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TTC First Time - Anyone else?

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HippyStar · 30/04/2014 13:47

My husband and I are TTC! I have been off the pill for a month now and have started taking folic acid and calcium with vit D to ensure if anything does happen I'm as healthy as possible. Limiting caffeine and alcohol but not cutting it out completely as you never know how long it will take! All my friends have just fallen pregnant really easily, but I have a feeling this will not be the case for me. I can't remember when my last period was either which is annoying as will need to wait for the next one before I can chart etc. Hmm Is anyone else out there TTC now? We could all share our stories and encourage each other! Smile

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ellstor · 09/06/2014 15:37

Hi!
Me and dh2b are ttc for first time! &I believe I'm the most broody woman in Berkshire!
Finished pill around 5 weeks ago and I got af 1 day later than was expecting her - unreal after 8 years on bc.
Papas for the first time ever last week and that was nerve wracking and then disappointing when only one line showed up.
Fingers crossed for a successful month for everyone! X

ellstor · 09/06/2014 16:54

Poas not papas!

ellstor · 09/06/2014 16:54

Poas not papas!

Futter · 09/06/2014 17:58

Thanks katybear- :-) I've downloaded the app so will have a look at it tonight - how do you track cm ??? Or is it TMI for this page? ;-)
Well we can start together then how exciting! I have no idea when my first AF is due as haven't had a period for years due to my pill so me and the hubby are enjoying DTD anyway just in case :-)
Fingers crossed for you keep me posted!

kittenmamma · 09/06/2014 19:18

Flutter, egg white CM...stretchy and clear like eggwhites, tends to be when you're ovulating. Apparently if you are pregnant PO your CM becomes thick and creamy, white, and lots of it!
I have an app called ovia which tracks CM, AF, OV, temp, symptoms etc etc, might be worth a try too.
Im now in that final few days wait, AF due on Fri/Sat and im going mad!

Katybear123 · 09/06/2014 19:37

Hey guys hope all is well, af should have arrived today but no sign yet however not getting hopes up yet owing to not really being sure on cycles. Think I will test thur / fri if no af!

kittenmamma · 09/06/2014 19:56

Katy FX for you!! Exciting!

Rainbow555 · 09/06/2014 20:24

Ohh fx katy may af is still AWOL but think I might be starting to get cramps and a headache so hopefully it will show up soon so we can get on with DTD this month!
Downloaded the ovia app seems pretty good!

Futter · 09/06/2014 21:21

Thanks for the ovia app! Really useful to start tracking the everyday especially when you don't have a proper cycle yet - thanks!! Smile

Futter · 09/06/2014 22:19

Thanks kittenmama and FX!!

mrschatty · 09/06/2014 22:19

Katy fx keep us posted! I use ovuview app hightly recommend if looking for app easy to use visual cycle style and symptom tracker I love xx

Futter · 09/06/2014 22:19

And Katybear!

kittenmamma · 10/06/2014 01:59

Okay guys I know we are on a high but I need some emotional support.
Obviously DH and I are TTC and that's something we've been waiting to do for a long time, we wanted to wait until after the wedding.

However, the last couple of weeks or so we have had 2 or 3 of these horrid spats which always leave me feeling like maybe it's not a good idea to be TTC.
I've literally snapped at him that I will go back on the pill when AF arrives this week.

I am hoping it's just mad hormones making me cranky (which I know I am, at the moment, very very cranky)

I also hope I don't feel this way if we have conceived this month! I would feel wretched.
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Futter · 10/06/2014 07:02

Hi kittenmama.. When is your wedding? The run up to your wedding day is very stressful and me and DH had a number of spats beforehand and usually we are really good with each other! If you conceive this month of course it will be a happy occasion but you will need to take extra care of yourself with the stress that comes at being a bride no matter how organised you are ;-) if you unfortunately don't conceive and are happy to wait to try and conceive this month then perhaps a honeymoon baby might make you feel a bit less overwhelmed with the wedding ... I know I certainly couldn't have done both Wink whatever you decide good luck!! X

Futter · 10/06/2014 07:03

Sorry just reread... Not awake yet .. You are married now aren't you? Sorry! Xx it's probably just those horrible things called hormones!!! Xx

kittenmamma · 10/06/2014 14:49

Yep we are married now. I think it is just hormones, my best friend has advised me to get a test lol. She said she used a first response one that was positive a week before AF was due! Im now 3/4 days away but I think I'llstill wait until after the weekend.

Katybear123 · 10/06/2014 18:55

Ah thanks guys, I hope your fingers crossed helps. I'm not convinced but we will see. Hubbie out tonight so tempted to do a test but if was neg think would need support, just hope either I am or af turns up soon. Only reason I'm not is in the evening if it's neg I would spend my time thinking I should do another as it might not have been sensitive enough

sugarangel88 · 10/06/2014 19:22

Hi all,

Hope it's all going well for you all!
This is my first month ttc! I never realized how stressful this is! We have wanted kids for months but now we r trying it's so stressful! I know it won't happen first time but I just want it to!
Ever little thing I'm wondering if it's a sign! I have had a weird taste in my mouth all day and I'm so sleepy, but probably just a touch of somthing!

Good luck ladies!xx

LadyNovember · 10/06/2014 19:30

Just wanted to say thanks for Ovia as well..it gave me a totally different ov date to the last app i was using..so confused! Might order some ic opks just to see what's going on inside..anyone used any ics/opks yet?

Sending hugs your way kitten..I think ttc can feel so overwhelming and stressful sometimes..couple that with the impending arrival of AF and you have yourself one cranky hormonal woman! I'm sure it's nothing to worry about xxx

Katybear123 · 10/06/2014 19:31

Hi sugar I am 100% the same wight eh symptom spotting join the clubx

kittenmamma · 10/06/2014 21:51

LadyNovember thank you :) I've officially bought my first pregnancy test! Got first response and am going to cave and try it tomorrow, as it's 98% accurate 3 days before AF, which is what I'll be. If it's neg I'll wait until AF arrives and if she doesn't I'll test again.

Katy I'm the same with not wanting to do it on my own but I think I will, I think I'll be quite upset and need a moment to myself rather than having to look strong for DH or BF.

LadyNovember · 10/06/2014 22:16

Wishing you all the luck in the world kitten! Crossing everything for you xx

Sarahg1 · 11/06/2014 03:37

hi all... my first time on here so I've come to chat! We are also trying for our 1st, AF arrived 3 days early today so I've done what all sensible women do and made the most of the opportunity for a big glass of wine, ice cream and half a tube of pringles to drown my sorrows. Trying not to get worked up about it but easier said than done... will be going into cycle 4 after AF. getting married in 5 weeks so praying that after the stress is gone I get my BFP.

good luck everyone!

Rainbow555 · 11/06/2014 08:26

Ohhhh sarah af got me too today.. I like your idea so will now pour myself a nice glass ofWine
Sorry af got you.. Here's to next month
And hope all the final wedding prep is going well! I remember it well! Starts to get really exciting!
Fx for you kitten

Sarahg1 · 11/06/2014 09:54

Eurgh Rainbow isn't it the worst! I've decided to be a bit more constructive today and downloaded Ovia and am going on a bit of a healthkick.

Fingers crossed for next month for all of us!!