycle 6 - CD18, OVd CD15, 3dpo. Af due 2/12. Testing 3/3 Dec if the old hag doesn't pitch up beforehand!

Impatience: Cycle 18 - CD18, OV'd CD13, Af due 4/12, testing 3/12.

Ready: Cycle3 - CD13, potential to OV on CD15. Cycle is normally around 28 days give or take a day. Will not be testing until 5 days after AF fails to arrive

GeekInPigTails: Cycle5 - CD18 too, pretty sure OVd on CD15, so 3dpo today. AF due 4th Dec, so might give in to temptation and join the ladies testing on the 3rd

Flossam: Cycle 3, CD13 think i ov around day 10. 28 day cycle. By my calcs AF dues dec 8th (my birthday!)

Minshu: Cycle 15, CD16, due to ov CD14/15 (i.e. 22/23 Nov - nicely coinciding with DH being away with work ). Cycles 28 to 32 days. Don't normally test as I know when it's coming (6-8 days after boobs get heavy). Will not be buying a test until 10th at earliest...

Kitkat - Cycle 3 - CD3 - due to ov CD16 or CD18 (and will have a 29 or 32 day cycle depending on which day I ov). AF due 21st - 23rd Dec.

Beccarolloveragain Cycle 2 - CD 16 possibly OVed yesterday tho not sure! Testing 5/12 (tho 4th is my birthday so might try a day early if I have any symptoms!)

20smum · 24/11/2006 10:37

Good morning ladies,
Adding myself to the growing list that everyone keeps reproducing!! Hope you are all having a good friday xxx

20'smum - cycle 1 - cd19, 0v'd cd 14/15 Af due 4th Dec

MrsPolly - cycle 6 - cd24, ov cd21, due to test 3rd or 4th December

Kittiwake - cycle 2 - cd14 should ov today or tomorrow I think so Af due 8th Dec.

greedy - cycle5 - cd26 ov'd cd25 ( i think) so due to test about 5th dec!

MrsMcSpink! Cycle 6 - CD18, OVd CD15, 3dpo. Af due 2/12. Testing 3/3 Dec if the old hag doesn't pitch up beforehand!

Impatience: Cycle 18 - CD18, OV'd CD13, Af due 4/12, testing 3/12.

Ready: Cycle3 - CD13, potential to OV on CD15. Cycle is normally around 28 days give or take a day. Will not be testing until 5 days after AF fails to arrive

GeekInPigTails: Cycle5 - CD18 too, pretty sure OVd on CD15, so 3dpo today. AF due 4th Dec, so might give in to temptation and join the ladies testing on the 3rd

Flossam: Cycle 3, CD13 think i ov around day 10. 28 day cycle. By my calcs AF dues dec 8th (my birthday!)

Minshu: Cycle 15, CD16, due to ov CD14/15 (i.e. 22/23 Nov - nicely coinciding with DH being away with work ). Cycles 28 to 32 days. Don't normally test as I know when it's coming (6-8 days after boobs get heavy). Will not be buying a test until 10th at earliest...

Kitkat - Cycle 3 - CD3 - due to ov CD16 or CD18 (and will have a 29 or 32 day cycle depending on which day I ov). AF due 21st - 23rd Dec.

Beccarolloveragain Cycle 2 - CD 16 possibly OVed yesterday tho not sure! Testing 5/12 (tho 4th is my birthday so might try a day early if I have any symptoms!)

KitKat30 · 24/11/2006 10:38

City - how good would a BFP on Christmas day be?! Best present ever!

MrsMcJnr · 24/11/2006 10:51

Certainly better than being born on Christmas Day!! I am 29/12 and it's pretty crap!

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