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Hoping for a May BFP?

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curiousgeorgie · 01/04/2012 10:37

Had a search for a may BFP thread and couldn't see one (please correct me if there is!) so thought I'd start one..

curiousgeorgie - TTC #2 - Testing April 29th

Anyone with me?

OP posts:
toobreathless · 25/04/2012 10:48

winkle I have had no very symptoms at all with either pregnancy.
Pregnancy 1: (ectopic) realised in hospital at 6 weeks.
Pregnancy 2: (DD) found out fairly early. First symptoms (overwhelming tiredness) at 7 weeks.

There is hope :)

winkle2 · 25/04/2012 11:25

Thanks girls x

StephieFranks · 25/04/2012 11:44

Morning ladies - how are we all on this very soggy day?!

Got a question for you, those of you who use CB digis for opks do you always use FMU if you don't do you not pee for four hrs before using??

I've only got internet cheapies and at CD 25 with no positives and average cycle of 37 days i'm tempted to buy some today???? Confused

winkle2 · 25/04/2012 11:47

Hi Stephie,

I use the CB digis and test at 2.30 after not weeing or drinking for 4 hours! Its hard sometimes but worth it when you see that smiley face!

StephieFranks · 25/04/2012 12:01

Cheers Winkle, so have i read some where not to do the test with FMU? or i have totally made it up/ imagined it

So from half ten you don't have anything to drink?Shock OMG i don't think i could do that at work!! I guess if i can't do it with FMU then i'm going to have to work round that!

winkle2 · 25/04/2012 12:07

The CB digis say you can use FMU but all the others say you can't as the hormone surge needs to build up.

The reason I don't use FMU is because after using the OV sticks for a month and never getting a positive, I finally got a smiley on CD18 of the next month (so had been pissing on the damn things for 40ish days) and I got that smiley at 2.30 after not weeing or drinking for 4 hours so I stick to that rule! Superstitious maybe?!

I think sipping water is ok and if you cant hold in wee for 4 hours, try 3 hours?

Hai1988 · 25/04/2012 12:48

nothing new here ladies,

am on cd 20 and assume i am on the 2ww, but as no ov symptoms this month have no idea? Confused

tedmundo · 25/04/2012 13:00

Cd 17 for me and I am def on the 2 ww. Opk was not a strong line today and last night I had very strong ov pains. So as the egg only lives for 24 hrs there is no point DTD tonight as the egg will either already been fertilised or it has disintegrated.

Please be fertilised mr egg.

Winkle .. I think you should be positive as this 2 ww is truly the time of hope. Before ov then you are def not preg but right now you COULD be ... There is a strong chance and that does give me hope, even if I am a bit bonkers too.

Yes very soggy and CBA doing any cleaning. Morecoffeemorecoffee ... That is the only downside of SAHM ... You feel a bit guilty if house a tip when been in all day. I blame MN.

OpenMindedSceptic · 25/04/2012 14:16

yes utterly miserable day today... although wait, it is suddenly nice and sunny outside?! (will probably last 5 mins..)

stephie i also use CB digis and do it around 2pm after holding in urine for 4 hours.

aaaah, still no ovu, I do have a migraine however, which could mean ovu is near!

winkle2 · 25/04/2012 14:41

Thanks everyone, I'm just so sick of all this waiting and want to be a mum so desperately!

StephieFranks · 25/04/2012 14:54

The tea & coffee usually helps with the bordeom and hunger at work! Think i will do 6.30 POAS so as of now no peeing or drink Hmm. Just hope to God there is no traffic on the way home on motorway tonight, as i generally piss like a race horse anyway Blush TMI!

Will get DH to buy some CB digis on way home or maybe one last try with internet cheapies if i'm storing up my pee? Confused

winkle2 · 25/04/2012 15:24

I get my CB digis from Amazon or ebay as they are much cheaper. I have ordered some so if I don't need them next month (PLEASE GOD PLEASE) I'm happy to send them on to you for the price I paid for them. Think I paid a tenner for 7 sticks rather than £23 in the shops?

StephieFranks · 25/04/2012 16:02

Thanks Winkle but i'm impatient and hope against hope that surge should be today/ tomorrow as in theory should have ocurred by now on a 37 day cycle Confused Sad so will pay full price DH can stump up costs it is after all his payday today

winkle2 · 25/04/2012 16:23

ok good luck!

LittleMissSnowShine · 25/04/2012 17:52

hello ladies

hai, stephie, whenshewasbad - we should have our own separate club on this thread of women who may or may not have OV yet this month Confused

To re-iterate, keep calm and carry on shagging! Until AF arrives we're all in it to win it, woop!

winkle - i had no symptoms until about 5 or 6 weeks with DS, I'd been a bit tired and feeling the cold (but it was December in Belfast so not much of a surprise there really lol) but I only really guessed that I might be preg when I suddenly started feeling a pressing urge to wee every 5 mins. So no symptoms at this stage def does not mean no BFP!

ted - i'm part-time at work, part-time SAHM and my house is, therefore, only tidy 50% of the time. at best. hee. i blame DS but it's probably just me and DH being messy buggers Blush

StephieFranks · 25/04/2012 20:30

So CD 25 did my first CB digi (stored up my piss for over 4hrs) and still no smiley Sad seriously all i want to know now is that i ovulate is that too much to ask? Think i need to take my own advice of Keep Calm and Carry on Shagging Confused Grin

winkle2 · 25/04/2012 21:27

Hmmm stephie do you think you could have missed it this month by not reading the lines properly due to lack of experience? Only asking because that's what happened to me first month of using them - hence the switch to cb digis.

Are you dtd every other day anyway to cover yourself?

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 25/04/2012 22:09

Hi Littlemiss

It could be the what the hell is my body up to thread.

Am trying to be relaxed about the whole thing. Breastfeeding put the brakes on my reproductive system. Would be really lucky if the positive okp was true ovulation and obscenely lucky if I got pregnant first time.

curiousgeorgie · 26/04/2012 01:00

Hi everyone!

Well... Am I the first to cave and take a pg test!?

Negative of course. Dammit! Xx

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wishfulthinking1 · 26/04/2012 06:27

Rubbish curious- I'm sorry. When were you due to test?

Nothing new with me- on cd 13 and we've dtd cd8, 10 and 12 (last night was after a lengthy conversation about whether we were too tired or not!)

X

morecoffeemorecoffee · 26/04/2012 08:05

Grin at tedmundos Dh feeling like a lab rat! And yes, I worry about the house not being clean enough all the time!

Oh curiousgeorgie that's bad luck, but early so not out of a chance at the bfp yet!

winkle good luck testing Friday. I'm going to join you! Fingers crossed for us both! georgie are you testing again tomorrow? Let's hope we get 3 bfps!

I've convinced myself that this will be the month for me (again). Only possible symptoms so far are tiredness and have gone to bed early every night this last 5 days and teenager skin! That's it. Boobs a bit sore yesterday but not enough to call a symptom iyswim.

Just got to wait now.......

winkle2 · 26/04/2012 09:09

Wishful - love the 'odd' number cd's as they mean no bonking!

Testing tomorrow! Got mild cramps today and trying to convince myself that's baby snuggling in and not all the food I ate yesterday!

There's no reason why I shouldn't be preg this month. We've dtd a lot and on the right days plus we used conceive plus. We've cut right back on drinking and smoking. It's got to be my turn!

StephieFranks · 26/04/2012 09:20

Well Winkle i dunno?! Confused. Every opk i did there was most def only the control line visible and i started from CD 7 just in case with a random test thrown in around CD 4 just for good measure!!

Another temp drop this morning and lot of what feels like period pain?? wtf is going on

Maybe i have missed it, but no ewcm or temp rises to suggest so. I'm afraid i've been feeling a bit sorry for myself and it has done nothing for me wanting to dtd so doubt i'm covered Sad

Just have to wait and see what happens i guess! But i have been told that they will do more blood tests in Sept to see if i OV if it hasn't happened by then!

StephieFranks · 26/04/2012 09:39

FX for you tomorrow Winkle Smile

winkle2 · 26/04/2012 11:53

stephie - hopefully its just you OV late :)