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April BFP thread

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winkle2 · 03/03/2012 19:43

CD 1 today and my last cycle was 34 days which means I'm due to test 6th April.

Anyone fancy joining me?

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winkle2 · 26/04/2012 15:55

OMG congrats Mrspear!

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Hai1988 · 26/04/2012 18:10

well if you cant stretch to the digital one, get a few cheapies and see if you get more bfps on them, if there all bfp's they can all be wrong Smile

But does sound you are very much up duffed Grin

discobeads · 26/04/2012 18:13

Congratulations mrs spear Grin when are you due?!?!?

Still no AF here! Am having bad stomach pains though. IBS kind of pains. Ouchy.

Might have to get a test ....

MrsPear · 26/04/2012 21:17

Come on disco ... do the test. Due 2/01/2013!!!!

BUT am bloody scared 2 MCs plus a very prem baby = not much hope!

MrsPear · 26/04/2012 21:17

Yes going to do another test first thing tomorrow .. who would have know 2 for 99p!

winkle2 · 26/04/2012 22:58

Hope u get an even stronger BFP tomorrow!

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RightUpMyRue · 27/04/2012 11:51

Have you tested again MrsPear????

winkle2 · 27/04/2012 11:54

I caved and tested. BF fricking N :( I'm so sick of this. I know I can go out tonight and drink wine now but I don't want to drink wine, I want a baby!

I see people around me ? including members of my own family ? getting pregnant really easily and then bringing them up, what I would call, in the wrong way yet me and hubs who are so good with kids and have planned how we will bring our kids up get nothing?! Maybe this is payback for me judging other people's parenting techniques :(

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discobeads · 27/04/2012 19:38

Oh winkle, of course it's not payback :(

One day the more PERFECT of children will join your family, and you can give it all the love you have. No-one knows what is around the corner for any of us, so enjoy today, dream of tomorrow and regret nothing. Be kind to yourself, and enjoy your wine.

winkle2 · 28/04/2012 10:52

Thanks disco that's so very kind of you :)

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Hai1988 · 29/04/2012 10:32

Anymore news?

discobeads · 29/04/2012 21:14

BFP here :) puts me at about 4 weeks pg, and due on 1/1/13 - making me 3 weeks behind my lovely sister (though she doesnt know yet) and due on her 30th birthday :) :)

RightUpMyRue · 29/04/2012 21:31

disco!!!!!! Congratulations!!!! What a New Years that'll be Smile

Hai1988 · 30/04/2012 08:06

Congratulations disco :)

winkle2 · 30/04/2012 09:11

Congratulations disco! On the last day of the month too!

Did you do anything different this month? Any tips to pass on?!

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discobeads · 30/04/2012 15:11

Did nothing different, except more sex, not just on my "green" days, but also earlier and later than i expected, in case my fertle days were not correct!!! I also stopped worrying and thinking about it. I am very OCD about things, so I planned my month out, what I would do each day with dd - invested time into her, and my business, and my pets etc. I had space scheduled at the end of the month to ponder about pegnancy, and not before!!

I always told myself that if I worried/thought about it too much it wouldn't happen, but if I took my mind off it, it might. No idea if it is true, but it worked for me! and this was my 4th month of trying :)

I will pop back on here every once in a while to see how you are all getting on, but I feel that May could be your month!

RightUpMyRue · 30/04/2012 16:59

More sex, it's the way to go.

Just keep on shagging!

winkle2 · 30/04/2012 17:14

I have tried the more shagging technique (7 times in 11 days last month!) and STILL NOTHING arrrgggghhhh

Congrats again Disco :)

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discobeads · 30/04/2012 19:48

dear god, thats going some winkle!! try it at different times, eg 2-4 days before and after your "fertile window" - because for me, my CM happened at 2 different times during my month, so i was never sure when i was actually fertile.

:)

winkle2 · 30/04/2012 22:01

We dtd cd 8, 10, 12, 14, 16, 17 and 18! Perhaps we finished too early? Although we got our smiley on cd16 so thought we'd be covered?

Next month going to take your advice and dtd every other day. Starting on cd10 and finishing cd20.

:)

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discobeads · 30/04/2012 22:04

or perhaps you started too late ;) hhah only joking, i dont think there is an exact science - isnt it funny how easy we all assume it is to get pregnant at 16ish? if only we knew ;)

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