Freak out room for those newly updiffed after MC to hold hands and support each other...

[YourFriendBrian]

Hello!

Newly updiffed and freaking out about spotting, cramping, the wait until your first scan and each little twinge? Settle in for lots of hand holding and supprt until you're ready to move to grads.

Lots of love
Brian x

red bleeding this morning and cramps all day so far. seeing doc this afternoon :( maybe it's a judgment for freaking out yesterday when there was nothing to really worry about

pink hope you feel better later

wombat FX for your scan tomorrow

sorry - I know I've forgotten lots of you - I'm being crap at the moment. Brain overload.

Just a quickie dacha you poor thing that must be really stressful :( of course it's not judgement though, don't think like that. Fingers crossed all still ok.

Thanks for being so lovely everyone-I've bumped mondays scan to tomorrow and I think that must have been what I was worrying about as feel so much better now.

Back to namecheck later xxxx

Dachs let us know how it goes at the doc's, hope all is well (((hugs)))

Big hugs dachs I hope everything is ok

Gah,,,, no it's not insensitive! To those having personality disorders I am with you! Cried at master chef last night and the news this morning!
To those cramping, hope and am sure they are just stretches:)

Dachs I'm so sorry you arebleeding, nothing to do with yesterday xx hope you can get your feet up and let us know what the doctor says xx

Velvet it's normal to get it when you poop! :) good idea making a note though xx

Bee... You have been in my thoughts all day my love. I hope you are having lots of Ds snuggles and being looked after in rl xxx

Pink... You work long hours are you overtiredand ratty as well?

Velvet when I was getting my brown goo a lot came when I went to the loo as you describe, I think it's the muscle actions that are close by that do it. The only pattern I noticed was I'd get more first thing, and assumed it was because I had been lying down. Good plan to wait, a scan now might worry you unnecessarily. Why does the waiting have to be so tough though?! Your DH needs to remember your hormones are all over the place, and apart from that it's only natural to be so worried/upset

Oh Dachs I'm sorry this is happening, it may just be implantation blood that has been dislodged by your pups growing. I hope your dr either refers you or puts your mind at ease. It is not judgment for yesterday, you're pg - your emotions and sanity are all over the place - mine are!

Good luck for this afternoon Dachs I hope the doc can put your mind at rest and the bleeding stops xxx

Nosing in through window at the moment. bfp this morning, but af is due this weekend so waiting to see what happens.

bee so sorry about your news.

dachs good luck at the dr's.

welcome cep :)

Cep oh congratulations! :) Mummya I wanted to congratulate you more but it seemed inappropriate at the time, sorry but I am so pleased for you both

I'm back from my course and already feel happier at the thought of sleeping in my own bed tonight :)
Note to self: tuck in dangly necklace when being sick - eww!

DH has relented and let me book a private scan at the place Mamap kindly recommended for next Friday. Now I'm thinking I've jinxed it, and rather not know, but that's silly. No such thing as jinxing and better to know sooner than later. Plus just opened a tax rebate which pretty much covers the cost to the £

thanks dachs definately need to wait until af date passes.

cep I thought that too but a) I needed to mental before then and b) it doesnt get any easier after it has passed!

Crashing again to wish Dachs well for this afternoon. That must be really worrying, hope all is well and you get some reassurance

Dachs hope doctor is sensible when you see him - fx for the pups.

cep excited to hear you're heading over - lovely news - we need some good news at the moment

No news with me today - been up the allotment enjoying the weather and planting garlic

moo u r not crashing, there are quite a few on this thread that have been grateful of your warm supportiveness, like so many others who pop along including jolls izzy yrmotb BB et al ... we couldn't do this without you all swinging by

orange you know there's no such thing as 'jinxing' it I am wondering whether I can hold on until 12 weeks (8+2 today) or whether to also book a private one for 10 weeks?! Shall ponder on it for a while.

dachs am keeping fx all is well

lady thinking of you lots xxx

cep congrat's again, c'mon in

waves to nix pink velvet wombat and anyone else around this afy

thinking of you Dach

Velvet I am bleeding too. AF due today and because my periods are getting lighter and lighter I think I might not be able to tell the difference between period and spotting Getting more bloods done tomorrow, so I can get put out of my misery/reassurance tomorrow. I am recording it in FF in the notes section in ridiculously great detail

oh mummya thats rubbish for you. fx its just bean wriggling in deep :)

(((Hugs))) and firmly crossed fingers for Dachs and MummyA and any other crampers/bleeders out there this afternoon.

Congrats cep - lovely to see you here, and I hope your stay is long and uneventful. Welcome to the mentalling!

Congratulations cep lovely to see more newcomers

mummya thinking of you

also lurking for news of dachs

Am off to acupuncture in a bit, hoping to feel a bit more pg afterwards as really haven't felt ANYTHING today. Scan at 11:30 tomorrow morning. Would feel so much more secure if I could just have some symptoms.

Still double diffed! :)

Consultant is adorable fab and lovely and said I can go see him whenever I want!

There was no sign of the bleeding coming from the sac so it looks like it was old blood, even though some of it was red. Not sure how that works but consultant seemed happy.

Have arranged to go back next week

Fab news Dach have been lurking for your news!