April BFP thread

[winkle2]

CD 1 today and my last cycle was 34 days which means I'm due to test 6th April.

Anyone fancy joining me?

[winkle2]

OMG congrats Mrspear!

[Hai1988]

well if you cant stretch to the digital one, get a few cheapies and see if you get more bfps on them, if there all bfp's they can all be wrong

But does sound you are very much up duffed

[discobeads]

Congratulations mrs spear when are you due?!?!?

Still no AF here! Am having bad stomach pains though. IBS kind of pains. Ouchy.

Might have to get a test ....

[MrsPear]

Come on disco ... do the test. Due 2/01/2013!!!!

BUT am bloody scared 2 MCs plus a very prem baby = not much hope!

[MrsPear]

Yes going to do another test first thing tomorrow .. who would have know 2 for 99p!

[winkle2]

Hope u get an even stronger BFP tomorrow!

[RightUpMyRue]

Have you tested again MrsPear????

[winkle2]

I caved and tested. BF fricking N :( I'm so sick of this. I know I can go out tonight and drink wine now but I don't want to drink wine, I want a baby!

I see people around me ? including members of my own family ? getting pregnant really easily and then bringing them up, what I would call, in the wrong way yet me and hubs who are so good with kids and have planned how we will bring our kids up get nothing?! Maybe this is payback for me judging other people's parenting techniques :(

[discobeads]

Oh winkle, of course it's not payback :(

One day the more PERFECT of children will join your family, and you can give it all the love you have. No-one knows what is around the corner for any of us, so enjoy today, dream of tomorrow and regret nothing. Be kind to yourself, and enjoy your wine.

[winkle2]

Thanks disco that's so very kind of you :)

[Hai1988]

Anymore news?

[discobeads]

BFP here :) puts me at about 4 weeks pg, and due on 1/1/13 - making me 3 weeks behind my lovely sister (though she doesnt know yet) and due on her 30th birthday :) :)

[RightUpMyRue]

disco!!!!!! Congratulations!!!! What a New Years that'll be

[Hai1988]

Congratulations disco :)

[winkle2]

Congratulations disco! On the last day of the month too!

Did you do anything different this month? Any tips to pass on?!

[discobeads]

Did nothing different, except more sex, not just on my "green" days, but also earlier and later than i expected, in case my fertle days were not correct!!! I also stopped worrying and thinking about it. I am very OCD about things, so I planned my month out, what I would do each day with dd - invested time into her, and my business, and my pets etc. I had space scheduled at the end of the month to ponder about pegnancy, and not before!!

I always told myself that if I worried/thought about it too much it wouldn't happen, but if I took my mind off it, it might. No idea if it is true, but it worked for me! and this was my 4th month of trying :)

I will pop back on here every once in a while to see how you are all getting on, but I feel that May could be your month!

[RightUpMyRue]

More sex, it's the way to go.

Just keep on shagging!

[winkle2]

I have tried the more shagging technique (7 times in 11 days last month!) and STILL NOTHING arrrgggghhhh

Congrats again Disco :)

[discobeads]

dear god, thats going some winkle!! try it at different times, eg 2-4 days before and after your "fertile window" - because for me, my CM happened at 2 different times during my month, so i was never sure when i was actually fertile.

:)

[winkle2]

We dtd cd 8, 10, 12, 14, 16, 17 and 18! Perhaps we finished too early? Although we got our smiley on cd16 so thought we'd be covered?

Next month going to take your advice and dtd every other day. Starting on cd10 and finishing cd20.

:)

[discobeads]

or perhaps you started too late ;) hhah only joking, i dont think there is an exact science - isnt it funny how easy we all assume it is to get pregnant at 16ish? if only we knew ;)