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TTC #2 and turning into a nut job! Part 2!

998 replies

BartBaby · 19/06/2013 08:00

Still ttc. Still nutty. Come join us Smile

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StoneBaby · 22/06/2013 12:15

Just got a BFN on a FRER. And now I'm crying

muzzy2011 · 22/06/2013 14:02

Sorry to hear that stone, when are/were you due? I've completely lost track there has been so much going on here I haven't kept up!

Haha I'm known to take tests apart too just in case the line is hiding!

I'm busy imagining pg symptoms already....I'm either 7dpo or 3dpo depending which opk reading is right?!
Any news abi?

StoneBaby · 22/06/2013 14:18

muzzy AF is due on Monday. I'm on 13 dpo. Good luck to you

muzzy2011 · 22/06/2013 14:48

All is not lost yet then...good luck.

dildoos · 22/06/2013 14:53

Stone there is still a remote chance!!!! I am sure I was 7 days late before a faint kind with dd! Pasta Iay get on google, I have prickly boobs, period pains a bfn and an urge to drink bulmers Grin I had one now feeling ropey and feel like have tummy bug! Am sure can make that a hope too Grinhowever really feel like periods coming tomorrow Sadwe are all mental nut cases!! Envy It xx

fedupofrainydays · 22/06/2013 15:56

stone sorry for the disappointment but agree that it's not all over til af arrives. Some people don't get bfps til a good few days after missed af. Both times I've been preggers its was only ridiculously faint on day af was due. oddly those two times i didn't do any earlier tests - I waited! Clearly that's out the window nowadays when I test whenever I can. Not now I'm on here of course and abiding by the rules.

PastaBeeandCheese · 22/06/2013 17:34

I'm sorry Stone. Crying over the single line is standard here but I do think you've still got hope if AF due Monday and judging by your post time it wasn't first thing when you POAS?

Dildoos MN confirms prickly boobs are a symptom, we all know about sickness, POAS is only 99% accurate and far less pre AF date and I can find a woman in Dublin who swears she craved Bulmers the whole way through.

Right, here's my insanity inducing situation.... AF due yesterday. Tested using IC first thing... BFN. Thought AF started mid afternoon with brown blood which carried on until the evening turning slightly pink. Nothing since then..... I'm back on full time gusset gazing.

Anyway, I fessed up to DH who expressly told me not to test before morning and to stop using £1 tests from Amazon. Obviously I ignored him and just tested again.... BFN but there is a mark on the test.... Couldn't call it a line, more a water stain / shadow.

Kicking myself for not using a Clear Blue now. With DD I got a mega faint line the day I was due with a FRER.

Arghh.... Going to have to wait until tomorrow morning and see if AF arrives in the night aren't I??

StoneBaby · 22/06/2013 19:52

pasta I would say that yes testing tomorrow am with your first urine may be the way forward. I hope you get a result either way.

DH has been supportive but he's not sure what to say. I'm wondering if I should test again in the morning or just wait Monday and see if AF arrives. What's bugging me the most is that we dtd on the day of my + opk and I've got symptoms

dildoos · 22/06/2013 21:29

Hey ladies, help I am feeling really rough, pale and sick diorrhea and so bad just has to leave friends where we were sleeping the night Hmm brown spotting period due tomorrow. Do you think this may be promising or just a sick bug and period will come tomorrow? Got the pains Hmm help please xx

AbiBub · 22/06/2013 21:37

stone I still have hopes for you lovely, test when you feel you need to test! Even if it ends up being tomorrow and monday Wink

pasta give the test a go, may as well! Especially as spotting seems to have ceased and the whole brown then pale pink stuff in my book is possibly a good sign! Smile

I think we can all establish the nutty side for sure, im so glad im not the only one that wants to pull apart tests, cos those little windows restrict the possible faintest lines of hope ever eh!!

dildoos lets hope they are pg urges and nothing to do with the evil af witch!!

muzzy nice to know your with us nutters on the symptom spotting already!! :0)

fedup; hope you enjoyed the gym visit!

Im off to go see what I can get in the way of alcohol now! ! Cd32 and the bi**h has decided to make an appearance! ! Stooooopid af!! However I had this odd moment of nuttiness earlier where I thought ooooh its subsided a bit perhaps I still could be pg, then it came back with a vengeance! ! So I shoved a tampax up thereand got on with life as we know it! ! Its probably a good thing as we got told that our landlord is looking ti put the house that we live in on the market in about a months time, so I best get a wriggle on a find a new place for us to live without a deposit, yeah this month isgonna be fun huh!! Neeeeeeeeeed aalcohol for sure this evening! ! :0/

I think I may have missed a few out as cant go back a page without this writing be deleted so sorry if I missed anyone!!

How is everyone? x

AbiBub · 22/06/2013 21:43

dildoos not sure but I hope its not a bug :0/ I guess the thing to do is just make sure you're hydrated as best you possibly can, keep sipping water (dont down it or gulp it, it will make you sick!!) Just gague it and see what happens by the morning? ! Sorry I cant be of any more help :0/

dildoos · 22/06/2013 21:43

Abi- I know the house finding / moving/ deposit finding is a worry! But don't they say new house new baby? Here's hoping for you!!!
Bloody witch and her rather annoying habit of turning up! I fear she is now on her broom heading my way! Xx

AbiBub · 22/06/2013 21:47

Do you know what, I ve just looked up at the clock and seen the time! I can't be bothered to go find drink now! I just include it in the list for the weekly food shop!!

dildoos · 22/06/2013 21:48

Some virtual Sauvignon WineWineWineWineWineWineWineWineWineWine

AbiBub · 22/06/2013 21:50

Hee hee thanks dildoos I know what you mean.... I shall shout at the witch to tell her to bypass you!! Let usk know how you are getting on, I hope you feel better soon! ! :0)

AbiBub · 22/06/2013 21:51

Awwww thanks glug glug glug glug :0)

Coolhand · 23/06/2013 00:23

Oh Abi sorry on both fronts. Not knowing what's happening with your house situation is soooo stressful. I hope things work themselves out soon and curses to AF.

Oh Dildoos, seriously hope you are feeling better soon. Get some rest and plenty of water.

Stone hope you're doing okay. Hang in there and will keep fx that result turns round over the weekend.

No more news here - expecting AF to rock up tomorrow. If not, I'll leave it until Monday before POAS.

dildoos · 23/06/2013 06:51

The evil witch has arrived full blown hideous af! Grrrr out comes iron as serious tiredness is clearly very low levels again due to tmi the flow!
How's everyone else feeling today? Hung over? Xxx

StoneBaby · 23/06/2013 07:12

It appears AF has just arrived. Very light tho and still feeling crap but now I know where I stand Sad

It seems this month we're all in the same boat

dildoos · 23/06/2013 07:18

HmmAngryThanks Stone- bloody evil thing!
Xx

PastaBeeandCheese · 23/06/2013 08:42

How are you feeling now dildoos?

Stone, I'm really sorry. That sucks.

Coolhand, Fingers crossed for you.

Abi, I'm sorry about your house situation. I hope that gets sorted ASAP. Our house is on the market and the uncertainty is really hard to deal with.

I'm no further forward really. Tested first thing with a Clear Blue. There's a faint line as in you have to tilt it and switch the electric light out to see it. DH can see it though so at least i'm not halucinating. I'm 2 days late now and by this point with DD I had a bold line that came up instantly. I think I'm going to have to leave it a few days which is going to kill me.

Mind you, I don't know why I place any faith in Clear Blue. I failed to get a smily face all month long with their digital ovulation kit.

muzzy2011 · 23/06/2013 11:27

Oh no sorry to hear all these horrible af's have arrived :( sorry for you all.
Def have a drink...and cheeky cig I say!

Sounds promising pasta....although I have to say I steer clear of clearblue tests after once getting a false positive. I think the ones with pink dye are much better! Good luck..I hope it is a BFP!

dildoos · 23/06/2013 16:25

Pasta loving the bfp!!!!
Will you be doing another first thing?
Today honestly feeling poop!
Xx

fedupofrainydays · 23/06/2013 16:58

Pasta this does sound promising! Cheering me up on my still absent smiley face OPK.

Sorry for dildo, abi and stone for af witch. House situ sounds stressy too Abi. I did a house move whilst pregnant and was in constant pool of tears at any thing!

Dildo e- I hope you feel better soon. Sounds like a nasty bug so keep resting, watching shite TV and duvet days (not bd'ing just yet).

Stone I hope you are feeling a bit better today. I always find the first day of af the worst, and cry for a good few hours. Then the next day is a bit better, and the next. Big hugs for you.

Cool am hoping for your bfp tomorrow!

PastaBeeandCheese · 23/06/2013 18:27

muzzy I think you are right. I was seduced by 20% off in Boots. It was a double pack too so feel I have to use second one before I can go and but the First Response.

dildoos you poor thing. Are you getting much rest? I hope so. I hope a good night's sleep is heading your way.

I am desperate to test again because I'm turning even more nutty with all this. Nearly 3 days late and I flip between thinking it is a line and I'm pregnant and thinking I didn't ovulate, I'm going to skip my AF and i am now having mental visions of lines.

Desperate to test again tomorrow. DH has meanly sensibly suggested I wait until Tuesday as it isn't likely to go from watermark to think line in 24 hours and until I get a proper line I can believe it iyswim?

I don't know if I can even though I know he is probably right killjoy that he is

fedupofrainydays I was testing twice a day during the critical period and nothing. The empty circle of misery. If I get a decent line I'm going to dance round the room and then celebrate by writing a strongly worded letter to Clear Blue.