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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TTC after a miscarriage - springy BFPs for festive beanies

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mygirllolipop · 04/03/2006 15:26

Here's hoping for a shney new spring thread with lots of spring BFPs and some festive beanies so here's some sticky dust...
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Love and luck to all who need it, x

OP posts:

oinker · 25/03/2006 08:36

Good morning girlies.........

I still feel icky this morning..... Terrible windy evening I couldn't stop...

ruthlouise · 25/03/2006 08:37

good moring everyone

Hi Rubles - I'm around a lot at the mo as I'm off work still. A bit obsessed with checking forums to see if people have replied but it keeps my mind busy! Also think I'm a bit unrealistic thinking about ttc when Isaac only died last Friday.

I worry that if its true that you are more fertile straight after m/c that I might 'miss the boat'.
I don't think I could wait 3 months but we do have to go back to consultant for debriefing re late m/c and blood test results which were couriered to London - don't think that will show anything though - chance of another sub-amniotic bleed is prob 1 in a million, its so rare.

I think I'd like to get one of those OV microscopes but don't know which one - are they all the same? magnification etc? Which would people recommend?

I have a friend coming round this am and dh is here for the weekend too and we have to buy a new carpet (life goes on!) so that will keep me busy.

weewilliewinkie · 25/03/2006 09:09

Morning!

Hope you are all well today....

RL, my midwife told me just to do whatever felt right for me, whether that was to wait 3 months or start ttc straight away. She also said it's perfectly normal to want to be pregant again as soon as possible. Just try not to put any pressure on yourself, don't set yourself targets...it will all happen when it's meant to.

Oinker - what a lovely image - your windy pops! try drinking peppermint tea - it helps me!

Rubles - hello fellow Aries - my birthday is the 5th! We are going away for a few days with my best friend, her dh and their dog - can't wait!

rubles · 25/03/2006 09:09

Oinker, what are you saying....?!

oinker · 25/03/2006 09:30

Urmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Nothing!!!! Why?

ruthlouise · 25/03/2006 11:59

Hi again
I've just re-read part of the thread and realised I am repeating myself and all over the place. I'm sorry, not doing as well as I'd like to be. My friend came round, she's 7 months pregnant which is hard - I'm pleased for her but reminded me I'm not .

Piffle - thanks for answering the OV microscope question - I shall order one of those which you have as 60x magnification appears good.

Oinker - sorry, just realised u might be testing tomorrow - good luck for a christmas bundle of joy

oinker · 25/03/2006 13:20

Game over........
I got a BFP this morning. I'm not getting too exicted especially with my history.

Have posted my concerns on the chat thread for those of you who are interested and want to pass on some advice. x

weewilliewinkie · 25/03/2006 14:28

CONGRATULATIONS OINKER!!!!!

here's to a happy, healthy pregnancy!

ruthlouise · 25/03/2006 14:29

A BFP! Oh Oinker!!!! Sorry i don't know your history or how to find thev 'chat' thread on MN but a BFP is a BFP and thats made my day! So pleased for you. Congratulations.

rubles · 25/03/2006 16:37

Oh Oinker I thought that was what you were getting at!!! Well done you - that must be an edd of 5th December-ish mustn't it?

Ruthlouise - to check the chat thread go to the main topics page and go to the category 'Fun and Games' where there is a topic called _Chat. I'm not sure of the thread name but it'll be in there somewhere.

oinker · 25/03/2006 16:44

Yes that's right.......edd 3rd december.

Still early days yet. Only just 4 weeks. Don't want to get too excited just yet. i am being realistic.

HellKat · 25/03/2006 16:48

congrats Oinker!!!!

Posting congrats all over the place

oinker · 25/03/2006 16:49

are you following me......

Keep still... I am chasing you around this site.

oinker · 25/03/2006 16:50

maybe I'm following you.................

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mygirllolipop · 26/03/2006 12:56

congrats oinker your edd is 3days before my bday and ch's wed. aniv., best of luck.
ruthl - welcome you'll get good support here

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evenhope · 26/03/2006 17:32

Those who have had ERPC do you date the next AF from the op or the loss? After my first missed m/c I had the loss and the op on the same day and AF arrived exactly 4 weeks later. With this second one I had the loss on the Saturday and didn't have the op until the next Thursday.

I've had really sore itchy nipples, painful breasts, veins, the lot since Friday which is 3 weeks after I lost the sac (sorry if tmi) but only 2 weeks after the ERPC. I don't know if I'm adding 2+2 to make 17 but I caught a glimpse of the veiny and definitely enlarged boobs and thought 'you look pregnant'. Is it possible? Do I get to wait one week or two before finding out?

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rubles · 26/03/2006 18:59

Evenhope,

I am afraid I don't know what the answer is, but I did wonder the same as Ruthlouise when I read your post as I had hcg in my system for 3-ish weeks after I lost the egg sac and my miscarriage was deemed complete.

Have you had your hcg tested to < 5 by blood or had a negative pg test since the loss? If not then try to be cautious as it can take a while to drop completely it seems.

Piffle · 26/03/2006 20:32

oinker what lovely news petal, fingers crossed this time :)

ruthlouise · 26/03/2006 21:42

hi,
I have a bit of a personal question... Hope its not TMI but whats the chance of infection after a m/c? Should you wait until all loss has completely stopped b4 BD'ing

evenhope · 26/03/2006 23:03

No I haven't been checked at all, but bust had returned to normal (had 2 whole weeks when it didn't hurt!!!!!) and now it's started again. I thought once they'd cleared it all out there was nothing to influence the hgc levels?

Smole · 27/03/2006 10:38

I go away for a few days and look what happens - oinker gets a BFP! Fingers crossed this one sticks.

Welcome ruthlousie

How are you getting on Nikki?

How is everyone else??

Finally gave blood for my tests on Thursday so I've got the long wait for them to come back now!

FirstNikki · 27/03/2006 11:23

MORNING ALL!

Oinker - congrats again on your bfp

Evenhope - My loss (passing of "baby") happened 4 weeks on Tuesday, although I got away without having the erpc cos it was booked for the day after and things happened naturally the night before, and I too have developed extremely sore boobs and nips which were v painful just like pg, but I am sure I am not pg so putting mine down to hormones and possible af arriving.

Smole - I am not too bad ta. I would have been 6 months to the date today with my first pg had it continued so a bit of a anniversary day today for no. 1 angel. Angel no. 2 would have been 14 wks this friday too, oh well life is sent to try us. I have been more weepy of late especially yesterday being mothers day, although I am a step mum, the reminder was there I wasn't a bio mum and so want to be. Also saw someone who is 8 months pg on saturday and it just really upset me. So apart from that I am getting there thanks. How are you??

WWW and Rubles I am Aries too!

Nicola63 · 27/03/2006 13:14

I got my repeat thyroid test back today, continues to show evidence of hypothyroidism so I will start on thyroxine tomorrow.

I am glad in a way, maybe this is the answer to the two m/c's and will be they key to finally getting and staying pregnant; but it's also rather distressing to have a diagnosis of a chronic disease which means taking daily medication probably for the rest of one's life. Still, maybe being on the thyroid hormone will also make me less tired, and lose some of the weight I have unexpectedly and uncharacteristically picked up in the last year. I suppose it is better to know that there IS something wrong that one can treat.

So, onto the thyroid hormone, and next week will bd like mad as ovulation should be due.

Nicola63 · 27/03/2006 13:18

PS congrats oinker that is marvellous

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