Freak out room for those newly updiffed after MC to hold hands and support each other...

[YourFriendBrian]

Hello!

Newly updiffed and freaking out about spotting, cramping, the wait until your first scan and each little twinge? Settle in for lots of hand holding and supprt until you're ready to move to grads.

Lots of love
Brian x

Gah! Brian's making his presence known in my life this week. Just dashed to the airport thinking I was late to collect dh only to find I'm an hour early for his flight!

Gah! Brian's making his presence known in my life this week. Just dashed to the airport thinking I was late to collect dh only to find I'm an hour early for his flight!

emoo intrigued by the random taxi delivered drugs and shifty characters coming to your door!!

LOL at brian coming along and being a pest at wombat's house!

So pleased to hear about more good scans.

emoo v exciting to get a drive by anti-d puncture

dachs twins and no symptoms - also gives me and my symptomless pregnancy some reassurance.

Made it to the end of another working week. Ds a little under the weather, so may spend most of tomorrow cuddling on sofa (secretly pleased).

congrats dachs so pleased its good news

My croissant mix only made 9... but don't tell DH as he thinks it was 6... [oops emoticon]

crumpet not croissant... Brian stop mucking about with my vocabulary...

Wombat you are making me laugh so much this week... you and Brian

Emoo & wombat whoop whoop whoop (1 for each bean)

Who is being scanned tomorrow along with teacake & Pink ? Good luck all

lady if you're lurking, I hope you are ok xx

Hairy if you are lurking, likewise, I hope you are doing alright xx

emoo I like your counter argument for my tooty fruity addiction being acceptable, up yer bum Brian

Pink my karma comes from not trying to control that which can not be controlled!

mummy glad you've ditched the whities

Hey nix I can't wait to feel the bean... how exciting

waves to owl AR onions orange daisy digi velvet Irene and anyone I missed

righteo, I'm off to join love with some slob sofa action

damn it, I knew i missed someone, thanks for distracting me Brian...

mamap that is what I keep trying to repeat over and over in my head, except there's a competing shouty voice that keeps yelling "but I want it to work sooooooo muuuucccccchhhhhhh" - do you have this?? How do you make it shush?? I had a bit of a strop this morning because I trotted happily to Tescos thinking of tooty fruities and they didn't bloody sell them!!! So I had fruit mentos which were a rubbish substitute....

Do you reckon she was pregnant: crazed mum

oooh mammap splendid snog action

oh pinks we all have that voice hon. I am just enjoying being pregnant today and looking forward to each tomorrow and the future and I can't/won't get wound up about something that may or may not happen, because it won't stop it happening... what will be will be, whether I like it or not. I refuse to let that murky voice in my head ruin my pregnancy... it's a toughy
I can understand your upset at fruit mentos substitute... eeeew, they don't come close!

why thank you knitter not bad yourself

PMSL Pink most definitely updiffed. My crazy friend at Uni once did a full on toddler tantrum in a supermarket once (primarily to freak me out) Little did she know that as the Aunt of 13 nephews and nieces I was well versed in tantrums and simply stepped over her - very bewildered onlookers!

I am feeling the same conflicting mantras Pink - I have a feeling for me it is just going to be time. I keep saying to myself - 'There is nothing I can do to change the outcome, so let go of it'.

If you need a good laugh - head over to the Life Lessons in discussions of the day.

I am lurking, yes . God I'm such a pregnancy junkie, I love all the pregnant chat, it's one of the things that pisses me off so much about the miscarriages - I'm a really good preggo Oh well, maybe I'll get my chance later this year (crosses fingers)

Glad to see more good scans, I really hope it continues.

I had my ERPC yesterday, and it all went smoothly - lovely lovely consultant and anaesthetist and very sympathetic nurses. Emotionally, Tuesday was rough and today has been ok, but a bit teary while putting the maternity clothes that I'd just found and taken down from the cupboard back in their box .

I'm not giving up hope, but am feeling very sad that there won't be an addition to our family this year - my dearest wish now is that I'll see the year out pregnant and happy in our new country.

I'll be hanging about I'm sure...thanks for thinking of me, it does mean a lot.

Oh by the way, i cant remember who posted it but the thought of your little boy being chuffed with his dinosaur pants has made me smile all day :) such a sweet story!

LadyB fab to 'see' you Glad you made it through today. It is truly crappy and I hope you get a lovely Christmas pressie or at least a lovely bump to be rubbing. When do you head off?

Really lovely to see you lady, am so glad the ERPC went as well as it could. I'll toast you seeing out the year diffed and loving life in NZ xx

cheers to that pink

Pink it was my DS with the new pants

Lady lovely to hear from you and I hope, hope, hope that your wishes and dreams come true... Will be looking out for you on the pg threads later in the year....

Fecking cat, just tried to kill me! she ladder-esque climbed up the shelves then promptly fired the bloody large photo albums off the top one whilst i was sitting at the desk 10 feet below..now is trying to murder a plastic bag and chew the phone wire while shes at it... obviously run out of rabbits to murder. This is 1kilo cat btw

Lady great to see you on here, welcome anytime my sweet. Glad its over and done with, hope your emotional recovery doesnt take too long xx Well done you for being so chipper xxx

for those who are brave and strong enough to not let fear ruin their pg enjoyment xxx inspiring :)

lady you amaze me with your strength and spirit I wish for you, that your wish comes true xxx

Onions I'd put on 8lbs in first 12 weeks glad the crumpets helped, good idea for carb stash
Daisy glad you have a good MW who is doing something to help
Pink excellent news on the puking, long may it continue :) I'd do wee pot, they made me wee on a multicolor strip which didn't do last time, and my aim ain't that good! I'm gonna try the link to the 10 week stats stats says 99.4% for hb at 10 weeks
Emoo great news on the scan!! :) :) and good news too they don't want to see you til 12 weeks
AandR that sounds adorable :) hopefully you'll be puking in no time too
Dachs great news for you too!! :) :) and good you got MS reassurance
Bee (((hugs))) I do hope you get your wish, and there is no reason why you won't x

I haven't been sleeping, and last night was terrible, had red blood dream :( I've felt relaxed about the scan but obviously naughty subconscious isn't. My apps at 4.40 so if all ok I'll sleep after that

Fx for the other scanners and their beans x

morning! It.s another manic day here so just a v quick one to send lots of lovely squishy hugs to bee xxx

Good luck to orange and any other scanners today!

Have been thinking of you this last week, dear, and hoping you're okay. Very glad you had lovely hospital people to care for you. x

I quite fancy some fruit mentos now.

Good luck today all with scans!