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TTC #2 and turning into a nut job! Part 2!

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BartBaby · 19/06/2013 08:00

Still ttc. Still nutty. Come join us Smile

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Catnaps37 · 20/06/2013 10:39

Just been reading the thread -hooe you don't mind me dipping in here?!

coolhand hope you have a great holiday and manage to relax and forget about it all! It may do you the world of good :)

My cousin had another baby last night and my BF has just told me she is preg. I am pleased for them both but feel so bad for my jealous thoughts!

Feel it will never happen for me...:(

StoneBaby · 20/06/2013 13:24

I'm feeling so awful with this constant nausea. I still can POAS as I'm still 4 days away from AF. Trying no to do symptoms spotting, but I'm convinced my boobs are filling my bra more than last week. Please can someone slap me on the head??? Grin

cool it's never over up to AF arrives

catnap welcome to our nutter concersation

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BartBaby · 20/06/2013 14:50

He he there you go stone

Sore boobs and nausea appear to be my 2 main pre af symptoms so im ready for them this month and will only get my hopes up if i dont get them! who am i kidding i will be getting hopes up anyway

Welcome catnap and hello everyone else Smile

2dpo and only thing ive had is a banging headache this morning

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StoneBaby · 20/06/2013 16:23

I don't get pre AF symptoms.

Ok, I caved in and POAS. Now waiting for the result... (Probably BFN)

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BartBaby · 20/06/2013 17:07

And????????

What was it stone fx for you!

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muzzy2011 · 20/06/2013 17:19

Good luck stone!!!

AbiBub · 20/06/2013 17:27

stone ????? and???

Hello! sorry I haven't been on here, been fairly busy!

AbiBub · 20/06/2013 17:42

And that wasn't meant to post.... I hadn't finished!!

Welcome newbies :0) Hope you are all well! I have read the posts but my DS keeps distracting me, so sorry if this post sounds distant!

bartbaby - hope the headache goes! the weather is very close so it may be that? We need a good thunderstorm!!

catnaps I know what you mean about it feels like it will never happen, I think we all feel a bit like that for sure, hang in there, I am sure it will happen, and in the meantime come offload and rant here if you wish!

cool hope you have a fabby holiday, and keeping all pinkies crossed for you still! Smile

dildoos · 20/06/2013 17:48

I am certainly a complete nutcase on ttc#2 may I Join you please x

StoneBaby · 20/06/2013 17:50

Sorry for bot answering earlier had to dash to the GP as DS developed high temp (39.5) and became lethargic. All fine now.

As I suspected BFN. DH thinks the nausea is stress related and I think I so want to be pg that I'm inventing the symptoms. So no more POAS until Sunday Monday

dildoos · 20/06/2013 18:02

Sorry to hear ds unwell, not over til fat lady sings so could be just a little early, I poas all the time and today Wink bfn too not due til Sunday but still felt the desire to pee xx

AbiBub · 20/06/2013 18:03

sparkly welcome and sorry to hear af arrived - hang in there, at least you have a new cycle to look forward to for at least the fun bit of trying, dtd Grin Wink

fedup I hope your sis gets on ok with bubs #3. Remember that when it is your turn, it will be so much more special, and the wait will be worth it for sure, I hope you get your smiley soon so that dtd can commence - im keeping fx for you for the cycle, as always Smile

talla helllooo, glad you found us!! did you manage to dtd at any point possibly around time of ov though? Don't worry I stopped before I was supposed to (according to my plans, just bcos I couldn't do any more, feeling really drained in the last month, so I am surprised I managed to get any dtd done at all!!

Bart & muzzy - still keeping fx for both of you, seems like you have both covered the times when it should matter!!

I think I have replied to all?! Sorry if I missed you, there have been lot's of posts since I last came on!

OK, ok, so I caved yesterday afternoon, POAS ( well PIAC peed in a container) and it came up as a ..........BFN! dohhhhh, af not arrived this morning (which would have been the same length as my last cycle CD30) so I just thought, sod it, and used my fmu and result was.........BFN!!! I have little pains, but the weirdest thing was this afternoon, I had what I can only describe as tingly pins and needly type pinchy type pains in one boob (yep, just the one!!) it doesn't hurt, it just feels really weird. I have the normal loose feeling 'down below' that I normally get with AF, So I am just going to assume that AF will arrive at some point!! otherwise I am going to be completely confused.com!!

Phewf, sorry for the essay again!! Smile

AbiBub · 20/06/2013 18:08

Awwww stone sorry to here LO was poorly - is DS ok now, what did the gp say? I think I am going to challenge myself (if AF doesn't come on, which I think it might) to see how long I can go without testing again, I really disappointed myself with the results! We can do it, we can refrain from testing stone!!

dildoos hello, and welcome!! Hope you do get a BFP soon, try and sit on those hands till sunday Wink

dildoos · 20/06/2013 18:16

Thank you abi- I need my hands sawn off Grin I have had dull sort of period pains for 2 days so I know it must be on its way Hmm I just always like to hope Grin

StoneBaby · 20/06/2013 18:42

abi and dildo we can do it and survive the urge of testing until Sunday...

GP doesn't really know what happen to DS as every thing was fine. So I need to keep an eye on him tonight and get a wee sample.

dildoos · 20/06/2013 18:53

Oooo wee sample could be tricky? Potty cuddle maybe? Xx

StoneBaby · 20/06/2013 19:05

The potty has gone months ago (DS is 3yo) but we did try at the GP and he was happy to have his willy in the tube (sp) so fx he'll cooperate tomorrow am.

mrscookie78 · 20/06/2013 19:26

Hope he feels better soon stone!

I had itching/tingling odd feeling inside my boobs before I poas. its not over till af comes Alibub!

mrscookie78 · 20/06/2013 19:27

Make that Abibub not Alibub Grin

VikingLady · 20/06/2013 19:39

BFN this morning, but no AF yet today, and I've been pretty regular before. Plus I'm really painfully tired - good signs, right?

But been taking B6 so that could stretch my cycle. Trying not to get excited.

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BartBaby · 20/06/2013 19:41

Ive also had a shooting pain/tingly pain occasionly in my right boob. Only the right one though! Lol. Ive had it since ov day do im not thinking too much of it. But wierd eh?!

Good luck to all those poas soon. We have a few within the next week so we have to have some +ves in there somewhere! Im going to try to hold out until july at least the last few days of june its my ds birthday on the 30th so ive not decided if doing it before then is a good idea or bad idea...

abi my head is lots better thank you :) i think the awful humidity and not enough water is to blame!

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babyrose · 20/06/2013 20:53

Hi ladies! All settled in now but with no fridge freezer or washing machine or cooker cos they lovely people took them when weren't supposed too Angryah well...

So today I'm 5dpo and I notice wee bit more cm than usual this month so I checked and it's like hand lotion!!!! Is this a sign?! Sorry too much info.

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BartBaby · 20/06/2013 22:41

Hi ladies, ive just read something on a different thread that has concerned me quite a lot. Was wondering if any of you lovely ladies has had any experience with this...

Ive just read that someone has been told that after having the mirena coil taken out, it can take a number of months for the lining of the womb to build up enough blood each month so that is thick enough for the egg to embed itself. My last 2 af's have both only be 2 days long. Having read the other post im not wondering if my lining isnt thick enough for a little egg to get comfy and my af's are only short as there isnt much blood to shed.

Has anyone else had any experience of short af's?

I hope this isnt the reason that im not upduffed yet Hmm

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dildoos · 20/06/2013 22:52

I have amenorrhea and that gets rid of too much lining And I have a dd but have had 3 mcs trying for 2nd, I would have thought a shorter lighter af would have been better? But I am no gp just know that amenorrhea sheds too much x

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BartBaby · 20/06/2013 23:03

Ive read that it really needs to be a certain thickness for the egg to be able to implant. Ideally between 8-12mm. And anything less than that can make it harder to conceive. I would have thought a short period would indicate a thinner lining.

I doubt the doctors would check it yet or do anything about yet as i havent been trying long but its frustrating to think this could be a problem...

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