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TTC after a miscarriage - Wishing everyone shed loads of love, luck and babydust xxxx

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Coathanger · 22/01/2006 17:57

Ahhhhh, thats better!

A nice, shiney new thread! All fast and efficient!

Heres hoping this thread brings more BFPs, keep everything crossed it does (except legs...don't be crossing your legs ladies!!)

oh and here it is

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twocatsonthebed · 01/03/2006 08:58

morning everyone, how goes it? And hello g4p - was slumped in front of Gordon Ramsay last night in a post-pancake stupor!

It's snowed like mad down here; I was almost thinking about not going in to work, but sadly the roads seem to have been cleared...

And Nikki - hope today is as good as can be expected.

Piffle · 01/03/2006 09:00

Hope you're ok today Nikki, take care and hopefully everything goes ok.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Smole · 01/03/2006 09:04

Morning all. No snow here.

G4P those cyber pancakes filled with melted nutella sound really good.

Good luck to day Nikki

mygirllolipop · 01/03/2006 09:08

Morning,
Nikki - thinking of you 2day.
Well pancake party not so bad, few tears and tantrums but what do you expect with 7 kids? We had jam and clotted cream on ours - OMG!
Was naughty and did a test as af not here but BFN. I know it could be too early but soo hoping for this month. Sad

FirstNikki · 01/03/2006 10:08

Morning Ladies,

Sorry I am just going to paste my post from another thread.

"There has been change and I had a weird sureal experience last night. I passed my baby last night and I rang hospital and they asked me to take it to them, the ward sister was very nice. I was right and they are sending it to be tested, for what I am not sure but I have asked if I can see the report. They gave me check over and neck of womb was closed so just got a scan tomo morning at 930 to check all clear. Means no need for erpc today. Feeling really strange but sort of at peace??

Have booked for my hair to be done tomo afternoon which is well overdue. Really surprised and shocked with what happened and how I feel."

hope you are all well today.

mygirl sorry about bfn, lets hope af stays away...clotted cream hey yum

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Coathanger · 01/03/2006 16:35

Hello everyone:)

Been at college today and I'm knackered!

Nikki - have posted on chat thread for you hun :)

Mygirl - :( about BFN but there is still hope - as long as AF isn't here then there is a chance :)

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mygirllolipop · 01/03/2006 16:44

Well have moped around all day after BFN but DH took the day off work and took me shopping.

Nikki - I hope this does in some way give you peace and of course it means you don't have to have the procedure done. It's good that the hospital are doing tests too, so if there is something wrong they can see to the problem straight away. I just hope this was the least traumatic and painful that it could be for you Nikki. You are still in my thoughts.

FirstNikki · 01/03/2006 16:49

Thanks ladies.

mygirl DH was good bless him taking time off work for you. hope you enjoyed your day.

Any more testers out there with mygirl or are we at the beginning of the cycles??

G4P did your af arrive a few weeks ago?

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Coathanger · 01/03/2006 17:04

CD13 here I think. My last AF was a slow started so not sure whether to count CD1 as the day i saw the first bit of blood however light it was, or the day it became "proper". What do you think?

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FirstNikki · 01/03/2006 17:06

hehehe I am chasing you around the boards here CH! lol

I would go with the first bit of bleed cos sometimes we are bleeding that light that it isn't actually come out so to speak Blush and add some days around ov time for bd'g...any excuse for bd hey Wink

FirstNikki · 01/03/2006 17:07

well, although not ttc'g at mo guess after last nights events cd1 for me was yesterday looking back at last time that worked right. Although I fully understand I could be waiting sometime now for this 1st af to arrive.

mygirllolipop · 01/03/2006 17:07

CH - I'd say full swing although it depends on how long it was light for.
Oh and after DH worked hard at retail therapy-ing me up, I went to the loo and had some thick CM and then on wiping some EWCM. AArgghh what is going on?!
Nikki - is your DH able to get any time off soon for you?

FirstNikki · 01/03/2006 17:10

hmmm mygirl I wonder what is going on??

DH has Friday off and I have tomo and friday off too now so we will spend friday together. I will be scan, hair colour and cut and retail therapy for me tomo so I will be keeping busy.

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Coathanger · 01/03/2006 17:11

Well, I started the very light bleeding on the thursday and it got heavier, more like a normal period, on the Saturday so I think I will count Friday as CD1 :)

Mygirl - Cm might be pre-AF or even PG CM.....

LOL at chasing me around the threads, Nikki Grin

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FirstNikki · 01/03/2006 17:16

it could be a new came of TIG! Smile

mygirllolipop · 01/03/2006 20:47

I know what you two mean about chasing people around the threads!
Heaven only knows what my CM is up to, although I remmeber posting about it before, turning up a ew days before af, not holding out much hope now nad am starting to feel gutted with trying. I know I said I wouldn't get like this but it's been about 5 months (4 cycles) which I know isn't as long as other people have been trying but I'm just bored of it now!
Anyway mope over, DD1 is ona trip to a tile museum 2moro so gonna make her bate soon.

oinker · 01/03/2006 20:52

I know what you mean.........

I am seriously starting to beleive this will never happen for me Sad Sad
I have really tried to be positive but it's sooooooo draining! I tried to have a chat with DH and he got upset so I think I will at least wait for my next hospital appointment... Sad

HellKat · 02/03/2006 07:46

Morning all.
Oinker- {{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}} it will happen hun. Just for some reason it's taking it's time. I was 110% sure I'd stopped ov and was booked in for surgery and look at me. You can't give up sweety.

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For everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxx

diddle · 02/03/2006 07:51

Oinker - your time will come mate. The longer your body is waiting the more prepared it will be for caring for your little baby. I truly believe that there is a reason for everything and your body is obviously not quite ready yet.
How long have you been trying since?
I know that it is probably stressing you out as well, that may have something to do with it, stress can effect it greatly as you know.
whats happening with the miscarriage clinic? have they said or done anything to help? sorry brain cells depleting, i know i should know the answer to that already, just remind me quickly Smile

Debbsy · 02/03/2006 08:12

Morning ladies is it ok if i rejoin your thread again please?

HellKat · 02/03/2006 08:16

Hiya Debsy!! Welcome back Grin

diddle · 02/03/2006 08:18

debbsy - of course you can join, you don't need to ask. hows things?

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Coathanger · 02/03/2006 08:49

Hey! Debsy! How are you hun?

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mygirllolipop · 02/03/2006 08:57

Hey Debsy glad you came over here, saw your thread on tips to get pg - do u think any of it will be useful? I hope so I want to see us all graduating from here! Welcome back honey. Grin

twocatsonthebed · 02/03/2006 09:13

Hello everyone on this very cold morning!

Oinker - I know exactly what you mean, I was really starting to feel that it wasn't going to happen for me and, turning 40, that my time was running out for good.

And it's almost impossible not to stress about it, even though that doesn't help. I think one of the things that made a difference to me was def going to a reflexologist - I don't know if the reflexology works or not for fertility, but it definitely relaxed me (and I think it also helps to be doing something for yourself too).